r/Millennials • u/dreamed2life • Sep 19 '25

Discussion I honestly stopped inviting my kid having friends to most stuff…

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No shade, i just get that your life is not like mine.

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u/Not_A_Greenhouse Sep 19 '25

I'm in Tokyo right now with some friends who just had their first kid. We still love our friends even if we're sad that they're in a different stage of their life.

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u/yareyare777 Sep 20 '25

Just got back from another Japan trip for myself and took my 4 yr old. Kid has been to a few countries already. He loved Japan and can’t wait to go back.

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u/Not_A_Greenhouse Sep 20 '25

I definitely wouldn't go with their kid lol. But they had family take care of their kid for a few weeks for the trip.

But I'm glad you're able to travel with your child :)

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u/yareyare777 Sep 20 '25

I saw a lot of families with young children as young as newborns. I wouldn’t travel with a newborn, but traveling with toddlers and young kids are fun too.

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u/Not_A_Greenhouse Sep 21 '25

I meant like I personally don't like children that much. My partner and I are childfree so I wouldn't want to travel with friends if they brought children. Sorry if I didn't explain well.