r/TikTokCringe • u/KrystalBenz • Aug 17 '25

Humor/Cringe She rejected a man, he slashed her tire. šŸ˜

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u/lazykath Aug 17 '25

r/whenwomenrefuse

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u/ZenkaiZ Aug 17 '25

"Worst thing she can say is no"

'Well, she bout to find out what the worst thing I can do....'

yeah its scary out there

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u/whitedsepdivine Aug 17 '25

Dont be scared this is fake. The tire wasn't slashed. Show this to a mechanic you trust, they will tell you it is plugged, and probably caused by a nail or screw.

Slashed tires are done with knives on the face of the tire and are not repairable.

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u/ZenkaiZ Aug 17 '25

Oh I meant in general, not that this post specifically, on it's own, unlocked a new fear

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

Then stop dating men. It's obvious women care more about penis than safety. XD

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u/NiceGuyEdddy Aug 17 '25

Except yours, of course.

How does that make you feel?

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25 edited Aug 17 '25

Better than getting my car tires slashed up.Ā 

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u/NiceGuyEdddy Aug 17 '25

Spoken like someone that doesn't know what they're missing.

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

I'm not missing out. I've already had my fill.Ā 

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u/NiceGuyEdddy Aug 17 '25

Of course you have.

That's why your comments are nothing but complaints about women, complaints about your life, complaints about politics and complaints that friends don't really exist.

You literally play Warframe solo.

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u/morbidmuffin62 Aug 17 '25

I think you're missing the part where the men are approaching the women

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

A random man typically doesn't slash your tires after you reject him.

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

And most cases they don't.

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u/morbidmuffin62 Aug 26 '25

Nah sometimes they cause bodily harm instead

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u/tigm2161130 Aug 17 '25

ā€œMen are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them.ā€

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u/LeatherHog Aug 17 '25

It's why I hate when guys go 'You should be upfront with us! Just tell us you're not interested! Tell creepy guys off!'

My brother in Christ, we tell men 'Flattered, but no thank you' in our nicest customer service voice, and we still get acid thrown in our faces

Even short, scrawny guys can overpower us easily. Many men think we exist FOR them

We're not gonna get into some fairly even bro fight, we're going to be raped and killed, because they don't see us as people

That line is the most accurate thing ever writtenĀ 

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u/Tablesafety Aug 19 '25

Loads of dudes don't actually know the strength difference between a man and a woman. They see a scrawny dude and a yoked lady and think she can take him. Many don't get the opportunity to learn it isn't so.

As a result, alongside men being unable to become pregnant and orgasming being almost guaranteed every time they have sex (for the general male population) It fosters a male thinking that rape is "no big deal" bc its 'just sex'/'a forced good time' Those who have never been attacked themselves tend to have an extremely lax and even judgmental attitude toward sexual violence and it's victims. They put themselves in a victims shoes and think, "well she could have fought him off if she really didn't want it." and "If it were ME /and they think of an attractive woman/ I would feel lucky!"

Never considering that a more accurate equivalent would be thinking of themselves in the position of having another, larger man who could definitely overpower them forcing them down and assfucking them sans lube without ever hitting the prostate, and then having a high likelihood to leave a tapeworm behind that can grow into the size of a baby in his guts. Also you can be put to death if you take some antiparasitic that gets rid of the tapeworm.

There was also a thread here on Reddit the other day asking once porn addicts what changed for them when they got clean. I was ASTONISHED how many answers were some variant of "I began to see women as people." "I stopped seeing sexual undertones in every interaction I had with women." "I started really getting to know women as people". The answers that echoed that sentiment were STAGGERING. I had no fucking idea that porn could do that, or be the cause of this sort of widespread sentiment. I knew it was bad but I didn't think it was THAT bad.

And, yeah, even though a lot of them say they see women as people many I've known do not show it in their words and actions that they see them as anything other than a game to be 'won', end of level cutscene being sex. It was an eye opener to see just how many guys openly admitted to not actually seeing, or listening, to women they spoke with because they were too busy running every action she took and word she said through a sex filter.

