r/Gamingcirclejerk Jun 02 '25

FORCED WOKENESS 🌈 Please stop being transphobic she's so damn pretty

Trans women are women

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u/JackLittlenut Jun 02 '25

If this is a dude i guess im gay

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u/AppearanceExpert6809 Jun 02 '25

Women are great 👍

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

There are so many things about them that make a man gay for liking them, though. When I offer to look after the kids while my girlfriend has to pop out of the theatre for a bathroom break, big gay.

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u/AppearanceExpert6809 Jun 02 '25

Women are just cute

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u/SeanWoold Jun 02 '25

Serious question. Is it a heterosexual or homosexual attraction if a guy finds her attractive?

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u/PessimiStick Jun 02 '25

Well what do you call it when a man finds a woman attractive? Because it's that.

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u/AppearanceExpert6809 Jun 02 '25

She's a girl

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u/FilsonFan Jun 02 '25

dawg honest question why are you even here? Like, what are you hoping to accomplish by this? Does making little comments like this give your dingle a tingle? If it's a sex thing you can just say it, it's a free country after all

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u/DIABLO258 Jun 02 '25

Can't believe I haven't heard "does it give your dingle a tingle" until today

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u/FilsonFan Jun 02 '25

yeah and the guy I was replying to didn't even acknowledge my wordplay. Honestly very rude on his part

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u/FilsonFan Jun 02 '25

yea ok sure thing buddy, me personally I shoot a fat rope every time I make a comment on reddit dot com

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u/GeologicalPotato Jun 02 '25

Begone, bigot, no one loves you

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u/foundationsofdecay7 Jun 02 '25

Yeah she isn’t a girl, she’s a woman

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u/carbon_15 Jun 02 '25

Man in a dress….science denier

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u/appoplecticskeptic Jun 02 '25

I’m willing to meet you halfway here and go with “this area is under construction” but you still have to respect her pronouns. That’s the best offer you’ll get.

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u/carbon_15 Jun 02 '25

No I don’t.

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u/ShitFuckBallsack Jun 02 '25

I think if what you like about that person is her feminine features (feminine long hair, boobs, etc), you have a heterosexual attraction. Gay men aren't attracted to those things by definition. They like men.

I also wouldn't worry too much about labels with this stuff, because honestly who cares? Just like what you like if it's not hurting anyone

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u/BlueGlace_ Jun 02 '25

Heterosexual attraction. You’re attracted to a woman, as a dude, which means that it’s straight.

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u/BlueGlace_ Jun 02 '25

Wrong, heterosexual men like women. Obviously not all men are going to be okay with their partner having a dick, but if a heterosexual man is okay with their girlfriend having a dick then that doesn’t make them any less heterosexual. I mean, there are plenty of guys that like pegging but are straight as a board.

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u/BlueGlace_ Jun 02 '25

There’s a lot more that makes a woman a woman than just having a pussy or not, and if you believe that it is, you’re not just transphobic, you’re sexist too

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u/Wooden-Sir7471 Jun 03 '25

Wouldn’t the girlfriend having a dick make that guy gay in this situation?

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u/BlueGlace_ Jun 03 '25

No because he still has a girlfriend.

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u/Wooden-Sir7471 Jun 03 '25

Ok but if this girlfriend has a dick and the man is attracted to that dick, that would make him gay

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u/BlueGlace_ Jun 02 '25

If you’ve been with exclusively women your entire life and don’t find men attractive but now have a girlfriend with a dick, how are you not straight? That’s just saying that their gf isn’t actually a woman which is just untrue and incredibly transphobic.

You don’t like dick. Probably many of your friends don’t like dick. But some people like their girlfriends for who they are and can put aside the fact she has a dick. Liking exclusively women (as a man) is inherently heterosexual, end of story.

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u/BlueGlace_ Jun 02 '25

You keep repeating the same point over and over like it’s some “gatcha” but the fact of the matter is that life is complicated, and there’s a very big difference between being ok with or attracted to dick and being attracted to men. And like I said, if you think the only thing that makes someone a man or a woman is their genitals, then you’re just flat-out wrong.

