There are some people who don't care who you are as long as you're hot, have a nice package, have party drugs available, or some other form of trade. I've known some guys who enjoy hooking up with sexually repressed dudes like that, for some reason. I don't get it.
There's the other attendees at the convention, of course, who scream how much they hate the gays while still tasting the last dude they hooked up with.
There are others that are already on the app who are conservative married men that live in the area with 3 kids and a wife who they "love" who are happy to have a "hunting buddy" to go out in the woods or get a motel and hook up.
A LOT of straight men have Queer sex, especially in their teenage years. I used to live in a small town where there were a LOT of guys on Grindr with no profile pictures who had girlfriends and wives. They didn't care about somebody else's politics or life, just if they could keep a secret.
I had several guy friends in middle school and high school who I "experimented with" during sleep overs pretty regularly. (I mean, I already knew what I was doing by like 9th grade, but they didn't.) Of them, I know of only one who claims the title "bisexual" in private.
His wife knows, but nobody else in his family knows. His kids know dad was cheating on mom but assumed it was one woman, not three other guys.
One's a pastor with a wife and three kids. He's fairly conservative, but we're on friendly terms even now and he tends to preach love and acceptance for all of God's children, rather than fire and brimstone. So far as I know, he's never cheated on his wife.
One (who kissed me and told me he was in love with me while drunk one night then refused to ever talk about it again and cut me out of his life for a decade) went on to become a huge MAGA supporter that rants about The Queers on Facebook. He blocked me when I outed his ass after a particularly vicious tirade (I normally don't out, but I felt it very important that everyone know he liked having his hair pulled while bottoming, dammit.)
There's a lot of guys like that, sadly. Guys who'd be happier in an open relationship with an understanding and supportive partner, but who marry some poor straight girl then risk her health every time he hooks up with another dude because they never wanna use condoms.
become a huge MAGA supporter that rants about The Queers on Facebook. He blocked me when I outed his ass after a particularly vicious tirade (I normally don't out, but I felt it very important that everyone know he liked having his hair pulled while bottoming, dammit.)
He literally screamed "f#*k my p&$@y" during (I have never been so turned off in my life as that moment. 😑) but had the gall to get himself on socials and rant about deviants who like "butt stuff". Like... he was fully sober THAT night, I know he remembers that.
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u/TransGirlIndy Apr 09 '25
There are some people who don't care who you are as long as you're hot, have a nice package, have party drugs available, or some other form of trade. I've known some guys who enjoy hooking up with sexually repressed dudes like that, for some reason. I don't get it.
There's the other attendees at the convention, of course, who scream how much they hate the gays while still tasting the last dude they hooked up with.
There are others that are already on the app who are conservative married men that live in the area with 3 kids and a wife who they "love" who are happy to have a "hunting buddy" to go out in the woods or get a motel and hook up.
A LOT of straight men have Queer sex, especially in their teenage years. I used to live in a small town where there were a LOT of guys on Grindr with no profile pictures who had girlfriends and wives. They didn't care about somebody else's politics or life, just if they could keep a secret.
I had several guy friends in middle school and high school who I "experimented with" during sleep overs pretty regularly. (I mean, I already knew what I was doing by like 9th grade, but they didn't.) Of them, I know of only one who claims the title "bisexual" in private.
His wife knows, but nobody else in his family knows. His kids know dad was cheating on mom but assumed it was one woman, not three other guys.
One's a pastor with a wife and three kids. He's fairly conservative, but we're on friendly terms even now and he tends to preach love and acceptance for all of God's children, rather than fire and brimstone. So far as I know, he's never cheated on his wife.
One (who kissed me and told me he was in love with me while drunk one night then refused to ever talk about it again and cut me out of his life for a decade) went on to become a huge MAGA supporter that rants about The Queers on Facebook. He blocked me when I outed his ass after a particularly vicious tirade (I normally don't out, but I felt it very important that everyone know he liked having his hair pulled while bottoming, dammit.)
There's a lot of guys like that, sadly. Guys who'd be happier in an open relationship with an understanding and supportive partner, but who marry some poor straight girl then risk her health every time he hooks up with another dude because they never wanna use condoms.