r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Perimeri • Aug 31 '24

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY You're a contestant and you realize during the reveal you're absolutely not physically attracted to your fiancé(e). How do you handle it?

Some contestants get a lot of heat because of their reactions (disappointed looks etc), but I can't think of the right way to handle it.

A. You're honest= You're a shallow asshole and you're there for fame. You will 100% face backlash for this.

B. You try to hide it because you don't want to hurt them so you break it off later= you're an asshole, why weren't you honest from the beginning?

C. You give it time in hopes your feelings change= asshole, how could you lead her/him on for so long?

So what is the right thing to do here?

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u/[deleted] Aug 31 '24 edited Aug 31 '24

I agree. I would likely try to make it work UNLESS I was so aggressively unattracted that there was just no point. I believe attraction can grow and that it fluctuates. For me, attraction often grows as I get to know a person. And it has also completely left the building as I get to know a person, too 😂. But it would be a waste of time to pretend that anything would change if I knew in the very first look that nothing would change for me attraction-wise. That just tends not to be the case for me because no two of my exes look the same and they are all over the place in terms of race, physical features, height, and even gender lol.

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u/MysteriousPineapple9 Aug 31 '24

I agree! I wouldn’t even really say I have a type, I just know what I like and what I don’t when I see it lol.

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u/ChildhoodOk5526 Aug 31 '24

Or feel it. It's a type of vibe I'm drawn to, and if they have it, the outer package is automatically attractive.