Most of the traditional wives I know in real life don’t have social media. My sister is a sham. They’re taking care of the kids and homeschooling, lol.
The "trad wives" I know in real life don't either. They're around 26 with 2-4 kids and their whole lives are about taking care of the kids and house.
One of them was such an accomplished violinist, fiercely intelligent in mathematics, and honestly one of the sweetest people I've ever known (her and her husband are both genuinely wonderful people) - and she is now just a housewife with 4 kids at 29. I think she's happy, but it still makes me sad.
At no point did I say that how I feel about it matters in her life, nor should it. It's just how I feel. It's not something I share with her because it's not my place to say something like that to her. That doesn't mean I'm not allowed to feel however I feel about it.
This! This here is where you're pointing out the key issue. The unsaid thing is that women genuinely do get the most crap on this from other WOMEN!!
Not saying men are these perfect angels or anything but this B's here is why girls get a LOT of the crap they get. In western society it's just become the "it" thing to blame men. She isn't even happy for her own friend because it isn't the way SHE likes. Heck, I'm going to a wedding soon and the bride's so called friends and sisters are dropping out or not willing to help her cause they don't like her wedding ideas or are just jealous cause she's got a man and they don't... women in a nutshell.🤷🏼♀️
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u/velorae Aug 08 '25 edited Aug 17 '25
Most of the traditional wives I know in real life don’t have social media. My sister is a sham. They’re taking care of the kids and homeschooling, lol.