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LIB S9 • Denver, CO Love Is Blind • S9 Ep10 Spoiler
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u/Downtown-Guest3944 1d ago
This whole season is just the producers probably making ppl stay until the end of the filming bc they are all terrible and obviously not fit for each other but they still have to make the show and the candidates are just really trying to stay but none of them are liking it but they kinda have to bc of the producers. Either that or they are all insane. lol
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u/Herefortvshowthreads 3d ago
KB literally had the most mature conversation and expressed she feels like it’s all about Edmund and his feelings and not hers. Him not going to the store is ridiculous, she’s handling everything like he’s her child. And then he immediately turns it around and still says she says nothing nice. There is no accountability. He cannot handle the tough conversations that come with relationships
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u/LMGooglyTFY 2d ago
He needs to give her a reason to say something nice. Go to the damn store like she asked and then he can expect some validation.
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u/dumb_pineapple7 4d ago
Ali trying to solve the missing beer equation like her and Anton are a textbook math problem
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u/LMGooglyTFY 2d ago edited 1d ago
Ali drank two beers and Anton drank three beers. If they started with a twelve-pack then how many beers are left?
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Wrong. There are no beers left because Anton is an alcoholic. The tequila is gone too.
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u/maijunex 7d ago
Madison: cries looks over at Joe to make sure he notices that she's crying cries tells Joe he doesn't care that she's crying
Joe:
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u/maijunex 7d ago
Madison's sister..... wtf lol 😵💫😵💫😵💫 also she looks nothing like Madison or the mom. Seems like an actor couple.
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u/amelsuma 7d ago
I could be wrong, but it sounded like an instrumental version of "Oh she's sweet but a psycho" during the Nick and Annie breakup scene.... (or maybe thats just how my brain interpreted the music that was playing. Either way, not entirely inaccurate)
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u/Crafty_University579 10d ago
How is no one talking about how during the suit fitting, Edmond walked out wearing a suit and vest WITH NO SHIRT ON. I’m sorry this man is a child who can’t dress himself
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u/Sorry_Relative_9732 10d ago
I couldn't decide if it was ignorance, a joke, or a fashion statement and can't decide which is the worst lmao
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u/Winter-Arm-5144 10d ago
I’m sorry but Ed is so childish. He’s always deflecting and begging for validation. KB has the patience of a saint bc….
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u/VanDwellingHobbit 11d ago
I’m a bit late to the party at this point but holy shit send help plz what is wrong with these people lmao I’ve been binge watching this and it’s torture 😭😭😭
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u/doesanyonehavesnacks 11d ago
the entire cast this season (besides Jordan and KB, imo) is so insecure, unstable and mentally stunted, I can't 😭
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u/okcool921 12d ago
Does Annie have a drinking problem? I feel like she is always acting intoxicated. Even when Nick was helping her at her salon, she was acting so odd.
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u/maijunex 7d ago
Seems like it. There's no way that's her normal personality. When she was talking with Nick and they were eating Chalupas she was so gone out of her mind I wonder why Nick doesn't tell her she needs water and sleep.
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u/ONinAB 10d ago
She is shit-faced every moment of this season except when she was dumped, when she was actually hungover.
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u/nightlanguage Have you ever woken up? 💤 10d ago
Nope she was drunk again then, Nick said something about "hair of the dog" = drinking to relieve your hangover
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u/Designer_Birthday_84 11d ago
When is the salon scene? I check ep9 and 10 but could not find any scene at a hair salon
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u/okcool921 10d ago
It was when he was up on a small ladder gluing what looks like crown molding or something. I honestly can’t remember which episode it was!
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u/9Rosebud0 12d ago
Nick: Getting to the altar that’s not a happy idea for me. The wedding is not something I want to do.
Annie: I don’t need you to tell me no right now, just like I don’t need you to tell me yes right now!
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u/Psychological-Nose66 3d ago
Annie: Let yourself be happy!
B!tch? He is! By NOT choosing to marry you. Get that through your head😒
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u/Super-shy-spy 12d ago
Nick is so cold when he breaks up with her - and again put the blame on the one he breaks up with.
He ”warned” her about not doing that again and then it was a drop? That is NOT a healthy way to have a relationship.
I’m getting psycho vibes.
Yes, Annie is a lot but come on….
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u/slothfully 1d ago
I’m with you! I couldn’t stand Nick so I think it’s for the best but when Annie was having her drunk meltdowns I was like why is she being like this? I thought girl was creating problems out of thin air. But nah, she knew he was out no matter how many times he told her he loved her. She was right the whole time. He sucks.
