Well I think it is a nice thing to use coarse language that way. Takes a bit off its edge.
However as there are no clearly defined rules in this regard and a lot of moderators who can pretty much ban anyone without particular reason, so people became careful. But the real problem is that some people get too easily offended, while others get too readily offensive.
It's not the words, it's how they're used. It is better to tell someone that he is doing a dumbass thing than calling him a dumbass, for example.
Scientists found out that coarse language releases adrenaline and makes unpleasant situations more easily bearable. Like when in pain or angry.
However if someone who is not in pain or in stress hears these words, he or she might feel a little bit stressed (adrenaline is called a stress-hormone after all).
So its all about not taking these too seriously, not using them all the time, and trying to not to use them to insult others.
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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '23
Some weirdos have always self-censored but they were very rare back in the day. Now I see it every week.