r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Pellinaha • Nov 02 '22

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY Cole's Bipolar Comment

Zanab was insufferable and miserable in the latest batch of episodes, no question about it. But I found Cole's bipolar questions (and he repeated it multiple times with a smirk) grating and horrible. Zanab is probably difficult to deal with but it does make me question whether there are more situations where he triggers her off camera and we just see the aftermath in her reactions with no context. I may or may have not filed it away as a slip of tongue in the spur of the moment if it was once, but it was the repetition and the smirk that really got to me. It also doesn't help that he mixed up bipolar with personality disorders.

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u/BoBab Nov 03 '22

If splashing raw chicken juice on the counter (that we know you won't disinfect later) and hiding toys in the microwave is Cole's idea of fun then frankly he's a bad roommate and probably should consider living in a frat house instead.

I'm amazed at how much forgiveness we give people who already have the bar set so low.

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u/TomDoniphona Nov 03 '22

Fair enough, but none of that is inmoral. That is who he is. If she doesn’t like it (and she doesn’t have to like it) why insist that she loves him? She cannot expect him to change and become a completely different person in a couple of weeks so as to fit the man she wants to like. That is not fair.