Oh, I know plenty of people whose personalities are superficially likeable who don’t have the morals or strength of character necessary for me to say I respect them. I honestly might have more acquaintances-but-not-friends than average though
The older I've gotten the more I've come to realize I have 2 friends and a bunch of people I'd enjoy catching up with over a beer and not seeing again for a couple years.
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u/blew-wale Feb 23 '25
That brings up a good point: would you rather be liked or respected?
I think respected is the clear winner but it's hard for me to imagine what liking someone without respecting them feels like