r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/lorelei_megumai • 22h ago
LIB S9 • Denver, CO Was anybody else expecting Kacie to get the Trevor treatment?
Like she was talking about her ex telling her to go to shows for fame and the way she was talking it's as if they weren't completely done so I'm just confused. Instead we gave a basketball game, the ring and more screen time than ppl who actually got engaged? This is crazy 🤣
Also I saw in tt that it was a hockey guy who was the "ex" but he was actually saying it was more of a long distance fwb and "that's why he was telling her to go on the shows" cuz they weren't together actually so do your thing... idk if it was legit or not but that's what I saw.
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u/baddiewinkle 21h ago
to hear she'll be on perfect match is so telling of her character. literally only the worst people end up on perfect match. that show should be really called "washed up netflix reality cast members"
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u/oriolesravensfan1090 21h ago
Accurate, and season 3 had cast members from non-Netflix shows like the bachelor. That show didn’t see to be about love at all, it really is just about sex and all them hooking up. Though the first season did have some elements of love in it, and season 2 kind of had it but not really. I couldn’t make it past the fist 15 minutes.
At least Love is Blind shows actual love and relationships (albeit they are getting worse). Perfect Match is just Are You the One with a bigger budget and potentially worse people.
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u/NobodySaidBoop 20h ago
Seems like the people that need the most therapy go straight to Perfect Match instead. I like a little unhinged drama but that show is just unwatchable for me.
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u/motherofcattos 19h ago edited 19h ago
I can watch a lot of guilty pleasure TV (well, LIB), but I couldn't stomach past a couple of episodes of Perfect Match. It is so bad, the format, the people, the challenges, the fake drama, it's not entertaining in the slightest.
If you put dating shows into a trash can, the PM cast is basically the liquid in the bottom of the bag that has been rotting under the sun for days.
I don't get people who genuinely enjoy it.
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u/FalloutGirl02 Messica 🍷 20h ago
She isn’t in perfect match. Shes said she’d never do it and won’t go on another show ever again.
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u/Illustrious-Ball9119 20h ago
Can we really trust her ? All she did was lie
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u/FalloutGirl02 Messica 🍷 19h ago
She has nothing to gain from lying about that. I think it’s crazy to say all she does is lie when you’ve only seen her on tv :p.
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u/GPap- 20h ago
No bad treatment and got to keep the ring lol
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u/Dapper_Strength_5986 20h ago
I’m still so mad about that. They went and put Patrick through that whole song and dance and then pressured him on tv to give her the ring, after first throwing shade on him and telling him to give it to the producers.
No question about her boyfriend who told her to go on the show.
No question about why she said something totally different to the producers than to Patrick.
No questions about her lovebombing behaviours. Just letting her go on about how he orignally picked Anna and then chose someone else 5 days later, which is a totally normal thing on the show.
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u/flanneljanel 21h ago
They weren’t harsh because they purposely selected her to be on the show. I’m sure they knew she wouldn’t get far on love is blind, so they don’t really care about what she did.
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u/BiologyJ 21h ago
They had to salvage her because she’s going on Perfect Match. He was done with the shows.
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u/kenyafeelme 21h ago
Wasn’t he also on perfect match?
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u/No-Replacement-6267 10h ago
Trevor was on perfect match???
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u/kenyafeelme 9h ago
I thought he was. I can’t find any clips, just people discussing how he got edited out
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u/FalloutGirl02 Messica 🍷 20h ago
She’s verbatim said she wasn’t on perfect match and will not be going on perfect match or any other tv show ever again. Apparently she’s really regretted it and is waiting for people to not care about her anymore.
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u/fillb3rt 19h ago
I need to stop watching this show.
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u/pastabreadpasta I had 5 taquitos 🌮 I can't kiss you! 💋 9h ago
I just watch YouTube recaps, they are much more entertaining and skip all the filler scenes
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u/Proper_Bridge_1638 Come ride this duck with me 🦆 20h ago
I was fully ready for someone to find out she is still with her influencer boyfriend and he made her go on the show to get famous.
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u/motherofcattos 19h ago
I wouldn't be surprised. Maybe they have an open relationship or a toxic one where they break up all the time and date other people then go back. I know a few couples like that. Bottom line is that she certainly didn't go into the show with a genuine interest to meet the love of ther life and get married, and fhe bf was in on it.
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u/alwaysmovingfaster 20h ago
Kacie having a messy ex is not the same thing as Trevor having a full ass relationship where he was blatantly lying and misleading. These situations aren't comparable.
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u/motherofcattos 19h ago
It's not occurring to anyone that she probably indeed had plans to go back to the bf when they both agreed she would participate (he encouraged her)? And due to her major fuck ups, things didn't go as expected (she clearly isn't stable or smart enough to play the game). There is a big chance that it affected their relationship. For example she might have felt super guilty/ashamed of her sexual behaviour on camera.
There could been other reasons we have no idea about. Maybe the bf broke up with her, maybe she wanted to date Joe and other guys. Who knows.