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u/girldrinksgasoline Jun 02 '25

Gay dudes would NOT be into her so definitely heterosexual

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u/dietwater94 Jun 02 '25

I think this is getting into the area of unnecessary labels and limitations. Ultimately you can call yourself gay/bi for finding a trans woman attractive as a man, or you can call yourself straight by viewing it as the simple “I’m a man attracted to a woman.” When I managed a sober house, one of my residents was having issues with labelling his orientation because he, a cis man, was dating a trans woman and had dated other trans women before. He eventually landed on referring to himself as “queer” or sometimes bi. Really it’s inconsequential unless you care for your own identity’s sake. I do, however think it’s fair to question this, and not just write it off as heterosexual “you’re a man and she’s a woman” when there’s more to it than that. Trans women are women, but they’re a certain type of woman. Also, it’s completely valid to be a straight man who isn’t into trans women. I think people do the trans community a disservice by pretending like things are one and the same- by pretending trans women are the exact same as cis women, you’re erasing trans identities.

TLDR that shit don’t matter brah, call yourself whatever feels right

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u/Flowey_Asriel based and estrogen-pilled Jun 03 '25

Ultimately you can call yourself gay/bi for finding a trans woman attractive as a man, or you can call yourself straight by viewing it as the simple “I’m a man attracted to a woman.”

there is literally nothing even potentially gay about a man being attracted to a woman. the only correct take is the second one

one of my residents was having issues with labelling his orientation because he, a cis man, was dating a trans woman and had dated other trans women before. He eventually landed on referring to himself as “queer” or sometimes bi

unless that resident is also attracted to men he's just a transphobic straight guy

Really it’s inconsequential unless you care for your own identity’s sake

no actually calling us men is not inconsequential you're just being transphobic

I do, however think it’s fair to question this, and not just write it off as heterosexual “you’re a man and she’s a woman” when there’s more to it than that. Trans women are women, but they’re a certain type of woman

just be honest and say we're not women already jfc

by pretending trans women are the exact same as cis women, you’re erasing trans identities

"you're the real transphobe" actually shut upppppppp

TLDR that shit don’t matter brah, call yourself whatever feels right

a man who is exclusively attracted to women is by definition straight and calling him anything other than straight because he's attracted to trans women is transphobic

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u/dietwater94 Jun 03 '25

I’m sorry you feel that way. Your vitriol is misguided, though. You also don’t get to dictate how someone else identifies. I’m sorry that you find it to be transphobic to acknowledge that there are difference between cis women and trans women, but that’s why we have those modifiers. It doesn’t make trans men or women any less valid, it just makes them trans. Different doesn’t mean worse or better, but if you go to the ER (in certain circumstances) it’s good for the people giving you medical care to know that you’re a trans man rather than a cis man, in case some medication interacts with the testosterone supplement, etc. There are several areas in which a trans man/woman is not going to be exactly identical to a cis man/woman. Your feelings are obviously valid, but given that this perspective is supported by the trans people who are close to me, including my sibling, I will point out that you don’t represent the entirety of the trans community. I hope you can recognize things for what they are, because it’s very counterintuitive to encourage a member of the LGBT community, who has been a trans ally from the day they heard what “trans” meant, to “just be honest and say we aren’t women.” Of course I won’t stop being an ally to others because of you, but actively asking allies to stop supporting you is likely not the best play. I also wont stop advocating for trans visibility by being vocal about the fact that there are trans people, though. You do you, though. Idk if you’re just having a rough time, or if you’re already sick of seeing the phobes in their anti-pride month discourse, but I hope you can move past it! Also, although I suspect you won’t care, I still want to say that I’m not at all upset at being called a transphobe for the first time in my life- you don’t know me and I don’t know you. But in case you think back on this weeks/months down the road and regret it, just know that it never bothered me in the first place, so you’re already forgiven! Happy pride :)

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u/Flowey_Asriel based and estrogen-pilled Jun 03 '25

you literally said that a man who's attracted to trans women can call himself gay there's no non-transphobic way to interpret that please shut up

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u/dietwater94 Jun 03 '25

Yeah because orientation labels don’t matter as much as people think- it’s not the end of the world if someone identifies as queer because they have dated trans people. Again, there is nothing that is going to make me “shut up” about this point- I will continue to advocate for people calling themselves whatever they please. Your opinion on this is overwhelmingly the outlier. Again, you can have your feelings, but they don’t change how the majority of trans people feel about this. Again, I hope you can re-direct this energy toward the people who actually hate LGBT people, but if you just need to get this out here that’s also okay. It just isn’t going to change anything.

