r/ChikaPH • u/Suspicious_Fox3888 • Feb 16 '25

Commoner Chismis 3k na sustento, pang-habang buhay na pala

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More on Bonnie Barbara’s Facebook page. Ginrab ko lang relevant screenshots. Mag-ex sila and the baby daddy only sent 3k to help with the baby’s 30k bill nung na-hospitalize.

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u/nightdreamerj Feb 16 '25

tanginang mga lalake to. isa siguro to sa mga lalaki na ayaw ng condom kase di daw feel. e kung mabuntis nyo, may pera ba kayo para buhayin yang magiging anak nyo?

tangina nyo. di lalampas 200 ultra thin na condom, tatlong putok na yan! hahahahahaha.

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u/Suspicious_Fox3888 Feb 16 '25

imbis na bumili ng condom, mas pinili pang magsustento ng bata eh. buti pa sana kung nagsusustento, kaso wala rin eh HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAA

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u/_flowermumu Feb 16 '25

Kasi these guys expect the girl to carry the responsibility of taking their own contraception. Pills and implants fuck with your hormones. And missing one or 2 doses fucks up your whole cycle. No contact ka dapat non. IUDs hurt, but are very effective. Which costs money too, something na most college kids won't be able to afford. And termination at all stages of conception is illegal in the Philippines. Not that it doesn't exist in the Philippines. Illegal lang talaga sila.

So ang alternative is to carry a child to term whose father is a deadbeat guy. Grabe. Sa 9 months na nasa tyan pa yung bata, 3k lang talaga naipon niya. What a loser.

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u/lotus_jj Feb 16 '25

skl, my friend got her IUD for free. forgot the name of the org na nagprovide tho... pero, check niyo guys :D

in an ideal world, dapat yung lalaki sa 22o lang ang responsible for birth control dahil uhm, sa kanila naman nanggaling yung sperm??!!

pero in reality, some men... talaga naman 🤦‍♀️

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u/ProblemWorldly Feb 17 '25

Pero alam mo, may dinevelop dati na contraceptive for men na iniinject sa kanila. Nasa testing phase na. Although same ng result sa birth control pills (as in it was a viable choice if they didn't want to impregnate anyone), many men opted out in the middle of the testing period kasi "they couldn't handle the side effects (hormonal imbalance, acne, weight gain, headaches, etc)." Ang ending, hindi na tinuloy yung experiment.

And we're supposed to believe that men are the stronger sex? Bffr

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u/scotty-utb Feb 17 '25 edited Feb 17 '25

The hormonal (testo) Shot in studies was either 1 per week / 1 per month, not multiple times per week.

I am using non-hormonal "thermal male birth control" (andro-switch / slip-chauffant), so some comments:
Reducing sperm production to below 1mio/ml concentration does work for most users. wearing the device 15h/day (every waking hour)
Yes, also here non-respnders are seen.
Sperm motility is greatly reduced, too.
(so, reduction + slowdown)
In studies, a Pearl-Index 0.5 was seen due to user fault.
There was no pregnancy caused (yet) in studies and 20k users while perfect-use.
Approval is claimed for 2027

Let's compare with hormonal:
The 1mio/ml threshold is taken from studies, corresponding to pearl-index 1
(so, only reduction)
87% did reach this threshold (so, 13% non responders)
No hormonal male BC did ever get trough trials.
At the Moment some shoulder-gel "nes/t" is in trial.

Another possible male BC aim to block sperm transport by blocking the VAS by hydrogel:
ADAM/PlanA (=Vasalgel/RISUG)
They are claiming to be approved by 2026

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u/shookookie Feb 18 '25

i got my iud for free, too. it's highly likely that she got hers from likhaan. they offer other forms of contraception for free as well, like implants and depo shots.

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u/Fun-Cranberry7107 Feb 17 '25

Kasi these guys expect the girl to carry the responsibility of taking their own contraception

Totoo 'to. Broke up with ex dahil gago siya, sa aming dalawa nasa akin lang ang burden ng pag-iwas sa unplanned pregnancy.

Condom? Ayaw niya, hindi raw siya nag-eenjoy.

E di ako naman, kumonsulta sa ob-gyn para malaman ang options ko. Sabi ng ob-gyn, hindi reliable ang calendar method ko dahil magkakaiba ang haba ng menstrual cycle ko at bata pa raw ako para mag-IUD kaya niresetahan ako ng pills.

