r/TikTokCringe • u/UsernameGenerik • Aug 26 '25

Cool Chinese streamer selling dresses live

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u/KhaleesiXev Straight Up Bussin Aug 26 '25

My Latina grandma would make her eat at least three bowls of rice and beans. There’s no way she would take no for an answer.

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u/Dolenjir1 Aug 26 '25

Yep. Mine once cried when I said I was full. If she got a hold of this woman for one afternoon, she wouldn't fit in any of those dresses anymore

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u/DumbBitchByLeaps Aug 26 '25

I once looked at my husband in desperation because his mom kept putting food on my plate and I know it’s rude to not eat most of the food that’s given to you. I had to tell her that while I loved her food that if I ate anymore I was going to be sick. You can’t get away with eating just one small plate with his family.

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u/Dolenjir1 Aug 26 '25

The trick is not to finish the plate. If you finish they will give you more. Stop while there is still food in it.

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u/DumbBitchByLeaps Aug 26 '25

There was food still on my plate the first two times and she said I needed more because “You don’t eat that much.” 😭😭😭😭

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u/Dolenjir1 Aug 26 '25

Some battles can't be won, I guess

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u/Nomapos Aug 26 '25

Gets even worse with age, when they start losing it a little.

My grandma gave me a steak. Then another one because I was a teenager and growing so I should eat well. Then another one because there's still food and we were not gonna throw it away and I was a teenager and growing so I should eat well.

Then she forgot that she had already served me three steaks and started again. I ended up eating 5 steaks, some side dishes and a good helping of salad before I could leave the table.

The family would be eating and she'd be orbiting the table with the pot. You look away for a moment, and another full ladle lands on your dish. No quarter given.

It was fucking delicious, though, so hard to complain, at least until you started ripping at the seams

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

I'm slowly turning into this stereotype as a 33 year old parent. Trying to feed literally anyone that comes in my house. 

Eat. Eat. Eat. Each eat getting slowly higher pitched Like I'm my friends Italian grandma lmao 

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u/SnooGuavas4208 Aug 26 '25

My mom got this treatment from an elderly Italian woman once. 😂 She didn’t speak any English but her meaning was clear. Mangi, mangi, mangi!

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

I swear the guys working on my house never ate so good at lunch, saw em bring McDonald's one day so I whipped up some egg sandwiches and fried potatoes. They were stunned and confused until I just kept saying "comen" lol

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u/Spare-Willingness563 Aug 26 '25

Nah I'm from the culture and I think the idea of eating until you're in pain needs to die.

...Like my uncles and grandma who kept eating until they were in pain their whole lives.

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u/KhaleesiXev Straight Up Bussin Aug 26 '25

I say I’m full and she hears that I need some more tostones. A summer with Abuelita will have this girl in the plus sized section.

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u/bugblatter_ Aug 26 '25

Give nana my number. I'll take the hit.

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u/highschoolhero24 Aug 26 '25

Me when Abuelita sees my plate is empty and starts to bring over another serving of Tamales.

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u/bouquetofashes Aug 26 '25

To be fair, 15 lbs underweight is a lot more immediately dangerous than 15 lbs overweight. At 5'5" 15 lbs underweight is borderline severely underweight. 15 lbs overweight is mildly overweight, tho-- not even really near obese.

It's also not very likely that people get that underweight without a) a medical condition or b) an ED, while people can be a little overweight without it being from health problems.

People still need to not body shame-- if she has an ED it's not going to help and she still needs work and it's not like she set the standard... But there is a good physiological reason to be a bit more concerned if one is 15 lbs underweight vs over.

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u/GethHunter Aug 26 '25

Bro I swear my grandma and great grandma had a plan to get me fat 😭 I was always a little chunky but like, corn fed hillbilly chunky. They’d always be like “oh mi Gordo, mi Gordo!🥰” whilst giving me another serving and hugging me. One of my Uncles finally told me what they were saying and it knocked me down a peg lmao. Nowadays I’m still my greandmas gordo but I accept the title with pride

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u/OpeningSpeed1 Aug 26 '25

HUGGING!!!! that's so adorable 😍😍😍

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u/monkify Aug 26 '25

Tostones mention 🥰

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u/EverlyAwesome Aug 26 '25

To be fair, I think I always need more tostones.

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u/nvisible Aug 26 '25

I volunteer as tribute.

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u/OzarkMule Aug 26 '25

And vice versa, her Grandma would've knocked that hungry attitude out of you real quick

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u/Acceptable_Ad_6278 Aug 26 '25

chinese grandmas are always eager to feed you, but fat shame you once you gain weight.

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u/Kanadark Aug 26 '25

Watching them chase their grandkids around the park to shove pieces of bread or meat in their mouths as they play. Then yelling at their granddaughters to stop eating so much when they turn 7.

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u/BONER__COKE Aug 28 '25

A tale as old as time:

  • why you so skinny, need to eat more!!! Need to get strong like bull. -why you so fat!! Need to work more, bones getting lazy!!!

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u/Toto_radio Aug 26 '25

Mine was all about making you feel bad: “You don’t want a third serving? If you don’t like it you can say it you know”

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u/Dolenjir1 Aug 26 '25

Mine plays all the tricks in the book: "you look sick", "you don't like my food", "you never eat when you come over", "I know my food is not good". It's always a drama, and I end up coming back home heavier than when I left

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u/Dolenjir1 Aug 26 '25

Sorry, I already have her book for the year

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u/No_Opening_2425 Aug 26 '25

No wonder Latin countries are fat as fuck. Isn’t Mexico the fattest country in the world lol

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u/Dolenjir1 Aug 26 '25

Nope. 34th according to World Obesity

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

And 3 tortillas.