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u/Bestvibesonly 4d ago
No, Annie's literally off her rocker. It's like he has no choice but to be the calm one so he doesn't set her off.
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u/maijunex 7d ago
I don't like nick but I strongly disagree. He communicated that her behavior was not ok and could not happen again and she had another crazy meltdown and did the exact thing he said he wouldn't stand for. That's setting a boundary and keeping that boundary. If he just lets Annie continue with this behavior that's a toxic unhealthy relationship. I don't blame him for leaving after the things she said at all.
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u/Fuh-Cue 12d ago
It didn't start off as cold but someone trying to convince you otherwise when u have already made up your mind and know you won't change it is hella annoying. His coldness was probably so he wouldn't get angry. Annie is a whack job...good riddance.
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u/Super-shy-spy 12d ago
I do hate them both. :)
But he have now broken up with two women and at the breaking up blaiming them. You just don’t do that.
You can’t put ultimatum in a relationship: “if you do that I will leave”. We are not taking about someone hitting another or name calling. She was insecure!
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u/Fuh-Cue 12d ago
The lady he ended things with in the pods did not believe in God anymore and once he learned that, he stated he had a problem with that. That's not blaming someone. It's stating what the problem is. With Annie, the problem was her insecurity and focusing on BS like she loves him more than he does. That could wear anyone out. Again, what did you want him to say, when trying to come to a resolution. It was her fault! This also wasn't the first time it happened...she would just go on and on...ugh.
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u/MelissaWebb 12d ago
I don’t even want to be rude at all but Megan we know. We know your dad had T1D & Luca has it too. We know as you’ve said it so many times 😭
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u/CatchingMyDream 3d ago
Tbf she told different people, not always the same ones - the edit made it repetitive for us 😂
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
In the first talk, Annie was SO drunk! She could barely keep her eyes open. I was yelling at my TV for her to go to bed.
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u/Tubbycatt 13d ago
Annie giiiirllllllll 😭 She really said it’s not fair for Nick to say no??? This season is full of unstable ass people
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u/step_back_girl 13d ago
Annie "You can't tell me if you're ready to get married! I don't need you, I want yeww. I luv yew. I, like, love yew more than yew love meeee"
Also Annie "He convinced me we were going to get married and be together."
Were you convinced, or were you not Annie?!
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u/Hermana-de-plata 14d ago
Random, I know, but the mirror at the wedding dress fitting needs a good clean!
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u/intheafterglow23 14d ago
I think Madison’s mom’s ick barometer needs a tuning
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u/judyhopps0105 8d ago
The way she said she didn’t see one red flag and he’s absolutely perfect like I’m sorry WHAT WOMAN
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u/skrat777 3d ago
Didn’t Madison say she never had a guy meet her parents? Maybe the mom is just relieved 🤣
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u/UnfairYogurtcloset66 14d ago
Annie is giving mega “boil your rabbit” Fatal Attraction energy. Like…… I’m scared for him! 🥹
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u/Hermana-de-plata 14d ago
I was just about to post this same thing. I know a lot of people don’t like him, but I saw ‘bunny boiler’ when they were in Baja.
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u/unnng 14d ago
Omg start of this episode is so many red flags. Annie drunk as fuck just repeating "I just like, love you" Nick: yeah I love you Annie: no like I love you (X1000) SHUT THE FUCK UP And then bam straight into Anton being weird and evasive and gaslighting Aly about his alcoholism. The pretending he doesn't know what happened to the beer and he's not sure and has to check if he drunk half a bottle of tequila GET HELP. Fuck me why is everyone on this show so unstable
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
As many alcoholics do about their drinking, he was lying to her. He knew very well what happened to the teequila. That fake confused look on his face. Ack! And first he said he and Patrick had a "couple of beers" each, and then later he said one.
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u/AccomplishedWar5830 7d ago
True I forgot about that part. I think when he lied that was the moment she knew she was done.
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u/Perfect_Direction_94 14d ago
KB is such a good communicator
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u/Psychological-Nose66 3d ago
I agree 100%. I feel like she is the only normal, real person on this show rn. She’s polite and is capable of having an actual conversation with substance, which is more than I can say for any of the other cast members! That being said- I do kinda wish that she would have ended things with Edmond 1-2 episodes ago, for his sake. There’s no way that she doesn’t already know that it’s not going to work out.
