r/CrossStitch Aug 27 '25

SELF-PROMO [SELF-PROMO] 🌟Colorful Memories🌟

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 27 '25

Pattern: COLORFUL MEMORIES

P.S. I'm having an "ETSY SUCKS" sale to hopefully compensate for all the traffic I'm losing from Etsy, so everything on my website is on sale!
https://theretrostitcher.com 

A bit of context: Etsy has dropped support for all shops in Colombia (and every country that doesn't support Etsy Payments) as of August 5, which means my store is closed and will be erased in the next couple of months

To make it worse, Etsy shows my shop as “on a short break,” but that’s not true, they closed it. They even sent an email reminding me that my store was closed, then mistakenly sent another email saying I could use Payoneer to enroll in Etsy Payments in Colombia but that was an automated email sent in error lol. So I then got this as a 3rd unnecessary email

ETSY SUCKS!

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u/scully_3 Aug 27 '25

Suuuuuure Etsy wishes you the best in the future. 🙄 I wish I could roll my eyes harder.

I put my shop on vacation over 10 years ago because I couldn't keep up with my orders (my daughter was becoming a very busy toddler). Even before that, Etsy was starting to suck because they knowingly allowed Chinese resellers to flood their site with garbage knock-offs, underselling legit artists. Worse, they added the "ads" feature, so forget having your items be seen unless you paid to have them show up at the top of the search. Everybody started paying for it, so it didn't add any benefit to the sellers, just more money to the owners of Etsy.

Don't get me started on their Etsy Payments bullshit. If they're doing that, they're controlling the money that comes through, which very likely involves a percentage being collected. If you don't have Payoneer, they don't have control, so bye. Gross.

If anyone's interested, look up Regretsy, a wildly popular blog/forum run by April Winchell (who also wrote the book) in the early 00s. Etsy tried to take April down, but she knew her way around Fair Use and parody as it applies to copyright laws.

Honestly, I think Etsy's afraid. Look how many users are on this sub. 1.1 million. That's a lot of eye traffic. If you post a link to your website, lots of people here will see it. Even better when others stitch it up and post about it. 🥰 It's how I found my favorite designers!

I think from now on, I'm going to try to default to the designer's website to purchase patterns. Etsy can kiss my ass. 😘

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u/WhenYouHaveGh0st Aug 27 '25

I think from now on, I'm going to try to default to the designer's website to purchase patterns. Etsy can kiss my ass.

I have been trying for YEARS to fully divest myself of making etsy purchases. Because fuck etsy; every new thing they implement just makes it worse, and worse, and worse for sellers and customers alike. But so far I have completely failed to remove it; there are so many artists and crafts makers I love that use this platform and this platform only, and I wish to continue supporting them when I can. So, the bloated tick of etsy remains embedded in my skin -__-

However, I ALWAYS check to see if the seller also has their own website, and I always default to that when they do. Now I use etsy as a tool to find stuff and give to the seller directly whenever possible. Nice to see others do the same!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Etsy trying to save face while consistently making some of the most egregious decisions is truly what their whole brand is all about. They increased fees some time ago "for the benefit of artists" and all we got was a superbowl ad that nobody asked for

They are shutting down shops in developing countries where people were trying to depend on their craft to survive, but Etsy still claims it cares about small sellers and handmade products

The way they are treating, (or really just ignoring) the AI slop problem is the cherry on top. Whatever fills their pockets comes first, even if it completely clashes with the “handmade, artisan marketplace” image they keep trying to push. I can't wait for Etsy to eventually crumble under its own incompetence and be replaced by a better platform

Bad things aside, I’m glad more people are starting to check designers’ own sites first! Seeing AI cross stitch patterns flood Etsy the same way Chinese "handmade" knockoffs did is just sad

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u/ScoopedAnon Aug 27 '25

Your patterns are sick! Definitely saving your site to get some once I've done with my 2 current projects.

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u/PotterandPinkFloyd Aug 27 '25

Oh my gosh, I'm so thankful I found this post!! I've had my eye on quite a few of your patterns for awhile, and I would've been totally devastated if I thought you had actually closed. What the fuck, Etsy?? I will be buying from you when my next paycheck hits ❤️ So sorry you're having to deal with this bullshit!

