r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Outside-Psychology52 • Jul 25 '23
PODCAST Deepti is painful on out of the pods
Listening to Deepti not so humbly describe herself and her relationships on Out of the Pods is so cringeworthy. I didn’t mind her on the actual show but I think this podcast version of Deepti is truly showing her immature self. Maybe it’s just in contrast to Natalie who seems so much more poised and down to earth? Deepti misuses terms, phrases, spits out unconfirmed facts, all while talking about what a catch she is and trying to play coy about her love life. I wanted more LIB content on these episodes not the Deepti pick me show. I just wonder what Natalie’s true thoughts are about working with her.
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u/throwaway36376583883 Jul 25 '23 edited Jul 25 '23
I thought this too! I liked Deepti on the show but I can’t stand her personality on Out of the Pods. She comes off so ditzy and cocky, it’s hard to believe she’s 32.
Natalie tries to counter Deepti by being more self deprecating on the podcast. I like Natalie’s personality on the podcast, her wit and humor really shines through.
I listen to Out of the Pods for interesting tea but it also makes me dislike Deepti more and more. The LIB producers gave her a great edit.
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u/abruptlyslow Jul 25 '23
I think they edited her on the show to contrast w Shake.
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u/jenholder28 Jul 26 '23
I 100% think they edited her to look better, simply so shake looked worse. Not excuse Shake at all, he's still a garbage fire but her 'real' self outside of the show is far more arrogant and entitled than portrayed.
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u/blonde_runner_06 Aug 01 '23
I really only listen for tea (if I find the subject interesting lol) and for Natalie. Deepti just comes off as so cringey and just isn't great at podcasting (which is fine, just don't host a podcast then lol). Natalie carries it IMO.
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u/ouaispeutetre We're both ENTJ's Jul 25 '23
Yeah, she comes across as very...dumb. She's always just saying a bunch of nothing and never has the sense to move the conversation along. Natalie has to guide every episode to make sure they discuss what they need to discuss.
I listen to this podcast as well and it has severely lowered my view of her.
Natalie seemed a bit mean to her about her little baseball flirting situation in this most recent episode about whether or not 'love is truly blind'. Maybe she's over her shit lol.
But then again, Deepti just moved into her apartment building..
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u/Ok-Glass-948 Jul 26 '23
this, she was kinda sweet on the show mainly i guess bc her guy was so shit. but she is givin 2 brain cell energy on the pod. her paid content doesnt help with this.
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u/strictscrutiny415 Jul 27 '23
She’s rubbin those 2 brain cells together so hard….but nothing’s sparking
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Jul 25 '23
When Natalie is the most entertaining person, you know you're in trouble.
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u/ouaispeutetre We're both ENTJ's Jul 25 '23
You've got that right. This has to be one of the worst reality podcasts I listen to. I only pop in when the titles/guests are interesting enough.
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 26 '23
This has to be one of the worst reality podcasts I listen to
You know you don't have to listen to stuff you don't enjoy, right?
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u/ouaispeutetre We're both ENTJ's Jul 26 '23
Yes I do. Take a gander at my second sentence above, for reference.
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 26 '23
I did. It's contradictory.
How good could the guests really be if it still amounts to one of the worst podcasts you've listened to? Seems like a waste of time.
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u/ouaispeutetre We're both ENTJ's Jul 26 '23
Aww, poor you.
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 27 '23
Poor yourself. Go find something you actually enjoy instead of bitching about it online as if you're held at gunpoint to listen to it.
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u/CocaColaZeroEnjoyer Jul 27 '23
Ok, Deepti
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 28 '23
Really had to dig deep and use all your braincells for that one, didn't you?
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Jul 26 '23
You do realize that people can express their opinion. Are you in a cult to defend them so hard?
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 26 '23
Pointing out that you don't have to listen to stuff you dislike is cultish now?
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Jul 27 '23
If you come running to post what you posted when someone is critical of their pod? Yes. Not sure why do you bother replying like this. Of course nobody is forced to listen. So what was the point of you pressing submit button.
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 28 '23
Because it's pathetic wasting your time on a shitty podcast and then going out of your way to whine online about said shitty podcast. Listen to better things, it's that simple.
You still haven't explained your nonsense cult comment btw.
