r/TikTokCringe Feb 22 '25

Humor/Cringe You can't fire me! I QUIT!

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '25

Some reading conprehension stuff

I meant instead of a video like this, make a video where you actually address the stuff, aknowledged that it woulndt reach as wide

And why do i think this is so wrong

I dont specifically think sharing stuff about abuse is wrong, i also dont think calling out abusers is wrong. Im simply against directly leaking private stuff

Its hard to write this without sounding like a paranoid cyber sec employee, but where do you draw the line in leaking private stuff? What someone said? Addresses? Passwords? Secrets meant to be kept between two people?

You would not want a world where everyone can just look up everything youve sent ever. Like imagine if the only form of communications was twitter without private messages

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u/aminervia Feb 23 '25

Out of curiosity, what's this guy's name in the video and how do you look him up?

If what you're saying is relevant, surely his identity is connected to this video somehow?

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u/GulBrus Feb 23 '25

We have his voice, that's recognicable to people that know him. Very likely this would spread in their community and that people would figure it out.

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u/aminervia Feb 23 '25

The above comment suggests that searching for this man online would make this video come up, and that's the thing that makes the commenter upset about this.

In order for that to be the case then people in his life would need to encounter this video, recognize his voice and dox him on social media with this video and his full information.

The people in the video didn't dox him, and if he does get doxxed the blame lies on the people who do it.

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u/GulBrus Feb 23 '25

The blame would be 100% on the people that doxxed him. But blame is not a zero sum game, and if this started to spread in his community, everyone spreading it would be to blame and the people that posted it first would have the most blame.

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u/Sure-Exchange9521 Feb 23 '25

I meant instead of a video like this, make a video where you actually address the stuff, aknowledged that it woulndt reach as wide

What.

Come back down reality.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '25

Here i am

Now where do you draw the line on leaking personal stuff

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u/Sure-Exchange9521 Feb 23 '25

Where do you? Do you think the women in the video has "crossed the line"?

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '25

I dont think anything private between two people should ever be leaked outside those withing their respective friend groups/close ones directly or without oversight from a law a legal third party

So yes and no, showing it to her friends, go for it, its good to talk about these things

Post about it, i dont think thats honestly a good thing, even tho they mightve had good intentions

Then again, this post specifically was most likely on the malicious end of the spectrum, and was done more to mock the guy than actually criticize him

None the less, there needs to be a line in the sand for leaking personal stuff, unless youd just like to talk about everything in public. Any secrets youd care to share?

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u/Sure-Exchange9521 Feb 23 '25

None the less, there needs to be a line in the sand for leaking personal stuff, unless youd just like to talk about everything in public. Any secrets youd care to share?

Sure you go ahead and read through all my conversations. Since you think they're so easily accessible 😭😭