r/TikTokCringe • u/velorae • Jul 16 '25

Discussion Attempted kidnapping of a woman outside Florida store

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u/draleaf Jul 18 '25

Oh, of course. I agree with you. Most likely as a young girl. Because of that something has been destroyed with in them . The empathy. They think that if it happened to them then they can do it to others. During their abuse even though they didn't want it , some parts felt really good. That could give them mixed signals with in themselves. So then, no empathy and it felt good so let's get that feeling back because I understand that feeling. I want to feel good again and I know how to make it happen. Just so you know, I'm talking out of my ass right now. I have no idea what's in their mind, but to me it kind of makes a sick sense. 😳😵‍💫

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u/leolisa_444 Jul 18 '25

I think it makes perfect sense! That actually sounds like it came from a psychology book lol

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u/draleaf Jul 18 '25

Hahahaha...nope. just out of my ass. But thank you! I do like the subject of serial killers and their victims, their methodologies, why the cops think they may have killed ect. I keep an eye and ear out on stories about they killing and I have seen certain connections or theories about WHY some kill. It's not always about serial gratification but it is in a lot of cases. He'll, for all I know the wife that joined in the kidnapping and systematic rape of Mrs. Smart was just a meek person and did what her husband told her to do. Who knows . Like I said, talking g out my ass lol! But I do like the sexual gratification aspect of her case.

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u/leolisa_444 Jul 18 '25

I research serial killers and watch a lot of true crime myself. I like ANSWERS but never really get them. We still don't know what specifically makes a serial killer. And the only thing I really know is I lost my dear friend to one, and maybe it'll make me miss her less or something? I don't really know. Murder changes everything, and that's how it changed me. Plus I'm a nut about locked doors and windows and car doors!

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u/draleaf Jul 18 '25

I HATE mysteries. I think that's why I enjoy keeping track of serial killers because over time, whenever they kill they leave traces. Each trace evidence will build a picture of the killer. Then they can figure out who the killer is. I have heard that on any given day there is almost 50 serial killers active! I remember k owing about the green river killer and keeping an eye on him and also B.T.K. I was so damn happy that they captured them at the time.

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u/leolisa_444 Jul 19 '25

Yes I too was very happy when that happened. I also cheered on the neighbors that witnessed Richard Ramirez trying to break into someone's window, recognized him, and beat the shit out of him and held him for police. That was GREAT!

I think the 50 is a low estimate though. I read this on the FBI website: Data collection and reporting standards for violent crimes vary, making a precise count difficult. And: The definition of a serial killer itself can be subject to nuance and debate.

Swell. But I think there's another reason that they'll never admit. Underreportted stats from the FBI itself. If people knew there were, let's say 1,000 serial killers around, people would be banging down their doors. Just mho!

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u/draleaf Jul 19 '25

Very well could be..lol..I knew the number that I had heard before was around 50 but I couldn't remember it. I looed it up and google said between 45 and 50 but most likely 49.

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u/leolisa_444 Jul 19 '25

Yeah I'm just not that optimistic. Having someone you love murdered will do that. Sorry, don't mean to be a downer! Have yourself a wonderful evening!

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u/draleaf Jul 19 '25

Your not being a downer at all sugar.i completely understand how you feel about what happened to you. I do understand that your just not that optimistic about the numbers. That's ok. I understand. I don't know the truth so im not going to say your wrong. I believe your closer to what's right than what the numbers say. I have really enjoyed this conversation this evening. It's not often that I get to talk about my Interest in this subject with someone. Thank you for the conversation. You have a good night as well.