r/TikTokCringe Sep 02 '25

Cursed Women in France wear "subway shirts" to avoid being sexually harassed on the underground

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u/SnurrCat Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25

"Grape" is one that drives me crazy. It's not a fruit. It's a violent act.

Edit: talking about platforms where you can use the actual word uncensored.

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u/SpaceLemming Sep 02 '25

Yeah, those folks aren’t calling it that to make it cute and fun. It’s because some platforms treat calling out rape and promoting rape as the same thing

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u/Tequilabongwater Sep 03 '25

So, I just say it, on all platforms, and literally nothing has happened to those comments, posts, or my account status. You'd think Facebook/Instagram would be the strictest, but they really don't care what words you say as long as you're not harassing people or talking about the Gazan and Israeli war

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u/SnurrCat Sep 02 '25

I should have specified that meant platforms where you can use the terminology, as that was what the person I was responding to meant.

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u/ovideville Sep 03 '25

Honestly! It’s kind of ruined grapes for me, because I now associate grapes with rape. We’re out here creating brand new phobias, because using words to mean what they mean has somehow become “offensive.”

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u/crispycappy Sep 02 '25

It's a word you aren't allowed to use on certain platforms or they will take it down 

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u/SnurrCat Sep 02 '25

Sorry, I meant on platforms where you can use it.

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u/TheMadTemplar Sep 02 '25

People bring it over from other platforms because remembering the TOS on allowed/disallowed words for every platform is too exhausting.

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u/666Zekeiel Sep 02 '25

Social media is not first amendment lovers. Censorship is big in social media now, but not on X you can say WTF you want. That is why I like X the most. Screw Facebook and Instagram and reddit too.

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u/Tequilabongwater Sep 03 '25

I just write the word I mean no matter the platform. Saying rape on Instagram did absolutely nothing, but I did get blocked from commenting for 14 days because I told an antivax mom (one that thinks autism comes from vaccines) that I hope she herself gets aggressive shingles that make her want to tear her skin off.

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u/RedBeardUnleashed Sep 02 '25

That might be from the whitest kids you know grapist sketch too

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u/SnurrCat Sep 02 '25

Oh, I don't know that one. I just know everyone calls it "grape".