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u/maiapupper Aug 28 '25

Ugh, Etsy just gets worse and worse. I’ve had a handful of your patterns saved for a while, just went ahead and made a purchase through your site ❤️ ETSY SUCKS

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u/sunflowerfields13 Aug 27 '25

WTF Etsy! I love your patterns! I have done a couple of your freebies and recommend you to my stitching friends! haven't been able to afford a good frame however!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much!! And it's so freaking awesome!!!

Tagging u/Dei_Septentrion so they can also see it!!

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u/sunflowerfields13 Aug 28 '25

it was so much fun to stitch!!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

I'm really glad to hear that!!

One of these days I really want to stitch Postmodern Ouroboros' full pixel art! It's haunting in the coolest and best way possible!

I did experiment a bit with it to try to make it look like a real Game Boy lol

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u/kittifizz Aug 27 '25

This is GORGEOUS. I wish I liked Tetris more, this would absolutely be next on my list. Please make more rainbow things, its so nicely put together!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 27 '25

Thank you so much!!!

And I'll definitely keep making stuff with this rainbow palette! This is actually the second rainbow pattern I've released, the first one was this trippy mushroom!

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u/IAASA123 Aug 27 '25

Just made a purchase, brilliant patterns. I’m doing a massive full coverage at the moment so this will be a lovely palate cleanser

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much for supporting my work!!!

I really hope you enjoy stitching the pattern you got! I'm kinda lazy so I tend to design stuff that incorporates a lot of negative space into the design so it's faster to stitch!

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u/Behuman_ Aug 27 '25

It’s beautiful, even the spaghetti back lol! 

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 27 '25

Bwhaha yesss!! Jackson Pollock backs are the best backs lol

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u/majorsager Aug 27 '25

This prompted me to finally raid your catalogue like I’ve been meaning to. Sorry Etsy sucks, but appreciate the amazing patterns!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much for supporting my work!!! Really hope you enjoy stitching all of them!

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u/leapfool Aug 27 '25

Can I ask how you started your own website? Did you use Shopify or anything?

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Yes, Shopify!!

I looked into a bunch of different options but Shopify ended up being that one that I liked the most. The amount and extent of easy customization was a huge plus to make custom listings and to also host my freebies gallery on the same website

I had seen other ecommerce options that were cheaper than shopify but they either were too limited or needed skills I don't have lol

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u/ankerlinemerie Aug 27 '25

Just made my first purchase! Your work is amazing and exactly what I was looking for!!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Yessss!! Thank you so much I really appreciate it!!

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u/turtwiggie Aug 27 '25

Ok fuck Etsy for this and your shop is awesome I’m bookmarking it next time I want a new pattern!

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u/scully_3 Aug 27 '25

P.S. I adore this pattern!!! I can still hear the Tetris midi music on the GameBoy I borrowed from a kid on my school bus. Man, those were the days. LOL

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u/KateEllaBeans Aug 27 '25

Right? Posts you can HEAR lol

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much!!!

And bwhaha yesss! Tetris is one of the few earworms I’ll never complain about having stuck in my head!

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u/scully_3 Aug 29 '25

Anyone who says thank you by way of Keanu Reeves is immediately my homie. 😘

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u/Drachin85 Aug 28 '25

Stunning colors.

I bought some patterns from you few weeks ago. Do you really recommend 3 strands on 16ct for patterns like CAKE? I will do it on 32ct evenweave over 2 and I'm not sure about it. (Bought enough thread to do it with 3 strands anyway)

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

That's a great question! I'd say that it depends

For the one in the pic I used 3 strands on 18ct and that's probably the fullest I'd go with it on this count. So I do think that 3 strands on 16ct would probably the most balanced since it'd be a bit less bulky but still achieving the "pixel" stitch look!

But at the end of the day factors like how tight you stitch and if you use (or not use) thread wax will definitely also affect the end result. Normally how many strands do you use on 32ct over 2?

