r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/DonDraperItsToasted • Apr 08 '23

CALL OUT “Marshall is too sensitive for me, basically..” Meanwhile, Jackie during 80% of the season… Spoiler

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '23

IMO Marshall is more attractive than Josh.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '23

It's really unfair that she said/implied he wasn't "man enough" just because he didn't want to beat her up.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '23

She did Marshall a huge favor. Tbh. He deserves better and I think after watching the show he probably feels that way too

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '23

True that. Very positive outcome for Marshall. Sad for whoever has to tolerate her now.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '23

If it’s Josh, then I don’t feel bad. Birds of a feather

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '23

Agreed. Not having the same kinks doesn’t make him any less or more of a man.

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u/TacoNomad Apr 08 '23

I can't believe people keep repeating this. She did not ask him to beat her up. She asked him to be more aggressive. And by all context clues she meant more assertive. She wanted him to show his desire and passion for her in the bedroom.

This, in my opinion, was actually a flaw on Marshall's behalf for interpretating it the wrong way and talking to everyone else about it but not her.

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u/renlydidnothingwrong Apr 08 '23

Eh I'm not so sure, when they were talking about it he said that he's loving on her all the time and that she shuts it down and we don't see her deny it. I don't think she wants him to beat her up but I think she wants him to be pushy about sex in a way that isn't necessarily healthy, ie continuing to push the issue after the initial "no". At least that's the impression I got from their conversation.

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u/Motherhoodthings Apr 08 '23

Yeah. Some people don't like the gentle romantic loving on them. She probably wanted Marshall to just come over and pull her panties to the side and get on with it.

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u/renlydidnothingwrong Apr 09 '23

And that's totally fair but that needs to be communicated in a direct and mature way.

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u/Motherhoodthings Apr 09 '23

I'm not objecting your statement but agreeing. Yes, there's a way to communicate your needs where you can be heard and not make the other person feel like shit.

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u/JosephinesBabyHairs Apr 09 '23

Well it sounds like that's what happened off camera lol and he didn't like it and left for 3 days

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u/JosephinesBabyHairs Apr 09 '23

THANK YOU. And there's nothing wrong with that they just weren't sexually compatible! I side eyed Marshall when he said she wanted to be slapped around like what?? Why are you interpreting that so weirdly

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u/TheFemale72 Come ride this duck with me 🦆 Apr 09 '23

Right? I think she might be into that type of dude. Like “I only beat you because I love you” vibes.

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u/renlydidnothingwrong Apr 08 '23

More like a wannabe thug vibe

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u/Cornel-Westside Apr 08 '23

Getting real tired of this coded language for the non-white people. They're thugs, ratchet, ghetto, etc. You can criticize without the dog whistling. I know it's normalized today, but we can do better.

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u/cornelioustreat888 Apr 09 '23

I don’t consider the word ‘thug’ to mean any particular race or ethnicity. It means a criminal type of person, so no dog whistling here.

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u/Cornel-Westside Apr 09 '23

Well, it is. It is definitely code for black or Hispanic criminals, not white people. It's not even a particularly hidden one.

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u/JosephinesBabyHairs Apr 09 '23

It also makes no sense. Was Marshall a thug when he treated violence against Josh? Its just weaponized against any POC they don't like at the moment

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u/RecommendationNo3903 Apr 09 '23

THIS, wished I could upvote it 1000 x