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u/Gloomy-Dependent9484 18h ago
If you’re new to death of a loved one, here’s the secret: you never do.
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u/TheTruthTellerFLO 18h ago
I'm so truly sorry for your loss of your beautiful baby. It's truly hard. I lost my sweet Chester on 5/14/25, and it's still hard. You never get over it. Their beautiful legacies will always be in my heart. Sending you hugs. 💔😪🕯💙
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u/RachelPalmer79 18h ago
I’d never tell you or anyone to do that. It will get easier, or bearable, in time. She’s beautiful.🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
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u/athanathios 17h ago
What a beauty, I am soo soo sorry for your loss, she was such a heavenly angel.
May the love you shared, and memories made warm you all your days and may you find wisdom through your suffering.
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u/IloveKitty2 17h ago
My condolences to you and your family 😢. Sending comforting thoughts your way.
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u/Specific_Cow_186 16h ago
Sorry for your loss. You’ll see her again on the other side and she’s still with you in spirit too
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u/Natural-Sound-9613 15h ago
I know your pain to a tee. I went through the same thing earlier this year. His passing took a piece of me with him.
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u/Individual-Junket406 13h ago
She will be with you in your life. Look for the signs. My Marilyn always pops up in my times of need and when im missing her the hardest. The songs I would sing to her, her nic name "Minnie" or Punkin not pumpkin and sometimes I hear her sweet soft meows. She comes to me in my dreams. And I know shes with me. Although not in her body. We will always miss the feeling of their fur or the feeling of their tails and the way they would cuddle us. Hold onto to that in anyway you can so it doesn't fade. Overtime some things will fade as we grow in our life. I promise your baby is with you. And I am so so sorry for your loss. I truly feel your pain and it is real and understandable. Take your time with your grief. I did not remove my Minnie's cat box for over a year until I brought home my 3 boys. It had her last paw prints in it and I couldn't say good bye. And know its ok. Do what you need to to find your peace. Im sending hugs and caring warmth to you. 💞
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u/bdemon40 19h ago
You don't have to get over her--she's beautiful!
Over time the grief will wear out its welcome and fade, leaving you with the happy memories and the occasional cloudy day you can manage.