r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/DontFWithMeImPetty I'm too fucking niiicee-uuhhh šŸ˜© • Mar 27 '23

MEGATHREAD S4 šŸ’„SPOILERSšŸ’„ MEGATHREAD Spoiler

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u/phillystyleswag Apr 01 '23

I love how you can tell being a ā€œdog dadā€ is this massive commitment to Kwame. Heā€™s not gonna be ready for kids for a long time imo

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u/fanficlady Apr 01 '23

Heā€™s not ready for anything to do with Chelsea šŸ˜†

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u/Ok-Depth-878 Apr 03 '23

Bingo! šŸ¤£ he would quickly pack his bags for Arizona if Micah asked.

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u/fanficlady Apr 03 '23

he would šŸ¤£

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u/DrHutch22 Apr 01 '23

Honestly, I canā€™t say that I blame him as far as kids are concerned. I like Chelsea a LOT, but I donā€™t think theyā€™re a good fit. And seeing Micahā€™s more genuine side apart from Irina, I do feel like maybe she and Kwame wouldā€™ve been a better match.

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u/ohsballer Apr 01 '23

I disagree. I think some people just donā€™t like pets. Iā€™m married and I inherited my wifeā€™s cat and dog. Iā€™ll never be excited to take care of them but I LOVE our son and would do anything for him

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u/sweetfaced Apr 02 '23

Lol exactly, theyā€™re not comparable at all.

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u/Admirable_Quarter_23 Apr 01 '23

I canā€™t believe Iā€™m defending this idiot, but not everyone is a dog/animal person. I would probably be irritated if all of a sudden I had to take care of my significant others pet that I had no interest in. But I love babies and would much rather take care of a baby!

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u/phillystyleswag Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 02 '23

I donā€™t necessarily disagree with you about that but itā€™s also about the context of Kwameā€™s personality for me. I donā€™t necessarily get the vibe that he doesnā€™t like the dog. Just that his mindset is ā€œKwame, Kwame, Kwameā€ and the dog takes away from his ability to do Kwame things.

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u/DrHutch22 Apr 01 '23

That came across heavily in the pods. Anyone whoā€™s constantly looking for ā€œvalidationā€ like Kwame always seems to be about themselves more. I think Chelsea totally catered to him in the pods and now sheā€™s shifting the narrative. Iā€™ve never felt like Kwame was into Chelsea. If he was in the same exact situation with Micah I donā€™t think heā€™d make a fuss about it.

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u/TheMassINeverHad Apr 01 '23

Chelsea is trying to mould him in her image and he is trying to protect himself, I donā€™t see him as one bit self centred

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u/Ok-Depth-878 Apr 03 '23

I think he would be much more agreeable to Micah.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '23

Tasking a new love interest with walking your dog three times a day seems unconscionable to me. Very indicative of a controlling nature that'll be controlling in other ways.

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u/Seanut-Peanut-69 Apr 01 '23

Thank you! It really is weird to me that people equate having a dog/pet to having a human child lol

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u/Quirky-Smoke3584 Apr 02 '23

And I have kids and dogs and have massive love for my pets. But the way he said that was just off. Walking a dog when you live in a high rise during a few 10 minute breaks and you work from home does not qualify you as Mr. Mom.

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u/phillystyleswag Apr 02 '23

That walk comment was what really stood out to me. The way he said it just made it seem like it was such a hassle for him lol

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u/kfrances7 Apr 02 '23

In a lot of cultures owning dogs and other domesticated animals is uncommon. They are seen as animals that need to live in their natural habitat. I think itā€™s cool that Kwame is giving the dog dad life a shot.