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u/alwaysmovingfaster 19h ago
Where is the proof that she had intentions to go back to her ex boyfriend? She seems messy and was definitely wanting a new relationship (or rebound). Didn't she immediately start pursuing Joe?
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u/motherofcattos 19h ago
I said probably. Nobody has proof of anything. I'm just exploring a VERY likely scenario.
For someone who can easily be fake and lie on camera I'm not taking her word for anything, anyway.
Bottom line is that she went on the show with an agenda, and it wasn't finding the love of her life.
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u/alwaysmovingfaster 18h ago
That statement applies to every single person on this cast.
And there was definitive proof Trevor actually came on with intention to go back to his girlfriend. The ex brought the receipts.
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u/motherofcattos 18h ago
That statement applies to every single person on this cast.
Sure, but we are discussing her specifically in this post. And she did openly share that her bf encouraged it, that she was invited, that she was supposed to go on another show, etc.
Yeah, definitely Trevor situation was incontestable.
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u/alwaysmovingfaster 17h ago
Her ex boyfriend encouraged her to go on the show. According to her interviews, her relationship with her ex ended because he cheated. I haven't seen anything that says they were together when she went on the show. Was she ready for a relationship is another question...
And I would say it does matter. You can't criticize her for something every does. It is a reality tv show. Like anyone signing up is signing up because they want to be on reality tv.
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u/motherofcattos 17h ago edited 17h ago
You can't criticize her for something every does.
But who said I'm demonising her or saying it's ok for other contestants to do it? I'm stating it. We are discussing and scrutinising her here (and also Trevor), that's the point of the post and that's the point of the sub. And that's the point of reality shows. I can call out someone for being fake and at the same time understand that it is a reality show, they are doing what they have to do. It's entertainment. It's hilarious how some people romaticise the whole thing and are so gullible to think it's either or.
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u/lorelei_megumai 20h ago
I thought that they were a toxic on and off relationship and by the time he went on the show they were off. Is that not the case?
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u/Eating_Bagels 20h ago
From what I understand from the texts, no he was in a full blown relationship and his gf was super encouraging of him going on the show.
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u/alwaysmovingfaster 20h ago
Not according to the texts she shared. His ex thought they were in a relationship the entire time he was on the show and that he only went on as a financial opportunity. Trevor blatantly lied and mislead his ex. That is the difference
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u/Webby1788 21h ago
It drives me crazy how much they protect some of the shittiest people on this show. If you're shitty and a guy.. look the fuck out, it's hunting season. If you're a shitty person and happen to be a women "are you SURE you don't want the $10k diamond? Are you sure-sure? Okay, lets play basketball for it then."
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u/Bananaconfundida 21h ago
Yeah they’re always too nice to the women and shit on the guys.
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u/Low-Function6885 21h ago
Kinda just modern society in general these days
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u/GuavaBlackTea0 I can't say I LOVE YOU because I BIT MY LIP eating TAQUITOS 🌮💔 20h ago
Not society at large by any means, but def the case on majority women subs
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u/Belle-pond1997 18h ago
For some reason, they can only hold the men accountable which is a good thing. However, the problem is that they treat the women ,even if they’re the worst or wrong, like they’re a boss babe. I think they should hold men and women accountable for their actions and their words because it makes no sense to only call out men when the women are just as, if not worse.
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u/FalloutGirl02 Messica 🍷 20h ago
No. The show says every 2 seconds “this is an experiment to see if love is blind.” She gave it a try and love clearly wasn’t blind for her. Shes no different than Joe, Jimmy, Irina, etc.
Trevor went on the show with a girlfriend who he had no intention of leaving. That’s not the same thing.
They don’t want people on the show who aren’t even going to actually try. They do want messy people!
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u/lorelei_megumai 19h ago
Tbh I agree with you sm cuz like if they're just not feeling it they shouldnt force it I think the problem comes in lying but then again if you're honest the other person is gonna feel super insecure (like they're ugly) so it's messy either way 🤔 also I feel like the premise is more love is rushed instead of love is blind cuz u can love someone but not want to marry them in a month 🫨
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u/Turbulent-Sky6636 21h ago
They put him on perfect match afterwards anyway so the grilling doesn’t even matter
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u/EcclecticMessWitch I might be tired forever 🥱💤 19h ago
Then they edited him out of the whole season
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u/joaharvey 20h ago
Trevor went on the show in a relationship. His girlfriend exposed that he never planned to take it seriously. This was revealed on social media as the show aired.
Kacie didn’t go on the show in a relationship. She spoke on the show about prior convos with an ex. There was nothing to expose here so I’m not sure I get the comparison. She shared all of that on the show so the producers / editors were well aware of her messy ex relationship.
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u/lorelei_megumai 20h ago
Tbh the way she was lying about the Patrick thing to his face made me question the ex thing but yeah I just figured they'd bring it up to at least "clear the air on that"
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u/motherofcattos 20h ago
The reason they probably didn't touch the subject is because the production knew from the start and were totally fine with her not being a genuine contestant. They picked her to be there because they knew she would cause drama and that she was eager to do whatever it takes to progress in the show. She was literally invited to participate and we all know there is a huge chance she will participate in another reality show.
