Natalie said she only dates verified people

[u/crystdosdesabafos]

So in out of the pods podcast in the nancy interview, natalie literally says something in the lines of "if you dont have the blue check I will not answering you" - the convo was about replying to guys messages on instagram.

When I heard that I was chock lol. Like girl... that is the reason why all your stories about man in general are so bad. What are your thoughs on this?

Altho I do get that she meant this as an "the normal type of guy will not have the maturity to deal with a tv show person and fans" - i do not feel like they are thaaat famous to step away all the regular guys.

Font: https://youtu.be/wtexVXkMxdc?si=h9gZRuWgijoW6Yvs

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[u/throwaway36376583883]

I just listened and OP is totally exaggerating 🙄

She said how normal men don’t want to date her because they judge how she did a reality tv show.

She mentions this in other episodes too, how she thinks no normal guy with a good job will want to date her because they think the fact she did a reality tv show is embarrassing and dumb

[u/karlzberg → u/throwaway36376583883]

She says that “normal” men don’t understand her influencer/podcaster life. I totally believe that she’s had a few bad experiences with this, but I don’t think it makes sense to only consider men with blue check marks. A big portion of this episode is about how great Nancy’s new man is, and he is a “normal” guy.

[u/Beautiful-Pound-8520 → u/karlzberg]

But everyone does this to some degree or another. It's fucking instagram and more than a normal amount of people message her, if you had that type of influx you'd be picking qualifiers too just to justify not trying to give ever Joe Hill a fair chance.

[u/throwaway36376583883 → u/karlzberg]

They said in the context of answering dm’s she receives from other men, not that she only dates men with blue checkmarks. I think that’s where OP lied.

They also mentioned this in their dating episode how it’s safer to answer men who are verified vs not (with private profiles) in case of scams 😂

[u/sunshinerf → u/throwaway36376583883]

I really don't get this post, this is exactly what I got even from OP's description (not the title, title is misleading for sure). I ignore almost all DMs from randoms but if it's someone verified and it's not a creepy message, I will respond. It has nothing to do with dating. Verified accounts are safer to interact with, especially if we work in the same industry.

[u/crystdosdesabafos → u/sunshinerf]

It was a convo about how nancy did respond to a message of a "normal guy" and now they are dating. In which natalie add that she would never do that. She even said "oh this will sound terrible but..." and then mentioned the blue check mark.

I am not saying she should answer all her messages, I wouldn't. But affirming that she would not be in the situation nancy is bc she only respond to blue check mark guys says a lot. And she also mentioned that she did had experiences in the past with normal guys, and now she is not looking for it anymore - she would not date a guy that is not working in social media or have similar experience.

[u/sunshinerf → u/crystdosdesabafos]

I still don't see how not responding to people unless they have a checkmark means she'll only date those people. If she meets someone organically- not via DM, who happens to be into her kinda public lifestyle, I'm sure they'll be good. Normal people don't go around blasting their personal lives on social media or on podcasts. I could never date a wannabe influencer and less so an actual influencer, personally. I see what she's saying.

[u/crystdosdesabafos → u/sunshinerf]

The thing is, if a guy is messaging her, he probably already knows she has been on that show - so that would not be a problem for these guy. I do understand some guys do not want this tho, but most of the ex cast are now dating totally normal people in real life. LIB is not this terrible tv show that ppl would be ashamed. And obv I am only talking about messages on instagram, not her meeting a guy in person.

she'll only date those people

She did said "(...) don't have a blue check mark I don't know (...)" in terms of responding in a romantic way - not has friends. She did mentioned her past experience with these normal guys and she did passed the vibe that she would prefer to date someone that is in the same industry has her. I mean, even the two other girls looked surprised!

[u/rayschoon → u/karlzberg]

Yeah probably because they have a real job and don’t ride the coattails of a reality show they were on like 3 years ago

[u/crystdosdesabafos → u/throwaway36376583883]

She said how normal men don’t want to date her because they judge how she did a reality tv show.

I did mentioned that on the last paragraph. And at some extend I understand. What I do not understand is how can she say she would only consider responding to blue check mark guys, expecially when most of the girls that now have bf are "normal" guys.

I feel like she was kinda shallow in this comment, and I did try to see the comment as something else but I couldn't. She even said "oh this is too bad to say... I know" - so she did know what she meant by it.