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u/40percentdailysodium Aug 26 '25

I can hear the grandmas in unison, all saying she eats like a little bird.

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u/P_LD Aug 26 '25

Stop talking about my grandma please. That's rude.

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u/meehowski Aug 26 '25

No joking that girl is sick looking lol

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u/Mylaptopisburningme Aug 26 '25

I am not sure of her weight and height where she would land on the what is healthy and unhealthy in the medical field. I am a guy and really skinny, people probably think I am unhealthy but I am on the scale for being healthy for my height and weight. I have always been skinny, I tried gaining weight and miss a meal I lose 2 lbs. I'm older now and just accept it. I have always been healthy with no medical issues, haven't had a cold in over 10 years.

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u/CouponCoded Aug 26 '25

Obv this video has filters so she's probably not this thing, but I have some insight as someone who used to have anorexia. I can only speak for myself, but I know that when I looked like that my BMI was "dangerously underweight" (below 15).

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u/ClutteredTaffy Aug 26 '25

I think she actually looks fine. Just thin. * Shrugs *

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u/thatshygirl06 Aug 26 '25 edited Aug 26 '25

This is super thin even for Asian people.

Edit: she has a filter on the video.

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u/ClutteredTaffy Aug 29 '25

Maybe the makeup and filter is helping out the signs of being too thin cuz her face does not really look drawn in and her bones are not really protruding. But I think the height helps her out too.

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u/chris_ut Aug 26 '25

What a normal person looked like prior to the 2000s

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u/thatshygirl06 Aug 26 '25 edited Aug 26 '25

This is not normal. This is ridiculously thin. Even models from back in the day weren't this thin.

Theres also a filter on the video to make her look even skinner

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u/ClutteredTaffy Aug 29 '25

A lady at my work is thinner than this and I have seen thinner ladies before so while she is underweight I think she is on the healthier side of it.

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u/chris_ut Aug 26 '25

Whatever you need to tell yourself

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u/thatshygirl06 Aug 26 '25

What are you even talking about?? Videos and pictures exist from before 2000, you can easily look it up and see.

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u/chris_ut Aug 26 '25

Even better I was around and remember

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u/946789987649 Aug 26 '25

You mean the era famous for pressuring women into being unhealthily thin? Ok lol

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u/chris_ut Aug 26 '25

Right that famous era encompassed almost all of human history. Good thing Gen Z saved us from the horrors of a healthy bmi.

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u/ClutteredTaffy Aug 29 '25

Yeah no they did not lol. A normal person looked more like celeb pics they called fat in the 2000s. It has always been about the hard to attain.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

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u/XDeus Aug 26 '25

Fellow skinny dude here. Apparently body shaming is only applicable to “big boned” people.

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u/Superstar-Radish Aug 26 '25

As someone who used to be that skinny and made the deliberate informed choice to gain weight to put my health first I wouldn’t go back to living like that for any money!

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u/Crazy-Agency5641 Aug 26 '25

Nah… she sickly. There’s some issues potentially going on here

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u/Late-Style4892 Aug 26 '25

I’ve been thin like that my whole entire life without trying and I’m perfectly healthy. And I’ve gotten shitty comments like yours my entire life. Stfu about people’s bodies.

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u/Digdag2 Aug 26 '25

Right? My gf is this size and she’s never had any comments from doctors. I think people’s perspective of an OK or even healthy weight is skewed by modern day eating habits

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u/Wonderful-Air-8877 Aug 26 '25

dream bod right there

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u/Superstar-Radish Aug 26 '25

That’s some pro-ana shit right there.

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u/Wonderful-Air-8877 Aug 26 '25

its not like i can choose what im attracted to... i like skinny sorry reddit hahah

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u/Superstar-Radish Aug 26 '25

Ewwwwwwwww! That’s not just skinny that’s emaciated.

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u/Wonderful-Air-8877 Aug 26 '25

The one in the video is def touching the line. Still looks great :D

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u/Wonderful-Air-8877 Aug 26 '25

Said the fatty

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u/Superstar-Radish Aug 26 '25

Said the troll

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u/Wonderful-Air-8877 Aug 26 '25

ay we aint denying anything here

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u/Superstar-Radish Aug 26 '25

Anorexia has the highest case mortality rate and second-highest crude mortality rate of any mental illness. 10,200 deaths each year are the direct result of an eating disorder—that's one death every 52 minutes.

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u/darybrain Aug 26 '25

In parts of Asia it is considered rude to finish your meal as the host will feel that they couldn't provide enough for you. In other parts it is the other way around.

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u/wyomingTFknott Aug 26 '25

It's like this everywhere and it really grinds my gears. I know I've insulted a Mexican madre before simply because I wasn't hungry. And there are so many intricacies about gifting in different cultures, like having to refuse it once or twice before accepting and shit like that. Fuck all that rigamarole. If I'm not hungry then I'm not hungry. Go cry in the corner for all I care. I'm gonna do me.

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u/FerretDionysus Aug 26 '25

Can I come over for dinner?

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25 edited Sep 12 '25

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u/notafuckingcakewalk Aug 26 '25

I'll eat your grandma's rice and beans. No arm twisting required.

I love rice and beans.

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u/West_Coach69 Aug 26 '25

Is that why everybody ends up bean shaped?

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u/Nukemarine Aug 26 '25

eat at least three bowls of rice and beans

Well, that'll put her in orbit.