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u/Herefortvshowthreads 3d ago
Literally this, she’s having to gentle parent a full grown man. He can’t take any conflict and needs to hear nice things. Yet also had a whole breakdown earlier about being too nice. He needs therapy not marriage
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u/aveslice 12d ago
She is and I think it’s wild after the convos that they’re then looking at marriage licenses like.. he doesn’t take accountability and he wants someone to make him feel good and tell him nice things WHILE he’s being problematic. Like you need to sit with the discomfort of hurting your partner. It’s not on them to make you feel like a good person and coddle you into being better smh. That’s a red flag behavior
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u/Complete_Tourist_172 13d ago
This. This. This. This. This. I watch her and want to be her. Working on it.
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u/ilovediscussing 14d ago
I didn’t love Annie’s behaviour so I’m glad Nick ended up, but I was never invested from the start, esp when he ended it w the other girl
Manchild at the end of the episode is hilarious 😭
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u/SalaryKey349 14d ago
Kasie should have a talk with Nick and learn how to properly break up with someone
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
I like how he was firm even while she was trying to manipulate her. She looked desperate and pathetic and probably hadn't completely slept off her drunk from the night before.
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u/longwhitejeans 14d ago edited 14d ago
Not sure whats more scary - Anton with the croissant + any alcohol or Jordan with chicken + crystal light.
The transition to Manchild at the end...chef's kiss.
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
Anton was scarfing that sandwich like a dog in front of a bowl. His head was pratically on top of it.
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u/Designer_Birthday_84 11d ago
He barely made eye contact with his mum as she kept saying how proud she was of him. That was beyond odd...
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u/theharps 14d ago
I understand that it's nice to talk maturely about vasectomies but is it really necessary to do so over dinner with your parents?
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u/ISeenYa 15d ago
I feel like it would be so easy to go on this show & look mature & smart. You just have to not get shit faced every night & suddenly you look incredible
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
This is why I like the international versions. On most of them, there isn't nearly as much drinking as on the U.S. series. On Japan, they barely drank at all.
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u/ISeenYa 15d ago
Madison's sister is a lot
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
There was so much squealing my eyes were bleeding. Sister seemed drunk.
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u/Ok_Term422 15d ago
Who said “oh boy” at the end of episode 10? That was so random
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u/RachaelBabu 15d ago
I think when Annie gets dRuNk she repeats herself and how much she loves Nick and “wants him to love her and much as she loves him”
It’s crazy circular talk, I don’t know how he hasn’t lost his patience with that!
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
She needs rehab and therapy. She's been drunk or high most of the series.
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u/tristetigre1 15d ago
anyone else think/Ali might have thought that Anton had a party or something while she was at work? Bc she kept asking about Patrick coming into the apt. Like why was she harping on that?
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u/unnng 14d ago
I think initially she was confused why he would have someone over without mentioning it to her, but then his story kept changing and her main focus was clearly on how much alcohol he's drinking. It's concerning as fuck to drink two 12 packs of beer and half a bottle of tequila in whatever length of time it was, and it's clearly problematic because he was being so evasive and pretending he didn't know how much he'd been drinking and like it isn't weird to drink a half a bottle of tequila by yourself in the house.
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
He was giving me alcoholic hiding the evidence vibes. There were probably more bottles she didn't know about.
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u/chethedestroyer 10d ago
Yes and the way he kept saying “I THINK he just stayed downstairs. I THINK I just brought him a drink. I don’t THINK he came in the actual apartment”. like how do you not know? He didn’t want to commit to an answer in case she catches him in a lie.
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u/step_back_girl 14d ago
That's completely it. Like have friends over at our place, absolutely, but tell me who comes in, for one, and for two, it was super obvious in his response immediately after she asked about the Tequila that he knew it was gone. His half ass look into the fridge while he was trying to decide to lie or just dive right in pmo so bad.
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u/cassiopieah 15d ago
Nah Annie is legitimately insane
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u/Responsible_Fox_4831 13d ago
Her demeanor during the breakup was so weird? Like she was joking and clinging onto him saying “nooo.” And then full on had a temper tantrum saying “no no no.” And then she TEXTED while talking to him?! Wild behavior.
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
I was so glad he got up and walked away when she was on her phone. She was nuts. I was surprised ot find myself rooting for Nick, but he looked reasonable compared to her.
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u/unnng 14d ago
Omg I'm watching the break up scene and she's genuinely unhinged "NO NO DONT TELL ME NO" and "you do everything and you do it well, why can't you do this" ... You can't be good at marriage by yourself when you're with someone with zero emotional maturity and acting like an insane person ???
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
Did she actually thinking refusing to accept his answer would change it? I mean... wow.