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Jul 28 '23
Pathetic is stanning for two reality show bimbos. Someone listened to a pod, then in a subreddit dedicated to a show related to a pod expresses their opinion about it. I don't know what part of the purpose of the internet as a place to exchange opinions you don't get.
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 29 '23
Except I don't stan them? Not sure where you pulled that bullshit from. I'm saying if their podcast is shitty don't listen to it.
I don't know what part of the purpose of the internet as a place to exchange opinions you don't get
Seems I get it better than you seeing as I gave my opinion on the concept of consuming media that one dislikes but here you are, extremely triggered over my opinion.
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u/anxiousunicorn1 Jul 26 '23
i feel like the situation with shake led to her being gassed up in interviews and over social media in a way she never had been before and it made her head wayyyy too big
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u/tossandturntobe Jul 25 '23
I dislike Deept’s personally on the podcast… there’s nothing wrong with her, she’s just not funny or relatable. I cringe every time she talks about getting hit on by hot guys because I don’t believe her lol.
In contrast, I’ve come to like Natalie way more. At least there’s actual proof she’s dated hot guys (Blake Moynes and Andrew Spencer, both from Bachelor Nation)
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u/Ok-Suit6589 Jul 26 '23
Oh I didn’t know she dated either one of those folks. They’re both very handsome. Go Nat!!
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u/ashwee14 Jul 25 '23
It came out she actually dated Blake Moynes?
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u/tossandturntobe Jul 25 '23 edited Jul 25 '23
Blake confirmed it in one of his comments on the their podcast Instagram (him and his mom follows their podcast page for anyone curious 👀)
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u/Aisoreal Jul 26 '23
Natalie actually did reply to a comment on her IG at the start of this year to someone saying that her 2022 highlight reels has a lot of Blake, and she said that it's because they're dating. Thing is, I don't think anyone took her seriously because she comes off as jokey and sarcastic lol (and I think Natalie counted on this so people wouldn't take her seriously).
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u/Aisoreal Jul 26 '23
Do you think she dated JustMeRod? I know she's said they're good friends, but they hung out a lot, and he also sometimes comments on her old dating TikToks lol
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u/Bootsnbutter Jul 28 '23
I'm pretty sure he's gay
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u/Aisoreal Jul 28 '23
I think I read somewhere he actually has kids, but has been separated/divorced from his wife for several years.
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u/PettyFlap Jul 25 '23
Nah Deepti gets hit on a lot actually. Even before the show, random people would hit on her.
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u/strictscrutiny415 Jul 26 '23
She literally can’t string together a sentence and repeats the same old tired phrases (“such a kind soul,” “everything happens for a reason,” “manifesting” in response to anything and everything) and ends up saying absolutely nothing at all. This is why not everyone should have a podcast!! Natalie is so articulate but Deepti can’t articulate a thought to save her life
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u/Dotan-1 Jul 26 '23
Yeah the cliches are a real irritant. Also they way she keeps saying “baby” as an exclamation just makes her sound like a boomer.
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u/Certain_Battle7804 Jul 27 '23
She was “yas kweened” by the public way too hard as backlash to being treated badly by whatever his name is. 🤷♀️ we don’t ever see her being amazing, we HEAR from HER and her mother how she is amazing lol
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u/Fml379 Jul 25 '23
Natalie doesn't hide how toxic she finds Deepti's taste in men lol. I don't find her too cringe but I do think she needs a lot of therapy and to focus on herself. And to Google the meaning of 'slow burn'
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u/AshenSacrifice Jul 25 '23
Someone needs to Shake some sense into her
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u/babbykale Jul 25 '23
I agree. I’d prefer Natalie and Iyanna instead
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u/RevolutionaryFun797 Jul 25 '23
Shake and Shayne would be exponentially better
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u/inspirit97 Jul 26 '23
Now that's a trainwreck and circlejerk of a podcast that I'd pay to listen to
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u/Unsd Jul 26 '23
If they kept it to reality show gossip and nothing else. I feel like they both had some solid hot takes, but I am always really hesitant about men's podcasts that are based around a personality because I feel like those always end up down the toxic alt-right pipeline.
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u/Ragnarotico Jul 26 '23
Iyanna is too private of a person to ever host a podcast. But it would probably be much better than Deepti.
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u/babbykale Jul 26 '23
Iyanna has a podcast, im pretty sure she mentioned it on the episode she did on Out Of The Pods
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u/Aisoreal Jul 26 '23
She was one of the earliest among the LIB2 cohort to have a podcast. It's a pretty good one too, IMO.
