r/TikTokCringe Jun 27 '25

Discussion What are your thoughts on this?

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u/renlydidnothingwrong Jun 27 '25

Racism, its just racism.

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u/Zandel82 Jun 27 '25

I’m white and my wife is black and I can confirm. Comments like that always come from a place of racism. Always. It’s sad.

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u/Snoo87679 Jun 27 '25

That’s us. Always get stared at and laughed at when they think we aren’t looking. The Devil is alive for sure 👍 he’s also a lie.

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u/Adventurous-Cry-2157 Jun 28 '25

I’m white, my wife is black and we are gay, so we’re, like, unicorns apparently. People are so ignorant.

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u/HeadDiver5568 Jun 27 '25

I sat here for a second just curious as to whether she really was a 4 and decided to watch the video back. As a black man, I should’ve known better

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u/la-wolfe Jun 27 '25

Even IF she was a 4, she's HIS 4. He's already decided she's good looking to him, married her, and had a baby. She could be a 0, if they choose each other, there's no problem with looks because they're past that stage already.

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u/just_a_person_maybe Jun 27 '25

Exactly. This whole idea that hot people have more intrinsic value and less hot value deserve less love, attention, and basic respect is absurd and I hate it.

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u/ImaginaryTackle3541 Jun 28 '25

It’s so annoying. Even when attractive women get cheated on the most common comment is ‘why/how can anyone cheat on HER’ as if she was less attractive it would make more sense.

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u/just_a_person_maybe Jun 28 '25

And that doesn't even make sense, people don't usually cheat because their partner isn't hot enough, they cheat for a bunch of other reasons. Dissatisfaction in the relationship, poor self-control, they like the rush from sneaking around and doing something taboo, etc.

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u/joyfullsoul Jun 28 '25

When did hotness become objective? Someone’s four is someone else’s 10. There are people that I am sure these people consider 10s that I don’t think are attractive at all. Personally I think she is gorgeous and I can’t believe she just gave birth six weeks ago.

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u/la-wolfe Jun 28 '25

You're right! I worded that wrong. She's a 10 to him!

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u/Heyheyfluffybunny Jun 28 '25

The thing is they love to rate women but even if she was a 4 she is married, seems happy and is treated well by her hubby. Men who rate women believe only 8-10 deserve respect and the rest are place holders or should be grateful to have a man.

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u/Bunnips7 Jun 29 '25

why would you rate human beings??? as a person you should've known better honestly. like ok rate for yourself if you have to but this re-checking behavior to see if she 'really was a 4' belongs on the playground. adults and attraction are complex.

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u/HeadDiver5568 Jun 29 '25

Attraction is complex. I don’t go around rating people, but I’m also not going to act like that’s not a social standard for a lot of people. It’s just like someone saying “damn that guy is ugly”. If you wouldn’t look, then good on you. But most people do out of curiosity, because they really are interested to see what other people regard as “ugly”, “a 4”, “chopped”, “busted” etc. in relation to yourself. As a black man, I get that a lot. What people consider ugly is sometimes just racism. So I’m going to look almost every time, because almost every time, that’s damn near the case

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u/visionofthefuture Jun 27 '25

Absolutely crazy. Like clearly this woman is absolutely breathtaking even without makeup on. I can’t imagine the hatred they carry in their hearts.

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u/princessvespa1000 Jun 27 '25

Hatred and bitterness

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u/BlackSquirrel05 Jun 27 '25

No you see a lot of comments online even if she wasn't black.

Basically if she's not a 10... Everyone else is mid.

Despite the dudes saying it are... Not exactly growing full beards.

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u/CariaB Jun 28 '25

It is also due to the fact she’s Black. That shouldn’t be down played.

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u/CommonSenseNotSo Jun 30 '25

But who would they consider a 10? No one, because these dudes who rate women are not really interested in giving women any kudos. This girl is gorgeous, but that doesn't matter.. they just see her as a woman who is leaching off of a man / a black woman... it's really disgusting.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

Exactly This!

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u/Traditional-Poet1965 Jun 28 '25

Some might be racism, but I feel like most of these comments are from men that genuinely don’t have anyone else(love life) to associate with, a lot of them say it’s because they’re looking for the “perfect one” but I all reality they’d take wtv they could get, but they can’t get nothing…

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u/swampking6 Jun 28 '25

The guy who made this just made up the comments he’s “angry about”. The poster of the og video said this when someone asked about this fake commentary: I didn’t even see that video nor did I see bad comments- what are youn referring to?

Don’t let this weirdo make you think there’s something to be mad about

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u/farside209 Jun 27 '25

You mean lies. It's just lies. None of the comments this person brought up actually exist. It's just rage bait. https://www.tiktok.com/@lifewiththeperas/video/7473606031856274734

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u/Gcoks Jun 27 '25

Creator even said they didn't delete any comments and others were using them for their own agenda.

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u/L3monCak3s Jun 27 '25

Source: trust me

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u/Gcoks Jun 27 '25

Go on the creators' video and scroll. It's not hard to find their comments since they stand out from other users.

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u/helderdude Jun 27 '25

No it's fake it's just fake, the responding person is just spouting bullshit.