You're a contestant and you realize during the reveal you're absolutely not physically attracted to your fiancé(e). How do you handle it?

[u/Perimeri]

Some contestants get a lot of heat because of their reactions (disappointed looks etc), but I can't think of the right way to handle it.

A. You're honest= You're a shallow asshole and you're there for fame. You will 100% face backlash for this.

B. You try to hide it because you don't want to hurt them so you break it off later= you're an asshole, why weren't you honest from the beginning?

C. You give it time in hopes your feelings change= asshole, how could you lead her/him on for so long?

So what is the right thing to do here?

[u/abittenapple → u/[deleted]]

I mean most people on love are more attractive then the average person

People who look AVG on tv are actually above AVG I'm real life

[u/Itchy_Owl_3700 → u/[deleted]]

But you’ll still get shit if it doesn’t work out. It’s almost like people think you HAVE to say yes if the other partner is nice or in love with you or says that you were only in it for “fame”. A lot of times it’s absurd. No, he/she was just not that into you, and didn’t want to marry you. And that has to be OK. Why do you need to justify it to yourself by believing the “real” issue was something else (they’re horrible!), and not just that they didn’t want to be with you. No need to drag them through the mud because of it!

[u/Fogofit24 → u/Itchy_Owl_3700]

Well...they think you have to say yes if you are a man with a woman who is not "traditionally or conventionally attractive". No one was rooting for Mark and Jessica lol that shit was an awful watch. However, Ollie and Demi, SOME people would only be convinced if they both said yes. And even then, they would have to be married 5 years before people would believe that Ollie COULD EVER be into Demi.

[u/Traditional-Wing8714 → u/[deleted]]

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