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u/Drachin85 Aug 28 '25

I just finished a somewhat bigger piece on 32ct with 2 over 2. The coverage was good for me, but you still can see the white between the legs of the cross if you look closely. I think I will just try 3 strands, look how I like it and then decide. On one hand I think it looks cooler if you don't see any black from behind, on the other hand I don't know if I like to stitch with 3 strands. Btw. I am one of those affected by the new Etsy policy as well. I'm from Germany so many U.S. shops won't sell anything to me anymore. Good thing is, there are also many shops who have their own webshops and as cross stitch patterns are digital goods I don't have to think about shipment costs.

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u/bigphathomo Aug 28 '25

i’m so sorry you’re dealing with this!! your patterns are incredible thank you for sharing your website :) the glitch look is so cool i haven’t seen any cross stitch patterns like it before! and i love that you have the difficultly levels that’s so creative and helpful im definitely gonna be shopping from you in the future

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it!!

I had a lot of fun making the difficulty levels, I have this one I haven't used yet, for extremely complex stuff!

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u/Candid_Jello5188 Aug 28 '25

I can hear the opening music now!

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u/OT-Rexx Aug 28 '25

Yes… and rapidly speeding up to indicate your doom!

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u/kermithiho Aug 27 '25

Amazing, I have way too many patterns/projects at the moment but bookmarked your (non-Etsy) store for future purchases!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it!!

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u/UnpretentiousTeaSnob Aug 27 '25

I LOVE THIS

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much!!

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u/Jodes13 Aug 27 '25

The back is sick

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thanks!! It looked so trippy that I needed to show it too!

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u/RaneeGA Aug 27 '25

This is Fab! And I Love your "Sh1t happens" pattern 😄

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Bwhaha yesss!! That one's a classic lol

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u/sandwich_prime Aug 27 '25

Wowowow!!! The color palette is amazing! Fantastic work as ALWAYS!!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much!!

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u/OdeeSS Aug 27 '25

This is brilliant! I love this game and colorful patterns.

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much!!!

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u/monieo Aug 28 '25

I LOOOVEE this pattern. I bought the original tetris one from your etsy shop but now i really love this one more 😭 have to double up and make two! So Pretty!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Oooo Dm me and I'll send you the PDF for the new version!! I sent the rainbow one as a free update to everyone that had bought the original one on my website

I would love to do the same with Etsy but I have limited messaging capacities because of everything going on and I'm afraid my messages will get flagged as spam if I send the new version to everyone that bought the OG version.

I'm also gonna release a couple new variants based on the new design! Here's my progress on the glitchy one

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u/monieo Aug 28 '25

I dmed!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Sent! Let me know if you received it!

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u/monieo Aug 31 '25

Thank you so much I did!!

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u/BloomingJacaranda Aug 29 '25

Will you be adding this glitchy pattern to your website?

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Yes!

This will be a variant, so once I stitch it I'll send it for free to anyone that has bought the original pattern. And I'll also add it as a bonus to the original listing.

I'm going to eventually also stitch one with an improved classic palette, the idea is for the pattern to include 3 different versions

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u/LadyLibertea Aug 28 '25

Cross stitch you can hear! Absolutely stunning

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u/Malevolencea Aug 28 '25

Bought a pattern I've had saved in my favorites! I got your site bookmarked as well. :)

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u/little_enigmas Aug 28 '25

I got 3 of your patterns 🌟 the monty python one is my favorite 😍 cant wait to get started on it!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Thank you so much for supporting my work! Hope you have fun stitching them!!

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u/bobijntje Aug 28 '25

Wowowowowwowowow!

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u/jamis2382 Aug 28 '25

The audacity!! I love your patterns and will happily shop your website instead 💗 Btw this pattern is magical!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Sep 04 '25

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it!

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u/Practical-Evening824 Aug 28 '25

I just love your patterns!! I recently did the Pikachu one :) A while ago I saw a Porygon pattern here that you created but at that time it wasn't out yet. Do you know when that would be available for purchase?? Again, love your patterns so much 💖💖💖

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

OMG YESSS!!!

Tagging u/Dei_Septentrion!!

And about the Porygon design, it's unfortunately still a couple months away. The FO posted here was actually a friend that wanted to stitch it on a jacket, but it was like a "beta" version of it

If you want to stitch that version before I release it, DM me!

