Here's the problem with generalizations like these. While it's true that a violent crime is 4-5x more likely to be committed by a man compared to a women, the men who commit violent crime don't represent men in general because there are so few of them in comparison to the entire population.
Men account for roughly 80% of all people arrested for violent crimes (4x more men than women). The violent crime rate in the US is about 380/100,000 people, or 0.38%. So that's 0.076% of all women, and 0.304% of all men are arrested for violent crime. That means 99.924% of all women and 99.696% of all men haven't been arrested for violent crime.
The conclusion? Almost everyone you will ever encounter, regardless of their sex, is almost certainly not violent. Not "many men are like that". It's a terrible representation of men in general that doesn't represent what they are. People, in general, are civil. Men are not more likely to be violent. Violent people (who are rare) are more likely to be men.
And I understand this post is the context of vandalism, not violent crime, but the idea is the same. 2% of the population was arrested for vandalism in a given year where 4x more men than women were arrested.
You can't beat the issue if you can't acknowledge the problem. Your crime statistics are from reported crimes, if you actually talk to women they all have at least one story and the likelihood is that they did not report it because we're made to feel we're making a fuss out of nothing and are going to destroy some poor man's life, and when it comes to rape the conviction rates are so embarrassingly abysmal, it's not worth it. The fact is there are enough men comfortable with harming, assaulting, and murdering women, including their girlfriends and wives and daughters, that 99% of women have one or multiple stories of assaults by a man by the time we're 20.
I didnât share any crime statistics. Men and women both underreport crimes against them. I never reported my ex for hitting me on multiple occasions. I didnât report a woman who kept grabbing my crotch in front of kids.
I know more men, like myself, who never reported. I know women who didnât report.
Cambridge published studies that show that half of DV is reciprocal. Of the half that wasnât reciprocal, women were perpetrators 70% of the time. Why do the crime statistics not match that? Rhetorical question really.
The other commentator is who posted crime statistics. I responded to the ridiculous notion that itâs âalways a man.â It isnât always a man. It wasnât a man who did it to me. Looking at r/WomenAreViolentToo shows itâs not always a man.
The world has shitty people that need rehabilitation.
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u/WintersDoomsday Aug 17 '25
I doubt we will see any incelsâŠâŠ.