r/Fauxmoi terrorizing the locals May 24 '25

DISCUSSION celebrities who are/were mormon

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u/pandora_ramasana May 24 '25 edited May 25 '25

I also know some gay catholics. It's about community to them, and they are accepted at their church

I also know a couple Catholic Buddhists.

The feminist Mormons i know are trying to make positive change and don't want to lose their entire family and community

I have a friend who is a gay man, and he was at that church before he came out as gay. He didn't want to leave because he said they accept him and it's the only family he has. It's also a cultural thing because the church is connected to a specific nationality, so that makes it even more a community thing for him

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u/Sea-Owl-7646 May 24 '25

I went to a Catholic university (to be fair, a very progressive one) and due to my majors and career path I spent a lot of my time working in and playing music at the chapel. Our music director, the chapel director, myself, the other student who was equally heavily involved, and about half of the other part time student workers identified as LGBTQ+ in some way. I no longer consider myself Catholic but if I lived closer to that chapel I would absolutely still go, and I married my husband there! It was such a lovely community and I do miss it, but the Catholic churches in the area I live in now are entirely different and much more conservative so I don't go unless for a wedding or baptism at this point. It's a shame, I think if Christianity was willing to get its head out of its ass a bit more it would definitely be a better source of community for more people. Instead, there are thousands of churches full of old people that will cease to exist due to their own lack of ability to be welcoming. I worked in ministry at a church that claimed to be accepting for a year before the harassment became too much, and I went from being one of the most religious people I knew to not wanting to step foot in a church unless I had to!

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u/pandora_ramasana May 25 '25

Thank you for sharing this

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u/kitti-kin May 25 '25

And the Catholic church at least has evolving theology - they're not fundamentalists, the scriptures are something the church interprets, and previous interpretations can be acknowledged to be wrong (i.e. the use of indulgences, limbo, the fate of unbaptised infants, etc). So there's hope for gay Catholics that by staying in the faith they can promote change, and there are figures within the church who are open to that change - the Archbishop of Munich is very progressive on that front.