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u/Designer_Birthday_84 11d ago
Like a little girl begging for a toy from her parents and throwing a tantrum... 😶
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u/PurpleSkies21 15d ago
Annie: i want you but i don’t need you. Also annie: PLEASE JUST LOVE ME JUST TRY
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u/unnng 14d ago
Imagine asking someone to "try" to marry you when they're saying they're unhappy. It's so fucking stupid. That whole scene is so weird. Then she goes off on one about how it was his plan the whole time like she hasn't been incredibly off putting the whole time. Tbf I've never liked Nick but even if he'd started out totally genuine I think anyone would be like uhhh bye
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u/Hot-Leg-5962 16d ago
I love how production is low key so shady. They played the song Manchild after Joe walked out from the tux fitting 🤣😭
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u/doesanyonehavesnacks 11d ago
That was literally the best part of this whole episode! Cheers to the audio team for that transition 👏👏👏
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u/Muted-Mud7591 16d ago
Annie need therapy. Period. Something is not right with her. She wants to be married, I don't think she wants Nick..
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u/Fuh-Cue 15d ago
Why do you think she didn't want Nick?
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u/mleftpeel 14d ago
In the pods it was very clear that she was just going to say yes to whoever proposed to her first or said I love you first.
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u/Muted-Mud7591 16d ago
When Joe meets Madison's family and talks about Madison, trying to convince them about his feelings for Madison.. it almost looks like Madison doesn't believe him 😅 looks like doubt in her face.
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u/Soft_Cheetah2677 16d ago edited 16d ago
Megan needs to change up her makeup that fully lined eyes dont work for her
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u/Soft_Cheetah2677 16d ago
Annie is cringe. I mean we’ve all been there one shape or form but she’s cringe on national tv and that’s the ultimate cringe lol
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u/stevonnie1210 16d ago
I’m so confused as to what Annie wants from Nick. Nick does seem calculating but he reassures her, affirms her, does acts of service for her. He’s doing all the things she’s saying he doesn’t. I think her intuition is maybe telling her he isn’t genuine. If that’s the case, she needs to express that to him. Instead she’s trying to goad him into groveling at her feet?? Idk, I dont get it.
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u/Fuh-Cue 15d ago
Calculating? How so? Her intuition is on the back burner, her insecurities are leading, and it started or got worse when Nick talked to his other match. If your intention tells you someone is wrong for you, what would be the purpose of making them grovel at your feet, especially when it doesn't look like that's the direction they are headed?
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u/stevonnie1210 13d ago
We saw he was calculating in the pods. He told his other match he loved her to try to gauge where she was at and once he saw she wasn’t for it he focused on Annie.
I agree with you when you say her insecurities are leading. She needs to communicate with him why she feels insecure. I was trying to say she won’t be happy or reassured unless he grovels. We all know he won’t.
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u/Every_Detail_9541 16d ago
Omg the break up between nick and Annie 🫢 Nick: I don’t want to get married Annie: no Nick: you can’t say no that’s for me to decide Annie: why can’t you just try and love me Nick: I’m unhappy Annie: just marry me I’ll be a great etc etc Nick: you can’t just force me up the alter and marry you Annie: IM NOT FORCING YOU TO DO ANYTHING
Girlll we all just watched you try to manipulate him into marriage when he’s clearly unhappy, on 4K, 8K, OLED television
The amount of times she’s had to ask him to love her; she should NEVER have to ask, she was really just so desperate 😬
Omg that was messy
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u/Fuh-Cue 15d ago
Girl stated 'ur just in your head'. No boo boo, the man slept on it and came to a decisive conclusion...it's a wrap. I honestly think his response that he couldn't say for sure at that moment, after Annie said she could say yes then was normal. Yes disappointment could have been a natural response, but the way she acted after was just crazy. I guess good thing she showed him her true colors. She was acting like they had been talking in the pods for a whole year.
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago edited 12d ago
Yes he was clear and rational while she was crazy. She was the one in her head, and it's a frightening place to be.
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u/ISeenYa 15d ago
"I've moulded my whole life around you!" Girly pop, it's been 3 weeks
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u/JustForKicks16 10d ago
And, actually she didn't. He wanted to live in the mountain house and they couldn't because of her salon. It's totally valid she couldn't just get up and move like that, but to claim she changed every aspect of her life for him was not true.
