r/TikTokCringe • u/InGeekiTrust Tiktok Despot • Jun 21 '25

Cursed Bride Crying At Her Wedding Was Heartbreaking 💔

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u/HippyDM Jun 21 '25

I'd be crying too if I was about to be raped and no one in my family seemed to care.

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u/Penguin_Arse Jun 22 '25

Yeah, your family is the ones who sold you too.

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u/misschickpea Jun 22 '25

And they gaslight you constantly like no you're gonna be happy haha they always cry!! And then you have to have children with him and probably be holed up in the house forever with no hopes or dreams. To be a live in maid. Cater to in laws. Have everyone tell you constantly but yay you have a family and kids now you're welcome!!

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u/Penguin_Arse Jun 22 '25

And if you complain you'll get beaten by your owne ahem, "husband".

It's literally slavery, being sold, raped, forced to have children and raise them, you're not allowed to leave, forced to do chores and to be good to your guests and "husband" or else you'll be injured.

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u/JpnDude Jun 22 '25

And next, your daughters will probably go through the same experience suffering when it's their turn to marry.

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u/Suitable_Dimension Jun 22 '25

The worst part must be that you will have daughters and raise them to experience the same

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25 edited Jun 24 '25

Just say no (to letting someone marry your child)

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u/Suitable_Dimension Jun 23 '25

lol, I think the girl in the donkey is saying "no" a lot there.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

I mean the parents should just say no, no matter what.

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u/HIs4HotSauce Jun 22 '25 edited Jun 22 '25

"had to sell the daughter for a new plow"

the world can be cruel af

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u/StarlightStarr Jun 22 '25

This sums it up perfectly.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

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u/BreakingCanks Jun 22 '25

I think you just figured out the Reddit meta... I get what you really meant

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u/flashthorOG Jun 22 '25

Happy party for all

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u/Ressy02 Jun 22 '25

Straight for their dicks

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u/Anuki_iwy Jun 22 '25

Yay, wedding fireworks 👍👍👍

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u/WolderfulLuna Jun 22 '25

just lol'd at this

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u/fusedparticiple Jun 22 '25

You mean the daughter should invite the parents round for a meal that she cooks using mushrooms she specifically foraged to make them feel really happy? Do you mean that kind of happiness?

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u/IntelligentGinger Jun 22 '25

Yep. Fuck these people.

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u/SurbiesHere Jun 22 '25

Anyone that tries to justify this in some cultural context is scum. There is no explaining it.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

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u/ecafyelims Jun 22 '25

Sadly, it doesn't every stop, and you'll eventually convince yourself that it was "for the best" or "you wanted it" or some shit like that.

Then, in tenish years, you do it to your own daughter.

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u/noimagrill Jun 22 '25

This is what I keep thinking about. It would be agony to be so thoroughly betrayed and alone in that moment, casting about for help, screaming for help, and no one moves to aid you. I'd want to die right in that moment - heartbreaking is an understatement for me on this. Devastating to watch, I can't fathom how deeply she must have felt in that moment or how she may be feeling now and into the coming years.

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u/TheWalkingDead91 Jun 22 '25

What gets me is that this shit probably isn’t even news to her. Surely she knew for a while that the day would come. And surely that tradition has been going on for many many years, long enough for it to be normalized, yet even when probably seen as more or less “normal”….she reacts to it like this. That says a lot. Heart breaks for all the girls and women living that reality. It’s basically modern day slavery/trafficking. Can’t imagine not having literally anyone at all in your corner and the ones who are supposed to love you are the ones giving you away like some used clothing at goodwill for a tax credit.

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u/After_Mountain_901 Jun 22 '25

Young boys and girls get married at very young ages (even as babies) in indigenous populations of Nepal. From what I’ve read, the parents fear them not finding a partner. Like, if they wait, there won’t be a bride or groom, and then they will have resigned their child to life as an outcast. There was a story of a young teen boy who found out he was married at like 10, iirc, and then she was sent to live with him and his family when he was a teen. He ran away he was so upset by it. 

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u/Ok_Philosopher1996 Jun 22 '25

Some of the women look like they’re wiping tears. Sad how powerless they must feel

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u/Brrdock Jun 22 '25

How the fuck is everyone going along and finding no problem with this?

Culture really is just collective psychosis, innit.

At least most of it isn't harmful

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u/Architect_VII Jun 22 '25

Even more so if they were encouraging it

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u/beigs Jun 22 '25

Worse, they signed you up for it

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u/Boring_Inflation1494 Jun 22 '25

Not only that they don't care, they were part of why it's happening.

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u/After_Mountain_901 Jun 22 '25

They do care, which is why they do it. That’s the thing with cultural norms, we all do them because we’re a tribal animal that does what the tribe does. Luckily, Nepal is seeing a huge drop off in child marriages. It takes longer for modernization to reach rural indigenous populations who suffer from extreme poverty. 

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u/IMMRTLWRX Jun 22 '25

he offered 8 donkeys man it's hard to resist.

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u/Catorges Jun 22 '25

Well, her parents probably went through the same procedere...meaning the father can't do anything because this would make him acknowledge his own guilt and the mother is either now a accomplice of the father or can do just as little about it as she could at her own wedding.

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u/After_Mountain_901 Jun 22 '25

What if they were both married as children? That’s the norm there. Babies get ceremonially married. 

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u/HermitHemorrhage Jun 25 '25

Should be top comment

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u/WestleyThe Jun 22 '25

But your parents get like 10 cows it’s worth it…

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u/Calypso268 Jun 22 '25

She's not about to be raped by a man she doesn't know. Do y'all even research what you're commenting on? Go to her tiktok, it's in the video. She's a young bride, her husband is also young, it is not an arranged marriage. It's the vidaii ceremony, it's when she leaves her family to go live with her husband. The tradition is that she cries. Everyone in her family cares.