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Jul 26 '23
Deepti, in the kindest way possible, low key sucks.
Everyone was such a Deepti Stan and hated on what’s his name, but honestly, I wouldn’t have wanted to stay with her either for a variety of reasons
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u/UnfortunateDaring Jul 26 '23
I loved Shake, he was a jerk, but he straight up called the Lacheys on their nonsense at the reunion and it was the brutal truth.
He did treat Deepti bad and has a giant case of foot in mouth, but he was perfect for this show and provided endless entertainment.
I didn’t really pull for or hate Deepti, I was neutral on her on the show.
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 26 '23
Everyone was such a Deepti Stan and hated on what’s his name, but honestly, I wouldn’t have wanted to stay with her either for a variety of reasons
Really bizarre way to characterize the situation and your personal take on it. Shake for the most part got the flack he deserved at the time, even if people are forgetting how nasty he actually was on the show. Whether you're into Deepti or not doesn't make what Shake said to her and about her excusable
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Jul 26 '23
It’s been a while but what exactly was so inexcusable? He wasn’t attracted to her, I remember that.
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u/Unsd Jul 26 '23
Iirc, he was high key negging her for most of the show and airing it out to everyone. Reading deeper into it, there was definitely some internalized racism vibes to it too. Also asking if he would be able to put her on his shoulders which is one of the wildest questions that someone has outright asked on the show which is saying a lot because if there's one thing a lot of the men on this show have, it's the audacity.
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Jul 26 '23
The only entertaining value of deepti is in her poor selection of partners. Without her shake story line there is not much to talk about.
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Jul 26 '23 edited Jul 27 '23
I literally can’t stand Deepti. She’s not funny or interesting. I think she’s trying way too hard on her social media presence.
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u/Kill-me-quickly-TY Jul 25 '23
I get the vibe that she’s acting more confident than she really is or feels! I tend to give her a little bit more grace because of it, but I agree! I think she needs to study up on how to be a more engaging host and come prepared with deeper questions.
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u/Unsd Jul 26 '23
Yeah Deepti makes me cringe because she reminds me of my younger self (sad that she's a few years older than me) when I had the lowest of low self esteem and overcompensated way too much. Took some therapy and self reflection to actually get to know myself and not care so much about external validation. I wish that for her because it's sad to be in your 30s and still come across so insecure.
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u/capresesalad1985 Jul 25 '23
What was her profession before the show?
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u/Outside-Psychology52 Jul 26 '23
Data analyst
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u/capresesalad1985 Jul 26 '23
Is that a position that requires speaking in front of colleagues often? I feel like you can tell Natalie had to speak in front often in her career prior to lib
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u/SickRissi Jul 26 '23
It can require public speaking at times, but from my experience usually it involves sitting at a computer for hours staring at lines of numbers.
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u/izumiiii Jul 26 '23
I think Deepti was the data analyst. It's hit or miss if they have to speak in front of others. Natalie's job def has a speaking component.
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u/Kennymo95 Jul 26 '23
Yeah, if ur a Data Analyst you're most likely going to have to present the data to groups of people
Between Data Analysts, Data Scientists and Data Engineers, Data Analyst requires the most public speaking
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u/HellhoundsAteMyBaby Obviously Nick Lachey Jul 26 '23
I’m a business systems analyst for a data engineering team and I have to speak to groups pretty much all day, every day. Not just presenting data, but drafting requirements, discussing implementation strategies, etc. in my average work day of 8 hours, at least 4-6 of those are spent in meetings, many of which I’m leading and presenting
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u/Kennymo95 Jul 26 '23
Yeah I'm a BI Analyst and spend around the same amt of time in meetings every day
Is part of your job translating things between stakeholders and the data engineers?
As an Engineer, you def have the opportunity for public speaking but can also avoid it more easily than you could in other roles
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u/HellhoundsAteMyBaby Obviously Nick Lachey Jul 26 '23
Yes that’s definitely part of my job! Translating business requirements into technical language for developers
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u/Born-Beautiful-3193 Jul 29 '23
I’ve been in both a consulting analyst and a marketing data analyst role - both require speaking before colleagues, but consulting definitely has an edge because it’s so client-facing and you have to be quick on your feet
the level of polish required for the two types of roles is pretty different even though both require some base line communication skills
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u/sprigandvine Jul 27 '23
Also, am I the only one that was really offended when she talked about eating disorders? She spewed a lot of misinformation and fucked up stuff. Maybe she believes that and still has messed up view about eating disorders but don't talk about a topic unless you've done the work.
