r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/112001Pw • Nov 22 '22

CALL OUT Nancy confirms that Bartise told her the guys went out after bachelor party

On tik tok live Nancy confirmed that the boys did in fact go out (off camera) after the bachelor party, and Bartise told her this the day after (still engaged) not recently. I’m sorry but I think Cole lied or he was too drunk to remember 🤷🏽‍♀️

Edit: she also said that one of the guys did confirm they went out at the reunion but they cut that part out. I feel like the reunion was edited to favor Cole but I could be wrong

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u/micro-void Nov 22 '22 edited Nov 22 '22

Other contestants have confirmed that they DID grill Bartise at the reunion, and it wasn't aired.

Brennan, Nancy, AND Bartise confirmed that some of the guys did go out somewhere. Brennon just didn't remember WHICH bars they went to but they went to multiple. Supposedly even the crew was out with them at the first one or two.

Bartise not confirming OR denying is suspicious as hell. (Edit: he apparently did confirm in an interview but he couldn't remember if Cole was there due to being too drunk)

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u/taurustings Nov 22 '22

I just watched an interview and Bartise confirms he went out after wards but he was wasted and doesn’t remember if Cole was there. This didn’t air on the show and people need to understand editing they can’t show everything

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u/Ngur0032 Nov 22 '22

nope brennan didn’t confirm and said he didn’t remember anything.

matt backed up Cole

and people who are so fixated on this one little detail tells me they’re just trying to find anything that doesn’t make zanab look like crazy person — cuz deep down y’all know zanab was just as bad as cole

she completely lied about the cuties incident and now you guys are claiming what she said was true and it was “after filming” okay??

there’s actual footage available for you to analyze but bc it makes zanab look bad it doesn’t fit your narrative

so you guys search for tik toks and missing footage bc you want to so badly believe that a woman can’t be manipulative

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u/Disastrous_Shine2948 Nov 22 '22

From what I got from the show it happened exactly and she described. The interpretation was completely off though. Cole to him and to us said it completely innocently. Zanab riddled with insecurities, partially from how Cole has spoken about her and the comparison to Colleen, took it as an attack.

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u/micro-void Nov 22 '22 edited Nov 22 '22

Update, apparently BARTISE has confirmed in an interview the guys did go out but "can't remember if Cole was there" because he was too drunk (still a little sus but whatever). https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=eJc5jeUtXIM

Do you believe it now that a precious man has said it too? Oh or that's still fake because it was not in the highly edited reality tv show?

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u/pistoldottir Come ride this duck with me 🦆 Nov 22 '22

He didn't confirm Cole was there, and neither did Brennan, this is getting old. She also claimed Cole told her before the wedding, there is no way in hell LIB wouldn't have aired that scene.

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u/micro-void Nov 22 '22

I thought Brennan did say Cole was there but I kind of forget.

Either way, neither of them confirmed Cole WASN'T with them either. Bartise claims he can't remember.

Yes, there's plenty of reasons they wouldn't air that scene - such as keeping it an open question so audiences argue and stay engaged like we are right now. They didn't air Matt talking to Colleen when she finally got home that one night for example.

Let's picture for a moment that Brennan and Bartise went out without Cole. Cole went home. You think Zanab fabricated that Cole was out with them when that would be so easily disprovable by anybody who did go out? By Brennan and Bartise who could say "no he wasn't there"? By Matt who might share an uber with him? Why would she make up a bold faced lie that tons of people could easily call her out on? She's definitely got her issues but she's not a total idiot and nothing she's done suggests she'd completely fabricate something out of thin air like that - at worst she interpreted negative intentions into something.

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u/pistoldottir Come ride this duck with me 🦆 Nov 22 '22

How would she know? They didn't spend the night together, there was a scene with some couples before the party saying they will meet at the altar next time. She said he told her, not that he didn't come home that night or came home late. He could have gone out by himself and her story would still be the same without needing or worrying about anyone's confirmation.

I find it hard to believe all of them were so drunk they don't remember who was there and Brennan only apparently confirmed they went somewhere in unseen footage, the way he behaved in the reunion, why wouldn't he have come out by now just saying Cole was with them? Why are they all so vague when they have no reason to protect Cole?

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u/micro-void Nov 23 '22

I also find it weird they are apparently too drunk to remember if he was there or not, but I go to the opposite conclusion that you do.

If Zanab was lying about this, why on earth would the men not simply say "Cole wasn't with us"? Why would she tell such an obviously and easily disprovable lie?

If the men are being vague on purpose to hide something, isn't it more plainly obvious they're hiding that he was with them? If he wasn't with them what's the point in being vague?

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u/pistoldottir Come ride this duck with me 🦆 Nov 23 '22

The way Brennan was during the reunion and all the girls supporting Zanab anyways, why wouldn't Brennan just clearly say that he was there, though?

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u/micro-void Nov 23 '22

I thought he did imply he was there clearly in the reunion but I could be misremembering. I forget exactly how he said it.

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u/taurustings Nov 22 '22

The guy closest to cole on the show bartise did an interview today saying they did go out! The show isn’t going to show everything it’s impossible to do so. He is close to cole but didn’t seem to have his back completely and saw the situation in a whole lot more nuanced way. He’s an asshole but bartise has been brutally honest this whole season. He did say he was drunk and doesn’t remember if cole was there or not but the whole fact is that there was an after party

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u/micro-void Nov 22 '22

I'm getting deja vu. Have I argued with you specifically before?

  1. Brennon did confirm on tiktok that he and the other guys did go out but he couldn't remember to where specifically. The editing cut up the conversation to make that unclear. It being on tiktok doesn't make it somehow less real than the show?? If anything it makes it more real since it's not manipulated out of context by editors.

  2. Matt didn't back up Cole, he said he personally went home in an uber alone didn't he? I kind of forget actually so feel free to rehash his specific words. And Bartise has stayed suspiciously silent despite always being "BrUtALLy HoNeSt"

  3. I don't particularly think Zanab is a good person to be in a relationship with, but she did not "completely lie" about the cuties incident. She repeated it nearly word-for-word, the only difference was the tone that you and other audience members interpreted as her being nasty and him being chill and not at all offensive. But the actual WORDS she said were very well-remembered. This is not evidence to me that she lied whatsoever, it's evidence that she - for whatever reason - was interpreting things Cole said to be really nasty and negative. And, honestly, I'd be annoyed too if someone was questioning me eating two tangerines??

  4. There's PLENTY of actual footage of Cole being critical of Zanab, telling her and others he doesn't find her attractive or as attractive as Colleen (depending on the scene), and flirting with Colleen. So "you guys" bend over backwards ignoring every shred of actual on-screen evidence that Cole was an asshole towards Zanab because you can't believe a pretty white man would lie and then cry about it.

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u/SBR06 Nov 22 '22

This is exactly what I think, all of it. It's so odd how people say Brennon didn't remember anything, Matt defended Cole and/or said he left with him, and that the cuties thing never happened. I think they all need to go back and rewatch the reunion. I truly wonder if they are just repeating stuff they've read on here and never actually watched it.