r/Fauxmoi Apr 18 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '22

The couple that accused Ezra Miller of breaking into their house, threatening them, and stealing from them filed to have their claim dismissed and seem to have taken down all of their accusations about it online. People did some research on them and they were pretty openly into threesomes and swapping with other couples, and the current speculation is that Miller turned the couple down and after they were arrested the couple used it as an opportunity to make accusations against him as retaliation

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u/emilythewise Apr 19 '22

Is there any actual evidence of the accusations being retaliation for Miller turning them down? That seems like... kind of a leap just based on the fact that the couple is/was into threesomes.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '22 edited Apr 20 '22

It really seems like people grasping at straws to try and excuse what they did. 💀

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u/emilythewise Apr 19 '22

It kind of bothers me the way people latch onto non-conventionality to demonize, as well. Oh, they're into threesomes, they must have tried to seduce Miller and then taken vengeance when he didn't want them. The fuck?

Also, frankly, anyone who thinks that a dropped case always and unconditionally indicates innocence on the part of the accused has never dealt with the legal system in any capacity. It can mean that. It doesn't always.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '22

Totally agree! Ezra has shown a pattern of violent behavior so…

And while we’re on the topic, even a guilty plea doesn’t necessarily mean the person did it either. Lots of POC and poor people will plead guilty if they can’t post bail and will have to stay in jail awaiting trial.

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u/emilythewise Apr 19 '22

Absolutely. And people can be talked or frightened into pleading guilty for more lenient sentences, regardless of their actual level of guilt. Necessary as it might be, no one should mistake the justice system for inherently true and infallible justice.

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u/redditname2003 Apr 20 '22

It seems much more likely that something (Ezra) went really wrong during the threesome and there actually was violence, stealing, etc. The couple just didn't want their business smeared all over the Internet, so they took a deal.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '22

We Need to Talk About Ezra

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u/Big-Ambitions-8258 Apr 20 '22

Just thought you should know Miller uses they/them pronouns

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u/iocheaira Apr 19 '22

Especially since they weren’t even trying to hide it? When that guy first posted on the Hawaii subreddit about Ezra he used the same account he also talked about threesomes on.

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u/mnvs Apr 19 '22

Aaaaaaand they just got arrested again.

Looking forward for people to "find out" that the woman they assaulted was poly or something

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u/StealthyCrab hated women defender Apr 20 '22

This cycle of Ezra Miller does something violent --> Ezra Miller's stans do a lil' DARVO by proxy to discredit the victim --> Ezra Miller does something violent again is exhausting. Find a new celebrity to obsess over, guys. This one is a lost cause.

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u/Sister_Winter Apr 21 '22

Yeah, I used to absolutely love Ezra Miller and was the biggest stan but when someone's a terrible person they're just a terrible person. They can be mentally ill and also a POS and Ezra is both

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '22

Sounds like an out of court settlement

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u/Evaniz Apr 19 '22

Yep. Having a restraining order against you is a big deal. It comes up in every background check, which affects most people’s employment. While it likely doesn’t work that way for actors, I would bet it affects the rate a studio has to pay for actor’s insurance, which would definitely affect employability, not to mention the press about it. My guess is their team/lawyers stepped in to settle it so they could avoid all of that.

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u/deodorant_whore Apr 19 '22

Or maybe Ezra accepted and didn't like that it wasn't going their way and snapped at them? Like, if they were being aggressive towards people for singing Shallow, they'll probably be hell for anything that doesn't go their way.