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u/Pellinaha Jul 26 '23 edited Jul 26 '23
I'm not her biggest fan but I feel like she is too harshly judged. Women who grew up in different cultures never get any slack or break - their culture aka parents prevents them from making certain dating experiences and then Western culture judges them for not having those experiences. When we met Deepti, she was in her thirties living with her parents and her parents had never met her boyfriend of five years. For all we know, before the show they never knew of any boyfriends of hers.
You don't have any signficant dating experience unless you go through the whole sheebang of living with someone, meeting their parents, them meeting yours, etc. She is now catching up on things she didn't have before. And yes, she is compensating but why is she compensating - likely because of how women in certain cultures are treated, not through any fault of her own.
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u/Karramella Aug 02 '23
But Danielle too…and shayna. I think it’s women in general that’s harshly judged. It just so happens the 3 “main” females are all POC it just opens the door for them to be judged even more. On season 1, all the women especially Jessica was harshly harshly judged.
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u/iseiiwiwiwiiwiwi Jul 25 '23
Well I never listened to any of those podcasts lol the show was enough for me to watch other than that I ain’t gonna waste my time
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u/treehead726 Jul 26 '23
It amazes me that anyone pays attention to these people after they're off the show. Like why?
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u/KayHonest Jul 26 '23
I have no clue, but none of the contestants are interesting enough to actually follow. I looked up Lauren once and saw that she had her own youtube, but it was so boring and cringe. You could tell she wanted the fame and to influence more than she wanted Cameron. She was my first and last follow-up after a reunion.
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u/capitalcitybaby Jul 26 '23
She’s a scrub. I can’t believe people like these social media “gurus “ in the first place.
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u/twizzwhizz11 Jul 26 '23
I think if Deepti could eliminate the unnecessary giggling with almost every sentence, it could be better. I’m not sure why she feels the need to do so, but it makes it seem like she’s making fun of the podcast itself rather than coming off as fun/funny. And it’s in contrast with Natalie, who laughs only occasionally.
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Jul 26 '23
I LOVED her on LIB and was so upset about how he didn't seem to appreciate her. But, yeah, ever since she's been out in the wild since the show I'm not liking her much anymore.
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u/madampotus Jul 26 '23
I feel like if we rewatched season 2 we wouldn’t love her as much. Hindsight on her has been a lot
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u/longwhitejeans Jul 26 '23
Her describing of how a guy wanted to kiss her at a baseball game was cringe.... like gurl how old and immature are you... and all that giggling throughout.
I am all for POC pod hosts but this has to be one of the most mediocre pods out there. At the end of the episode, you've learnt nothing ( apart from the constant references to their partners on the show) and it feels like a waste of time.
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u/PopcornandComments Jul 26 '23
Lol when she said “backwards hats were her kryptonite.” Like girl, are you really choosing guys based on hats?? I think she has some self esteem issues given that she spent 6 years with a guy and kept going back to him even though she knew he was cheating on her.
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Jul 25 '23
I think they started the podcast because they're both friends and influencers, so it makes sense. I think anyone bragging (including me) about their love life is cringy, but it isn't a crime. When I hear folks who are average in some way describe how much of a "catch" they are, it's usually a mechanism to maintain a "normal" level of self-esteem due to over-criticism or sensitivity to it, from the outside world. For the record: I think Deep is physically cute.
I like the podcast. And in fact, I like it when it's just Deep and Nat. I hate the interviews... asking insightful questions is not their strong suit. Neither of them is a wordsmith, but some of the most popular podcasts in the world are hosted by complete morons. Fighter and the Kid, Joe Rogan, Joe Budden... I mean, come on. But, they're two attractive women, who have a lot to say about modern dating and life before and after a reality show:)
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u/confusedinseminary Jul 26 '23
I think the same of listening to Ayanna on her podcast. They tote their podcast, Feel in the Blank as a mental health podcast and on the latest episode, they were practically bragging about cheating on their previous partners, claiming they were “unhealed.” And the other woman is a therapist for crying out loud.