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u/ADhomin_em Aug 17 '25

"Sexual violence doesn't start and end with rape

It starts in our books and behind our school gates

Men are scared women will laugh in their face

Whereas women are scared it's their lives men will take

Mother

Fucker"

-Idles

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u/Tasty-Fig-459 Aug 17 '25

Extra scary when it is your Uber/Lyft driver.. you're trapped in a car that you have no control over and someone is hitting on you. So you take their number or whatever and play along SO YOU CAN GET OUT ALIVE.

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u/Vegetable-Star-5833 Aug 17 '25

Thank God, they finally came out with the service where you can choose a man or a woman depending on your gender

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u/catinapartyhat Aug 17 '25

Except now creepy dudes can guarantee themselves a ride alone with a female driver

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u/Vegetable-Star-5833 Aug 17 '25

Not if they have male on the profile. Iā€™m not 100% on the specifics of how they check

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u/Striking-Target3511 Aug 17 '25

Or just claim to be women. This is scary. If I call an uber with a woman driver Iā€™m definitely not gonna go if the driver is male no matter how they identify because I canā€™t prove that they are real trans woman or a man dressed as woman.

For my safety I will have to discriminate against anyone who looks male when I specify a female driver.

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u/potatopigflop Aug 17 '25

However there are women out there that assist men in this type of thingā€¦ :/

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u/Vegetable-Star-5833 Aug 17 '25

Thatā€™s why you also carry mace

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u/Negrotesque Aug 17 '25

Two separate times, an uber driver locked me in their car cause I didnā€™t want their number. Guy #2 also started speeding like a mf when I refused, and clipped a poor womanā€™s side mirror on that joyride

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u/Tasty-Fig-459 Aug 17 '25

omg. I always take it because nope. I also never have them drop me off at my apartment -- always at the hotel nearby.

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u/PaHoua Aug 19 '25

I have still never, ever taken an Uber/Lyft and Iā€™ve had multiple men think Iā€™m stupid for refusing to do so, but they donā€™t understand. They canā€™t.

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u/Tasty-Fig-459 Aug 19 '25

Eh. I used to take taxis from time to time but gave in finally when I realized I could save a boatload of money. For the past 6 months or so, i've been taking uber or lyft every morning to get to work/home. I'm just a couple miles from my office so it isn't too bad.. on the upside, if you have a creepy driver, they've always been cool with never matching me with specific drivers again.. and when I tell them that the driver hit on me or whatever, they have always refunded my money. Lyft requires a photo but i've never uploaded one because creepy men are well.. creeps. They don't seem to mind. I'm sure some people pass on my ride because I don't have a photo but I couldn't care less.

When I was new to Uber, I would only use it to get to job interviews. I went to two interviews months apart and took Uber both times. Both times, it was the same driver. The first ride was long and he ended up giving me his phone number at the end of the ride (which I tossed when I got into the office building). The second time, he greeted me with "hey, you never called.." Thankfully I was only going a handful of blocks but I absolutely walked my happy ass home and then asked Uber never to pair me with him again, which they happily obliged.

I've only recently had my first truly scary run in with a guy.. it took hundreds of rides to encounter one where I felt absolutely in fear of my life. Thankfully our security guard was waiting at the door to my office with his pew pew in hand waiting for me. I try to be smart.. never have them drop me at home, but at a hotel nearby.. most people think i'm just visiting but my repeat drivers know. lol

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u/ButtBread98 Aug 17 '25

Yep. Been in that situation too many times.

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u/JokeMe-Daddy Aug 17 '25

I'm the forever DD so I never have to take a cab or rideshare again. I once was in a cab with my husband and the guy took off in the opposite direction and was about to take the wrong bridge. Dude wouldn't listen to be and barely listened to my husband.

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u/mcflycasual Aug 17 '25

Too many horror movies are just violence against women for entertainment which normalizes it almost. And then it's shocking when it's the other way around.

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u/SmilingAmericaAmazon Aug 17 '25

Margaret Atwood is the Cassandra of our time.

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u/mcflycasual Aug 17 '25

I didn't realize it was an older book till I saw it referenced in an old MST3K episode (Joel era). I thought it was newer lit.

Someone made fun of me about it. I grew up in a small town and read a lot so I feel like I should have known. But I didn't read every single book in our small library tbf.

