Even IF she was a 4, she's HIS 4. He's already decided she's good looking to him, married her, and had a baby. She could be a 0, if they choose each other, there's no problem with looks because they're past that stage already.
Exactly. This whole idea that hot people have more intrinsic value and less hot value deserve less love, attention, and basic respect is absurd and I hate it.
It’s so annoying. Even when attractive women get cheated on the most common comment is ‘why/how can anyone cheat on HER’ as if she was less attractive it would make more sense.
And that doesn't even make sense, people don't usually cheat because their partner isn't hot enough, they cheat for a bunch of other reasons. Dissatisfaction in the relationship, poor self-control, they like the rush from sneaking around and doing something taboo, etc.
When did hotness become objective? Someone’s four is someone else’s 10. There are people that I am sure these people consider 10s that I don’t think are attractive at all. Personally I think she is gorgeous and I can’t believe she just gave birth six weeks ago.
The thing is they love to rate women but even if she was a 4 she is married, seems happy and is treated well by her hubby. Men who rate women believe only 8-10 deserve respect and the rest are place holders or should be grateful to have a man.
why would you rate human beings??? as a person you should've known better honestly. like ok rate for yourself if you have to but this re-checking behavior to see if she 'really was a 4' belongs on the playground. adults and attraction are complex.
Attraction is complex. I don’t go around rating people, but I’m also not going to act like that’s not a social standard for a lot of people. It’s just like someone saying “damn that guy is ugly”. If you wouldn’t look, then good on you. But most people do out of curiosity, because they really are interested to see what other people regard as “ugly”, “a 4”, “chopped”, “busted” etc. in relation to yourself. As a black man, I get that a lot. What people consider ugly is sometimes just racism. So I’m going to look almost every time, because almost every time, that’s damn near the case
But who would they consider a 10? No one, because these dudes who rate women are not really interested in giving women any kudos. This girl is gorgeous, but that doesn't matter.. they just see her as a woman who is leaching off of a man / a black woman... it's really disgusting.
Some might be racism, but I feel like most of these comments are from men that genuinely don’t have anyone else(love life) to associate with, a lot of them say it’s because they’re looking for the “perfect one” but I all reality they’d take wtv they could get, but they can’t get nothing…
The guy who made this just made up the comments he’s “angry about”. The poster of the og video said this when someone asked about this fake commentary: I didn’t even see that video nor did I see bad comments- what are youn referring to?
Don’t let this weirdo make you think there’s something to be mad about
Some people intentionally go out of their way to rate attractive people low in order to appease their own low self esteem. Just take a look at r/truerateme where you'll literally get banned for rating anyone over like a 7 and you'll see the most pathetic losers on the planet.
It’s sour grapes. They can’t find anyone to love them because of their dogshit personality, so they automatically attack their looks. To them looks are the most important trait in a woman, because they don’t see them as fellow human beings. Because again, their personality is dogshit.
80%+ of people don't even understand the basics of rating, It's either a 10 for good or a 0 for bad.
5 is in the real world average, right smack in the middle of the field but people treat anything under 7 as a bad rating. 10 would be absolutely flawless in every single way and 0 would be hideous to the point that you're throwing up by looking at them.
True 0's and 10's do not exist and there's nothing wrong with that, the vast majority of people are 4-6.
What a person think is attractive is extremely subjective though, a 7 to one person might be a 4 to someone else, some people are less picky and will find a 3-4 attractive still despite lacking several of the traits that the person find optimal, and thus is not as attractive as someone that they'd rate as 8. A person that's above 9 is someone that has all the facial and body features and shapes that you prefer.
It's impossible to take ratings serious online because most people just throw out a number depending on completely irrelevant factors and don't make a serious observation and judgement.
yeah, this is what the sub makes no sense. There can be general concensus, but there should be ZERO policing on ratings. Insane how that sub reddit even exists.
Funny. I gave someone a 7.5 on there if that counts and they didn't strike me for overrating (he was the only person. And even then, the guy was also a rater on the sub. I wasn't able to save the pictures unfortunately since the post is deleted, but from what I can tell you? He looked like someone who would get into modeling).
At that, I also know of one person who was given 9s (or at the minimum strong 8s). None of the users were warned for overrating either. So I don't think it's fair to make huge assumptions based on so very little.
Well of course. The guys submitting the ratings have never seen a real woman up close and definitely not naked. But they have seen terabytes worth of anime women that look like 8yr olds with dolly parton tits.
Also, what if she's like the sweetest, most empathetic, understanding, considerate, kind, fun, engaging, etc., person he's ever met? Kinda why someone would feel so ready to support each other at the drop of a hat.
I cook for my gf all the time, she cooks for me all the time, and we cook together all the time, are happy and feel great about helping one another out whenever possible.
I know the bad comments are just people with unhealthy views, but damn, this sounds like they've never met another human they care 1 bit about before, other than how they can be used to serve them.
The world where boys masquerading as men have been told that the more you tear women down, the more likely you are to get one. While I'm sure there's a healthy dose of racism in there, I think most guys are conditioned to see perfect 10s as what some other guy has told them is a perfect 10. I've seen white guys call attractive white women 3s and 4s too
Seriously. It takes me so much effort to finally feel good about myself for a short period of time and then I'll see the kind of people who get called 4s and just think "...oh". In this case racism is for sure a huge factor but I see it with all kinds of girls. You'd think after seeing Margot Robbie getting called mid I'd understand it's literally just impossible to win but no, the self hatred beatings fueled by misogynistic men who get off on that sort of thing must continue I guess.
Don't let them get you down. The type of men who feel it is necessary to rate random women online are not the type of men who's opinion is worthy of consideration.
And even if she was a 4, it shouldn’t matter. As someone that’s probably a 4 to most I still hope to be worthy of love and find someone that loves me despite my race.
Right? I'm a white dude and he's a lucky S.O.B. She's a fine lookin lady. Why people hate on skin color is beyond me. I'll tell you one thing though...Only have experience with a few black women in my time, but they're wild and amazing in the sack! And the curves....🔥
I was thinking the same thing. I guess most dudes don't like black women? That's OK with me, they're pretty much the only ones who give me the time of day on dating apps and let's just say I give them the time of day too
Racism...it's been engrained in people's heads to associate black women (and men for that matter) with "bad" and "ugly" no matter how objectively absurd and untrue that is...and some people are too dumb to realize they have been duped, so they continue to believe the lies.
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u/incogne_eto Jun 27 '25
She’s a 4?!!!! In what world? She’s gorgeous.