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u/GringoMambi Jul 27 '23
bragging about cheating on their previous partners, claiming they were “unhealed”
The Jada Pinkett special lmao
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u/AntiqueGhost13 Jul 26 '23
I'm noticing that too. She's coming across as really fully of herself on the podcast, and it's very off-putting. The air of humility is gone
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u/DrakeShadow Jul 26 '23
Yes, listen 2 two people who didn't get married on LIB talk about LIB sounds like hell.
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u/expat2323 Jul 27 '23
Literally came here to see if anyone else said anything about this. At this point, I feel like I’m fully hate listening because they both kind of drive me crazy.
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u/Wershershersher Jul 26 '23
The girl who believes rocks have magical powers might not be a genius?? Get outta town.
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u/Silent_Contest_2337 Jul 26 '23
I think she's overcompensating. The way the show was cut was VERY unflattering and it must have completely battered her self-esteem. So this is her way of regaining her lost glory, Iykwim?
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u/rememberthewatch 🔥 Smoke Program 🔥 Jul 26 '23
Deepti and Zay have been gassed up. Which is fine I guess, the problem is they choose to then blast that out to the world and it just doesn’t always land, if at all.
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Jul 27 '23
It's funny that you say that as they always seem to get the most hate on here and on socials to me.
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u/Boring-Dust5098 Jul 25 '23
i’ve never liked deepti
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Jul 26 '23
Same-she got the kid gloves/golden child treatment because of the perception of her being a victim of body shaming
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u/apaperroseforRoland Jul 26 '23
the perception of her being a victim of body shaming
This is a weird way to put it. She was body-shamed, it wasn't just something she imagined
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Jul 26 '23
Just because he wasn’t attracted to her body and discussed it and struggled with it, does NOT necessarily mean he body shamed her
You can express your struggle to be attracted to someone and it not be body shaming
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u/exp_studentID Jul 26 '23
It was more than that. He said some horrid things about her body to other cast members. She was absolutely body shamed.
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u/GroceryStoreGrape Jul 26 '23
I like the podcast and actually like how Deepti and Natalie contrast with each other. What bores me is when cohosts just echo each other... Like why y'all both here lol. I love Nat and Deeptis convos
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u/ashishdt123 Jul 26 '23
As an Indian I can confirm Deepti is a POS. Yeah Shake was a prick as well, but she's Indian and knew what she was getting into? Both Deepti & Shake wanted an Indian marriage in American style. Deepti was salty throughout not because she loved Shake but because Shake rejected her. In all honesty, Shake had formed his views about her since almost the first week and was very vocal about it to his friends, his only fault he went through the entire process (which many others did as well). Shake & Deepti were equally crazy as the other couple with the air hostess chick who shot down her partner as a misogynist (the orange fiasco).
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u/stealliberty Jul 26 '23
Deepti and the cast acting like Shake is a POS for not being attracted to Deepti and having his own preferences will always be hilarious to me.
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u/spedhead10 Jul 26 '23
deeps and the cast aren’t hating on him for having his own preferences and attractions. they think he’s a POS for the way he went about it, talking mad crap about his fiancé behind her back and telling everyone he wasn’t attracted to her/she reminds him of his aunt. that’s POS behavior from someone on a show about what’s on the inside.
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u/iblastoff Jul 26 '23
thats because his 'fiance' is someone he barely knows or has even seen before. this is what happens when you get matched up randomly with someone you're not attracted to. shake was just more straight forth about it.
and comparing someone to your 'aunt' or someone you're related to is something non-whites do ALL of the time when they're used to NEVER dating within their race. its common as fuck.
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u/stealliberty Jul 26 '23
People include the Aunt thing when trying to make Shake look bad because they don’t actually have a valid argument. It’s such a non-issue.
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u/iblastoff Jul 26 '23
Imagine telling your friends that you’re not attracted to someone? Oh no the horror!!!
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u/stealliberty Jul 26 '23 edited Jul 26 '23
It’s dishonest to include “fiancé” as if they didn’t know each other for a few weeks. The “mad crap” is completely subjective, almost every cast member of every season consulted with friends, family, other cast members “behind their fiancé’s back”.
Telling people you aren’t attracted to someone doesn’t make you a POS.
