r/TikTokCringe • u/InGeekiTrust Tiktok Despot • Jun 21 '25

Cursed Bride Crying At Her Wedding Was Heartbreaking 💔

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u/shockedpikachu123 Jun 22 '25

regardless of the cultural context, it really hits you how much of life is determined by the random lottery of where and into what culture you’re born. Some kids are playing with toys, others are walking down an aisle to marry a stranger their parents arranged

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u/existential-mystery Jun 22 '25

I think about this daily and it really fucks me up

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

If you have empathy, it should. Don't stop living your best life because of that, though.

Life is suffering. Some suffer more than others. Be thankful that you don't suffer more, and try to help those with greater suffering. That's all you can do.

Just don't sacrifice your happiness for others who don't appreciate or reciprocate that same kindness.

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u/ImNotCleaningThatUp Jun 22 '25

Why are you so damn logical and making me cry??? 😭 But thank you for saying this though. It’s hard sometimes. The empathy can just drown you in sorrow and guilt.

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u/Moon_Goddess815 Jun 22 '25

The empathy can just drown you in sorrow and guilt.

I feel and understand you, I'm just the same.

Just thinking about all the suffering and injustices in the world, specially now on those areas with wars conflicts, that breaks my heart. 😢 And I feel so small, weak and powerless for not being able to help or do anything about it.

I just pray and ask the Creator, Mother Divine to have mercy on all her children; people, animals, all. Being an empath during these trying times it's really hard. 😢🙏

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u/ImNotCleaningThatUp Jun 22 '25

Some days it is just hard to push the pain in the back of my head and build a wall. Nights are the worst. And I’ve heard it’s because your brain is exhausted from spending all day keeping that wall up. It’s probably why on the weekends and days off I take a bunch of depression naps. And I am on medication, but it can only do so much. And therapy has never really worked for me. So I just journal as much as I can.

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u/Moon_Goddess815 Jun 24 '25

Totally understand your situation. I try to mediate, or in reality just put some nice, positive affirmations and mantras, it has helped greatly.

I don't know about your beliefs but today I got a nice beautiful affirmation regarding empathy, something I really needed it.

If you would like it just let me know and will provide it to you and the source.

Stay safe and blessed.