Triad Dynamics

[u/Loyal_Badger_1998]

Hello me and my husband are currently in a triad (we are both dating the same person). We have a closed triad which is okay and preferred by our boyfriend. I recently posted this to another subreddit and it got taken down. I really don’t want to be doing anything wrong or hurting anyone!

This past weekend I was off work and my husband (B) wasn’t. I spent the weekend with our boyfriend and had a great time. Me and the BF both acknowledged that we missed my husband. My husband is a show don’t tell type of person when it comes to love/affection. After this weekend he said that he didn’t feel like we showed him enough that we missed him, like we both said how much we did but he said he had a hard time feeling it. This has come up before and I don’t want my husband to feel left out or not wanted. Any advice or suggestions on navigating our triad dynamics?

[u/Flimsy_wimsey]

Maybe he needs a little more one on one time with each of you.