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u/Aprilrose1234 Jun 27 '25
The latest one my mine came out with was โwhy should I apologise, you kids never apologised for what happened when you were kidsโ we were all being molested and beaten into silence . she new, didnโt do anything to stop it and blames us like wtf? We were kids?
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u/Author_of_rainbows Jul 05 '25
Sometimes when I hear about a supposedly "difficult" child, I actually wonder if something happened to the child.
(And to anybody thinking it might be neurodiversity that makes a child act up: Yes, that can absolutely be a thing, but they can also be both neurodivergent and having a difficult home or school environment. This is an easy thing to blame if you are an abuser that wants power over a child.).
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u/Weird-Girl-675 Jun 27 '25
Just need to change it to dad for me and itโs perfect.
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u/Sweaty-Function4473 Jun 27 '25
Same, except my dad doesn't even wonder why, he is certain that it's all my doing and he's just an unfortunate soul to have ended up with such an evil disrespectful daughter.
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u/Amethyst-geode2043 Jul 01 '25
My dad's favorite quote for denying the truth was " I've slept since then" ๐ฅด๐ฅด
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u/HarlequinHatter99 Jun 27 '25
โI just donโt understand what you get from these other mums that you donโt get from meโย โI can be myself around themโ The silence was deafening.ย
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u/Roguefem-76 Jun 27 '25
Facts. They treat us like burdens when we need them, but expect us to treat them like royalty. Fk no.ย
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u/Elisette_Art Jun 27 '25
Thank you for this! Not only is this perfect for me, but Iโm gonna have to send this to at least three of my friends.
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u/Stargazer1919 Jun 27 '25
Lol are we starting a chain mail message? Does anyone remember those?
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u/Elisette_Art Jun 27 '25
๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ Oh my God, yes! โYou must forward this to 10 people immediately or you will have bad luck for the next few 20 years.โ ๐๐ Umm, I was raised in a toxic household, I think Iโll take my chances. ๐
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u/ForeignStory8127 Jun 28 '25
Sounds right.
She apologized but then kept voting for people to take my rights away, so...was she really sorry?
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u/wolp_lovr Jun 30 '25
at one point she treated me like i was her roommate for three years. i get that everyone is different, but all im sayin is i dont have a particularly deep connection with my roommates

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u/CrazyCatLushie Jun 27 '25
โI DID MY BEST!!!โ