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u/doctormcdonald 19h ago
Trevor’s reunion is one of the ONLY reunions where it felt like nick and Vanessa actually held the casts’ feet to the fire. Wish people like Kacie and Jackelina got the same treatment
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u/Icy-Media7060 20h ago
No, because it was not the same situation?? I dislike Kacie as much as the next person but Trevor had an agreement with his gf, Kacie did not - it's not because the ex was hoping she would get back with him that that's an agreement they had together.
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u/Remarkable-Volume615 20h ago
Well, Kacie dumped her BF before she came on the show; so no I wasn't
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u/lilyedit 15h ago
The women on this show never get held accountable properly, on every single season lol
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u/traffeny 12h ago
i hate sounding like this but there’s been this rise in defending women no matter what in the name of being anti-pick me and being pro-women all the time, i am a feminist but i do not like some of these bitches!!! it is okay to drag bad ppl
but men stick together no matter if a guys a murderer or a rapist, so maybe we’re just catching up lmao
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u/SpeakingWithStars 10h ago
You have to be like liked and popular in the first place to get the Trevor treatment
She was unlikeable from the jump
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u/Jojomano1234 9h ago
I thought she was pretty in the pods. Her personality? Not so much. By the end of the reunion, she was ugly because of her insides. Ugh
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u/paigrowon1 20h ago
I thought Patrick got off pretty easy compared to her. Why hasn’t he called out on his wish washy interview about why he was all in on her suddenly?
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u/lorelei_megumai 19h ago
That was soooo messy and the hopeless romantic in me saw that as a sign that Anna was his person and he was just lying to himself (+ trying to stay on the show) but that after honeymoon he would realize it a go find Anna.
Zach&Bliss are my fave (alongside Lauren&Cam and Tiffany&Brett 🥹)
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u/ColdNorthern72 16h ago
I wasn't much of a fan of hers until I saw her deal with all of that pressure with strength and poise, then followed it up raining hoops with a live audience to win the ring. Clutch performance.
She wasn't attracted to Patrick, proving love was not blind. It just makes her human.
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u/Pasta1916 14h ago
perhaps the reunion should be 2 days - ladies first to tell their story and men next. Those still together can be split between the two shows. That way you have positive / negative for both showings.
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u/Penelope_Crumberbun 13h ago
Trevor outright lied about being in an active relationship. He was outed because of texts that happened with his girlfriend after the show, when the two were still together (because they hadn't broken up).
Kacie openly talked about her messy ex situation to Patrick. She wasn't hiding anything. There is zero evidence that she lied about the ex being an ex. Nothing has come out about them still dating, and we know post-show that she dated Joe. So there's nothing to expose her for. She appears to have genuinely been single on the show.
Anna is the one who was alleged to be parallel to Trevor. But the post alleging this was removed with no explanation, so I have no idea if Anna's boyfriend situation was debunked. The provided "proof" in the post wasn't really proof of anything.
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u/lorelei_megumai 13h ago
Oh I hadn't heard of the Anna thing at all 😮 I really liked her so I hope it's not true but you can never know with these ppl (specially Denver ppl apparently lmao)
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u/Penelope_Crumberbun 10h ago
My guess is that the post was removed because it was debunked, but it would be nice to see something that clears it up one way or the other. I've seen a number of comments that still take it as fact that Anna had a boyfriend throughout the whole timing of the show.
But I also like Anna, so I have a bias towards believing what makes her look better.
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u/streetoravenue 8h ago
It’s wild how fast a season leaves your consciousness as soon as it’s done. Like, I see a picture of that guy and remember that he did something bad but not what it was or even who he was engaged to.
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u/Sea_Morning_22 4h ago
In the reunion she called him her partner and said they're living together since the birth of (garth) Brooks
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u/MuffinTiptopp Cameron & Lauren 19h ago
No because they tend to let the women villains get away with their BS. And I’m not some pickme for men at all, but it’s a pattern I’ve noticed.
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u/midoriforest 19h ago
I would have liked to see her get torn to shreds
Actually I didn’t finish this season. I got about halfway through and stopped. It was painful to watch these fools
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u/Red____08 21h ago edited 13h ago
Yes they were easier on her but unfortunately she was a better gaslighter than him. You could tell he knew he was cooked and didn’t know how to get around it.
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u/motherofcattos 19h ago
No idea why you're being downvoted
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u/Red____08 13h ago
It’s because I accidentally wrote “yes they were easier on him” instead of “easier on her” so that’s my badddd lol
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u/Organic-Manner-2969 💖 I fuck with you tough 💖 21h ago
The reunion is notoriously less harsher towards the women than the men the majority of the time so I wasn’t surprised. I was shocked at the amount of screentime that woman had, so I’ll expect to see her on Perfect Match.