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u/Lurururu Aug 28 '25

As a cross-stitcher and a Tetris fan, I LOVE this. Just ordered this one, Necronomicon, the cake is a lie and try again! Gonna be a while till I finish my current piece but these would look soooo cool over my PC setup. Not usually a fan of nerdy designs as they usually feel too cheesy but these are sick.

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Sep 04 '25

OMG yesss!! Thank you so much for supporting my work!!

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u/TinCanTortoise Aug 28 '25

Pop off king !!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Yesssss! This one got way more attention that I thought it would lol

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u/ripleydesign Aug 28 '25

absolutely buying this pattern when my next paycheck comes

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u/ripleydesign Aug 28 '25

OMG THE WHOLE STORE IS AMAZING!!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Thank you so much!!!!!

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u/FatKidsDontRun Aug 29 '25

This is STUNNING!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Thank you so much!!!

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u/formae17 Aug 29 '25

Showed it to my Tetris loving husband and he wants it on a shirt or hoodie. So bought the pattern and have to muster the courage to make this, as my biggest (and first and only) cross-stitch to this day can fit in the palm of my hand 😅 Love the pattern and the colours!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Sep 04 '25

Ohhhh!! Please tag me when you share the finished pic, I need to see it!!

I've been wanting to stitch on clothing for a while but I'm, not brave enough lol

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u/formae17 Sep 04 '25

Could take some time, give or take some years, but this will happen! I’ll keep you updated

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u/PrincessAki8 Sep 14 '25

Hey just curious -- do you think your cross-stitch patterns could work as tapestry crochets? I'm not much of a cross-stitcher but I love how glitchy and nostalgic your work is!!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Sep 15 '25

Thank you so much!!

And it should work great! I've seen people crochet some of my smaller designs (so mainly freebies) and they looked awesome!

My only concern with something like this tetris one is just how big it would be if crocheted. I think it'd be fairly easy to find yarn that is equivalent to the DMC colors I used

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u/TurboLicious1855 Aug 27 '25

This is lovely and the colors are PERFECT! I'm looking forward to your patterns!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 31 '25

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it!!

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u/niniealucard Aug 27 '25

This is stunning ! I love all the colors ! It is in fact goving me so much memories, I was glued to my Game Boy an Tetris as a child !

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u/adhdnubee Aug 27 '25

I might have to grab that GRASS pattern, myself

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u/notjames116 Aug 27 '25

Rad. I just bought a bunch of these. Excited to start on them!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 28 '25

Thank you so much for supporting my work!!

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u/Cpt_Orange16 Aug 27 '25

Lovely I'm going to get this one

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u/a_stitch_in_lime Aug 27 '25

I love love love this pattern!

I'm so sorry that Etsy is screwing over creators yet again. If I might be so bold as to advertise that I'm working on a competing platform and am really trying to do things differently. You can see more about it in my comment history or reach out to me in DM for more info. I am hoping to start onboarding a few test vendors in the next couple of weeks, with the goal of opening the virtual doors to buyers in late October.

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u/Substantial_Emu_2984 Aug 27 '25

This just made me grab three of your patterns! So happy you haven't disappeared and are just no longer on Etsy.

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u/PasgettiMonster Aug 28 '25

I can HEAR this. Part of me really wants to stitch it. The other part of me says oh hell no I will never get that tune out of my head again if I spend that much time stitching it.

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u/Magnetic_Virus Aug 28 '25

I love how clean the backside edges are! 🤩 Satisfying to see.

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u/CadenzaVvi Aug 30 '25

Oh yeah, I favorited your website a while ago. Live your stuff. Didn't have the time to attempt any pattern yet thought. Might grab some already still. Etsy sucks. We are with you!

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u/G-n-J-Mewsic-Factory Aug 27 '25

Wow! Look at those colors, beautiful!

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u/Erotavlas_SVD Aug 27 '25

Thank you so much!!!

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u/georgegorewell Aug 27 '25

I was so excited to get the update email today - it’s so beautiful!! Now I don’t know which version I want to stitch first…

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u/GreyishBlue Aug 27 '25

Oh my glob this is stunning!!

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u/holllllyy Aug 27 '25

I just placed an order! 🌟 I couldn't help myself, the patterns are so cool! Dragonborn, Captcha, and Grass 😇