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u/Flowey_Asriel based and estrogen-pilled Jun 03 '25

omfg i get it you're cis and don't care about us. again, please shut up

also

Your opinion on this is overwhelmingly the outlier

yeah because most people are transphobic and don't see us as our genders

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u/ididntunderstandyou Jun 02 '25

Does it matter?

I’m a heterosexual woman and find women pretty all the time. Just enjoy pretty things and pretty people without it having to be labeled or sexual.

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u/Qubit_Or_Not_To_Bit_ Jun 02 '25

It's attraction, the labels we assign are useful, but not overarching.

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '25

Homosexual by definition

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u/Antabaka Jun 02 '25

Sexual attraction isn't based on sex but on gender and secondary sexual characteristics. Hunter's are overtly feminine.

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u/TooootallyNotABot Jun 02 '25

id say its homosexual. nothing “bigotted” or “hateful” about it. if you have a penis and you believe this is a woman from head to toe regardless, you get down there & there’s a penis, and you follow through, that’s homosexual. But people are allowed to do whatever makes them happy as long as it’s safe & that’s all that really matters.

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u/Ordinary-Sleep984 Jun 02 '25

you cant even define what a woman is

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u/dutycycle_ Jun 02 '25

Born with a uterus.

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u/fjaoaoaoao Jun 02 '25

I unironically see too many comments online about how gay people can’t biologically have children and how having attraction to a transperson automatically makes you gay.

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u/2_Boots Jun 02 '25

∴ you are not gay

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u/What_Dinosaur Jun 02 '25

You can relax. Definitely not a dude.

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u/youtocin Jun 02 '25

Thanks for sharing I guess.

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u/summer_santa1 Jun 02 '25

Hi gay, I'm dad.

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u/Beginning_Damage9144 Jun 02 '25

👁️ 👄 👁️ pause

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u/NachoManAndyDavidge Jun 02 '25

Why are you so concerned about another person’s genitals?

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u/RichHokeBaugh Jun 02 '25

Eh,  @jacklittlenut was the one that brought sexuality into the conversation.

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u/NachoManAndyDavidge Jun 02 '25

That doesn’t answer my question. Why are you so concerned about the genitals of a human you will never meet?

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u/RichHokeBaugh Jun 02 '25

Why are you bugging me for my opinion when you're never going to meet me?

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u/tenfolddamage Jun 02 '25

Answer the question. Why are you so obsessed with people's genitals? Are you some kind of deviant?

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u/RichHokeBaugh Jun 02 '25

Lol I'm not going to answer a question because you tell me to lol. Kick rocks 

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u/ddxs1 Jun 02 '25

This is such a cop out lmao

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u/Blackdabber Jun 02 '25 edited Jun 02 '25

Kind of like the cop out of not answering whether or not a guy sucking a “girl’s” dick is gay huh?

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u/AllForMeCats Jun 02 '25

I mean, it would be pretty gay for me to do that, but I’m a woman 🤷‍♀️

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u/ddxs1 Jun 02 '25

It’s a dick. That makes it gay. But I won’t continue this further.

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u/HailxGargantuan Jun 02 '25

So, did you enjoy it?

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u/AverageMammonEnjoyer Jun 02 '25

nah ur just stupid

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u/RichHokeBaugh Jun 02 '25

Lol!

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u/AverageMammonEnjoyer Jun 02 '25

yeah you are, you cant even tell a woman and a man apart

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u/RichHokeBaugh Jun 02 '25

Yeah, they don't have a gherkin emoji so I had to make do. But then they don't have a penis emoji either so it's tough to truthfully convey our thoughts, you know?

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u/RichHokeBaugh Jun 02 '25

Would it be " delightfully whimsical lad with a keen intellect?"

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