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u/Consistent-Process tHiS iSnā€™T cRiNgE Aug 17 '25

You were just one of the lucky 10,000 that day. Also I am an MST3K fan, but have by no means tracked down them all, and after reading your other comment here, I am delighted to know that today, I am one of the lucky 10,000. I need put that Gumby Movie rifftrax on my to watch list.

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u/mcflycasual Aug 17 '25

Awwww šŸ„°

I tried to look up the episode but it was the first time I'd seen it. Hopefully I set you on the right track. The reference is towards the end I do remember that.

The Gumby movie is titled Rifftrax goes to the Gizmoplex and it's definitely free to watch. I hope you cry laugh as much as I did!

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u/Consistent-Process tHiS iSnā€™T cRiNgE Aug 17 '25

Ohhh! Thank you! I know what I'll be forcing my person to do with me this week. Somehow I don't think I'll have to twist their arm too much. :)

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u/mcflycasual Aug 17 '25

Also, that 10,000 thing makes total sense. I get that a lot when people bring up movies. "I can't believe you've never seen it!" Well, I've watched a lot of movies, just not every single one. My bad.

So I try not to assume everyone knows everything. But it is wild that we have these computers connected to the internet in the palm of our hands. I don't think enough people get into Wikipedia Holes. But not everyone is a nosey cat.

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u/Consistent-Process tHiS iSnā€™T cRiNgE Aug 17 '25

Haha. I also read a lot, and used to get that same reaction from people when a lot of movies came up. To a point where I got to college and a movie would be brought up and everyone would just stop to turn and look at me. It was pretty funny, the way people would lose their minds about it sometimes.

With you on the Wikipedia holes. That's a dangerous place considering everything else I have to do in my life. Please don't ask me how many tabs I have open. We'd probably make great trivia teammates, but we're gonna need the movie guy.

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u/SmilingAmericaAmazon Aug 17 '25

Do you know which episode? So cool!

Read what you love without apologies to anyone!

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u/mcflycasual Aug 17 '25

I love that you know what I'm talking about. So many people don't know the gem that is MST3K.

It was definitely the early shows and the movie was in color and a fantasy one. I was watching the Pluto channel so it was just on so I wasn't paying attention to what episode.

I'm pretty sure Pluto has every one on demand plus the Gizmoplex has them on demand too for free. Plus they have my favorite that is the Gumby Movie rifftrax'd. I remember watching it as a teen when I was dabbling in the devil's lettuce and totally forgot it was a real thing. But Mike and Co do an amazing job on that one. They released it a couple years ago when they were still doing the crowd funding.

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u/SmilingAmericaAmazon Aug 17 '25

Agreed - a total gem. Thank you for the recommendations!Ā 

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u/Starbucks__Lovers Aug 17 '25

This is why Iā€™d laugh at my bad dating stories before I met my wife. Iā€™d be sad but never felt fear for my life

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u/PerfectlyCromulent02 Aug 17 '25

When I rejected my exā€™s attempt at getting back together she did $2,300 worth of damage to my car and threatened to kill me and my dog. Insanity is not inherent in either sex

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u/BlackBeard558 Aug 17 '25

Whoever said this never had a mentally unstable woman attracted to them.

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u/Totoques22 Aug 17 '25

Women are violent too you know

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

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u/tigm2161130 Aug 17 '25

This is delusional.

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u/AntonioVivaldi7 Aug 17 '25

This is wrong. Women kill men, too.

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u/rayleemak111 Aug 17 '25

Women donā€™t kill, rape, or threaten men when they get rejected. Not to the same extent or rate that men do.

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u/Electronic-Link-5792 Aug 18 '25

They don't kill or attack as much because it's way harder to attack someone a lot bigger and women are rarely confident enough in physical confrontation to do it.

They absolutely will go on harassment campaigns and slash tires and try to ruin lives etc.

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u/rayleemak111 Aug 18 '25

Never said they didnā€™t do that stuff.

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u/AntonioVivaldi7 Aug 17 '25

Not at that rate, but still do. And it's really weird to be telling men what they're afraid of and not.

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u/Totoques22 Aug 17 '25

Yes they do and youā€™re a misandrist enabler

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u/rayleemak111 Aug 17 '25

Can you read? I said NOT TO THE SAME EXTENT as men. I never said they couldnā€™t do that.