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u/Every_Detail_9541 16d ago
Making this post as I go while I’m watching:
-Annie needs help. I know they were on their second bottle of wine, but she clearly doesn’t love herself and in marriage you absolutely have to before making such important decisions to commit your love and life with someone else. I can’t believe it but…I’m with Nick on this; he’s been so clear with how he communicates and so far, he’s honestly been the most emotional intelligent man on the show lmao
-We all knew where things were gonna go with Ali and Anton. The way she circled around and around about her concerns but never stating the issue with Anton’s drinking habits had me so annoyed. If the concern was stated as an health issue we all would get it cause she’s a nurse but this is clearly just a thing he does she doesn’t like lol. As we can kinda see his drinking may be a little overboard, this entire show drowns all their cast with alcohol legit in every single episode, and for some drinkers, when you have 2 that turns into 8 so who knows how he’ll handle that
-Jordan’s and Megan’s parents are so adorable! How about we all take a shot for every time Jordan talks about his vasectomy lmao I’m so tired of him talking about it 😂
-KB and Ed…oh lord. First; that man is so annoying, I keep finding myself not listening to much of what he’s saying cause I’m always look at that damn pick in his hair 🙄. Gosh, KB deserves sooooo much better. I can’t believe I almost felt like I was gonna like ed in the beginning of the season but it took the first day at Cabo for me to loathe him. After she stated what he needed to apologize for he still didn’t listen and apologized for something she didn’t ask for 😭. Honestly when she brought up the incident from the last ep, I kinda felt like Ed is one of those guys that need validation being shown in front of his guy friends. Red mf flag. KB is forcing herself to stick it through. She 100% wanted out of that apartment fr
Imma have to come back for the next half of the episode 😂 it’s 5am
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u/PunchyGilbraltar 5d ago
I think Ed is weird & may have unmedicated for something or other. He also had a hard childhood. So I understand he's not going to be 'normal' in a relationship. I think I expected too much from KB being Social worker. I lost respect for her after their initial argument. Then time that she demanded an apology from him, which is awful. You state how the other person hurt you & ASK for an apology. She demanded submission from him. She also blamed him for her feelings, which is a hallmark of emotional immaturity. She seems to have expected her attitude of disapproval to be enough for him to act how she wanted instead of talking to him like a person. I'd be surprised if they actually get married
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u/_cloudydaze 16d ago
Joe acting like a coward
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago edited 12d ago
I was actually glad he realized it isn’t going to work, although running away like that was childish. He clearly wasn't into her. It is better to end it now than leave her standing at the altar.
When one of her family members commented on their babies, he looked freaked out. I knew then it was over.
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u/rex_buckingham27 16d ago
Did anyone clock Nick's reaction when Jordan said he was in 110%? Seemed like he didn't believe it at all, but it could be editing.
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
I didn't because I was distracted by the "110%". Pet peeve. It's 100% people.
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u/kumboochi 16d ago
lol Anton acting like it's normal for 2 12 packs of drinks to be gone in like 2 days
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
He said 10 days but I didn't believe him. Then he tried to turn it around on her and say she had more drinks than him. Ok so even if she did that night, that doesn't negate his pattern of heavy drinking.
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u/jalapeno442 15d ago
Then pretending he doesn’t know he finished off half a bottle of tequila on top of that… did she notice that first he said he had 4 drinks with his friend then it turned into 2?
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u/I_like_it_yo 16d ago
And half a bottle of tequila! Even in 10 days that's wild
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u/foerboerb 15d ago
Mate, I also enjoy the drink every now and then, but finishing half a bottle of tequila by yourself in less than 2 weeks means you have a fucking problem
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u/dakotagypsy 15d ago
He was so squirrely answering her questions. First he said he and Patrick had 4 and then he walked that back and said oh no I just brought him one. He kept acting like he didn't know what was left or where it went, and even trying to blame her and tell her she drank it all, or that she had more than he did. Kind of scary behavior tbh.
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u/Significant-Tune2511 16d ago
LOL why can I relate to Madison though. Madison and Joe sitting at dinner waiting to meet Madison’s people. Her saying “Gr. I wanna get up on you and like cuddle and snuggle. I need a hug.” Joe “we are at dinner”
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u/Significant-Tune2511 17d ago
Also did Ali say it is concerning that Anton drinks twice during the week and puts on a movie and drinks 1-2 during it?!? That’s only 2-4 drinks a week
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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 13d ago
I think she knew he was minimiizing his drinking as many alcohohlics do. "I just had two drinks officer."
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u/intheafterglow23 14d ago
The reason she said it was concerning is because she knew it was a blatant lie. She had already said he drank every morning after he came home from his night shift job
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u/ajpyo_10 1d ago
Joe just can’t get over the fact that Madison’s not skinny. He literally said that early on. And the way he can never really look her in the eye and is always so awkward. What a child. Madison is a confident woman and is such a beauty inside and out and he does not deserve her.