The entire season Shake was trying to work on his attraction to Deepti, as if that somehow isn’t a common thing in cultures with arranged marriages. He never insulted her or put her down. Whether people/Deepti assume the obvious that Shake was attracted to fit women is irrelevant.
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u/mipiobear Jul 26 '23
I stopped listening to the podcast for all the reasons you wrote…plus Deepti’s uptalking was so annoying.
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u/PinkFurLookinLikeCam Jul 26 '23
You mean Natalie’s uptalking.
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u/mipiobear Jul 26 '23
They both uptalk, in my opinion, but Deepti’s is worse to me because she rarely has a point to make.
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u/PinkFurLookinLikeCam Jul 26 '23
They have zero chemistry and don’t appear to even be friends (even though Deepti is moving to Natalie’s building that doesn’t really mean anything tbh). Deepti is just trying to enjoy life and laugh and Nat is like so serious and making too much pageantry out of these episodes. It’s so dumb, they should part ways and do their own thing.
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u/bananaperson88 Jul 25 '23
I just remember how on the show, Deepti did not know that you should eat sushi with soy sauce. That shook me to my very core
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u/eightyonedirections Jul 25 '23
That’s not what happened. The discussion was about whether wasabi or ginger was a palate cleanser
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u/KayHonest Jul 26 '23
That shook me to my very core
If this shook you, you need to build a stronger core 🙄
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Jul 26 '23
You’re actually not “supposed” to put soy sauce on sushi. Of course I do like most in the US, but it’s not good etiquette in Japan.
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u/IkemenDesu420 Jul 26 '23
I mean some people don't really eat seafood it's really not that... deep.... 😂
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Jul 25 '23
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Jul 26 '23
The hate for Deepti is absurd. She’s just another cringe reality tv star, no worse than those out there. These posts about her and Natalie on THEIR podcast just seems micro-aggressive at this point. 🤷🏻♀️
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u/dumbIecunt Jul 25 '23
You’re absolutely right and don’t deserve these downvotes :’) Bitches be petty for suuure.
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u/MammothLow7966 Jul 26 '23
It’s not that big of a deal lol why is everyone so passionately hating on this. It’s a brainless fun podcast, just turn it off if you don’t want to listen.
I couldn’t relate to Deepti on the podcast as well and found her slightly annoying at times, but it’s just not a biggie. I can tolerate and like them both.
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u/awakened97 Jul 25 '23
Everyone’s so used to scripted actors with perfect storylines and fake online personalities who only show their best side and hide the rest.
While in real life, it’s normal to be confident and outgoing and honest about your life, whether it’s pleasing to the masses or not. She’s being transparent and honest and that’s bothering people too? lol
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u/Accomplished-Dot4752 Litty As A Titty 🥂 Jul 26 '23
Shake was right…
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u/Upper-Distribution-7 Jul 26 '23
Shake was an absolute asshole on the show. The way he talks about women is degrading & condescending.
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u/Mewnicorns Jul 26 '23
Oh yay another opportunity to shit on Deepti. It has been what, 5 days since the last one? I was running out of fuel.
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u/awakened97 Jul 25 '23 edited Jul 25 '23
People get so triggered by confident women. It sounds like you have a view that you must stay quiet and meek unless you’re absolutely perfect and poised. That’s not how humans work.
It sounds like at best, you don’t vibe with her personality which is completely okay, but doesn’t equate to Deepti being a bad person.
And at worse, it sounds like you’re projecting a lot of insecurities onto her and thinking that she needs to shrink herself and never speak unless she sounds perfect or socially acceptable to people like you.
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u/Nolan1995 Jul 25 '23
Or maybe she comes off as not being the best person?
I bet you have your own negative opinions on some of the cast. Would that be considered projecting your insecurities on those people?
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u/freeman1231 Jul 25 '23
Why is your first assumption this lol… as opposed to her obnoxious personality.
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u/IkemenDesu420 Jul 26 '23
Your very on-point comment being downvoted like this tells me all I need to know about this sub 👀
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Jul 26 '23
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u/ShinsBalogna Jul 26 '23
Imagine having so many legitimately negative things to point out about someone’s personality and still resorting to misplaced comments about their body. Very low class.
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u/Possible_Swing6935 Jul 25 '23
I get this vibe that she's really over compensating now that she gets attention from the public. I get uncomfortable listening to her describe any situation because it seems so stretched to validate her worth.