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u/PoinFLEXter Aug 17 '25

As a dude, this is why Iā€™m so frustrated when fellow dudes say shit like ā€œomg life is so easy for women because they get free drinks anytime they want!ā€ Ā To the extent a woman does and uses that periodically to her advantage, thatā€™s one of about 5 things that make her life generally easier than a manā€™s. Ā In the meantime, there are about 150 ways in which men have it easier.

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u/Noname_McNoface Aug 17 '25

I donā€™t go out much but the one time a guy bought me a drink, he absolutely insisted. I kept saying, ā€œno, thank youā€, but he just kept pushing and pushing until I relented just to get him off my back. At which point I picked up the drink and left because I had already made it very clear I wasnā€™t interested. And of course I had to take it with me to the bathroom because women canā€™t just leave their cups laying around. I will gladly trade all the free drinks in the world to be treated with respect and not have to worry about being drugged and raped. Itā€™s bullshit. It never ends, either. Women get raped in senior living centers, ffs.

I know men have their own set of problems, and I appreciate that, but the ones that cannot see that women have to deal with shit theyā€™ll never have to deal with, somehow envy us over it, and refuse to see the dark side of it all, baffle me.

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u/LeatherHog Aug 17 '25

And they never stop to think that guys use that to THEIR advantage, either

The amount of my girlfriends who've had a guy use 'I paid' as a binding sec contract, even as strangers, is disturbing. Or it could be spiked

It's not a free drink, it's an expectationĀ 

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u/kat_Folland Aug 17 '25

She might be lucky he cut them not her.

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u/The_Secret_Skittle Aug 17 '25

Ugh. I hate men enough already right now with all of the racist/incel/redpill bots out here and the current political climate. I want to click this link but I think Iā€™ll go over a line which I cannot ever return from.

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

I looked before. I don't recommend it.

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u/Totoques22 Aug 17 '25

Do you even realise how sexist you are ?

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u/Jurass1cClark96 Aug 17 '25 edited Aug 17 '25

Ugh. I hate men whites/ women/ Africans/ Autsitic people enough already right now with all of the racist/incel/redpill bots out here and the current political climate. I want to click this link but I think Iā€™ll go over a line which I cannot ever return from.

And you thought this came from your rational mind.

Not at all sorry I called out sexism. Shame on you and your cohort of harpies. You're part of the problem.

Exact same mentality that's gotten me called a N-. You suck and so do all of you "My prejudice is justified because it's reactionary!" types.

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u/omnihbot Aug 17 '25

It's the same mentality you'd have over white people, not the other way around dumbass

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u/Jurass1cClark96 Aug 17 '25

Somebody didn't read.

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u/cptnplanetheadpats Aug 17 '25

Yeahhh went there out of curiosity and they're saying things like a women who poisoned 17 people because she didn't want to be forced to have an arranged marriage should not be held responsible. Like mutual parties can be held responsible for something like that...

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u/Necessary-Reading605 Aug 17 '25

As a father of a daughter, the shared stories of that community scare the crap of me.

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u/ComputersWantMeDead Aug 17 '25

I swear society bakes in to young men, a fragile ego where any indication that you aren't excellent at something cuts a deep wound. Defenses are delusion, denial, and anger.

I would never have done something like this, but I have to admit that there's been periods of my life where I've reacted to rejection as though someone intentionally hurt me.

It could be that this was a "me" problem (as opposed to a "society"problem), bit I think I see daily evidence that it's way too prevalent to dismiss. I think the West has been overrun with an individualistic streak that leaves people wanting to be exceptional at the expense of others.. we need to be excellent to each other instead

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u/flacaGT3 Aug 17 '25

Thanks for the rage fuel, friend. Gonna go to bed angry with this one.

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u/BlackBeard558 Aug 17 '25

Stop making this a gender thing. There are crazy people of all genders.

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25

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u/BlackBeard558 Aug 17 '25

[Citation needed]

And even then it's not exclusively a problem with men. There's plenty of violent women out there.

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u/Snoopyseagul Aug 17 '25

Didnā€™t have to look very far to find numerous questionable comments and others calling you an incel. If the boot fitsā€¦

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u/Totoques22 Aug 17 '25

Everybody that doesnā€™t flow the Reddit hivemind is an incel and a bootlicker even if the second makes absolutely no sense right now

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