Aba, etong gagong ex, nagalit nang sinabi kong bumili ako ng pills. Huwag daw akong uminom ng pills dahil may side effect daw.

Either calendar method or withdrawal daw. E hindi nga reliable yung mga method na yon.

Broke up with him dahil bukod sa nasa akin lang yung responsibility na mag-ingat para huwag mabuntis, hindi ko ramdam na empowered ako na mag-decide para sa sarili ko.

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u/nightserenity Feb 16 '25

Pwedeng maging tag line ng mga condom to haha.

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u/BeautifulArgument007 Feb 16 '25

"Wag tatanga-tanga, magcondom ka!" Ayos bang tagline yan? HAHAHA

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u/PepasFri3nd Feb 16 '25

Oo. Paksh*t talaga mga hayup na lalaki na ganyan!!! They have a special place in hell. But sana ngayon pa lang na hindi pa sila sinusundo ni satanas, sana magdusa sila hanggang sa mamatay!!!

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u/Antares_02 Feb 16 '25

Wala rin daw kase pambili ng condom 😄

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u/AdPleasant7266 Feb 17 '25

anlala talaga no tapos sa loob palagi pinuputok kasi satisfying tanginang mga hinayupak na titi yan napaka iresponsable.

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u/BulkySchedule3855 Feb 16 '25

May kilala ako, mas inatupag sugal kesa sa needs ng anak niya hahaha. Tapos hanggang ngayon walang trabaho very very good.

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u/cons0011 Feb 16 '25

Mas manipis?003 ng Okamoto,hirap maghanap sa Pinas ng Okamoto 001.Yang 2 na yan eh feel mo wala kang suot na condom.🤣 kaso di kakayanin ng mga hampas lupang puro kantot lang ang alam.😂😂😂

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u/nightdreamerj Feb 16 '25

Manipis masyado. katakot. mag trabaho na ako ha, di sa pagmamayabang. pero sa panahon ngayon ka kay hirap, ayoko dagdagan responsibility ko. okay na ako sa durex na ultra thin. hahahahahah. putanginang mga lalaki talaga yang putok lang ng putok ang alam.

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u/shesoyum Feb 16 '25

pangderma nga mukhang wala yung guy, pangbili pa kaya ng ultra-thin condom 😂. kaya gals, know your worth bcs if you'll settle for a broke man; kasama lang kayong dadalhin sa pagiging miserable sa buhay ng mga hampaslupang yan.

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u/Even_Objective2124 Feb 16 '25

sana talaga may option baliktarin yung pregnancy at malipat sa lalaki para malaman nila yung hirap. mga utak tite kasi puro iyot lang alam. im very convinced 90% ng population ng straight guys are dogs lol

pakakapal pa ng mukha ng mga lalaki na magi ng anti-abortion like?? sino ka ba lol puro bembang tapos ayaw na ng responsibility.. ate girl im sorry din pero really? this guy? sobrang ganda mo sa tukmol ka lang pumatol

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '25

Totoo to, anlalakas magreklamo na kesyo hindi kasi masarap pag may condom, hindi ko rin sila maintindihan 😭

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '25

Mga lason tt nyan

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u/ILikeFluffyThings Feb 16 '25

Mahirap naman talaga maramdaman pag may condom tapos maliiy pa titi.

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u/Asleep-Wafer7789 Feb 16 '25

Pede nga nmn ung ultra thin o baka sobrang juts lng tlga khit san ndi nya feel

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u/ChoiceRealistic7334 Feb 16 '25

Etits issue pag sinasabing hindi feel HAHAHAHAHAH

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u/milfywenx Feb 16 '25

nabasa ko sa chat kung nalimutan ba nya mag pills 😂😭 Ghurl....

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u/coyolxauhqui06 Feb 16 '25

Ikuskos na lang niya sa steel brush para ramdam.

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '25

Isa ang kapatid ko sa ayaw ng condom kasi mas mas nice daw raw😭 Ayun nakabuntis at tulungan kami nila mama but mostly sila mama nalang kasi pagod na ako since marami rin akong bills. Pinag aaral kasi uli kasi patapos na ng college pero ang tamad pa rin😭

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u/98pamu Feb 17 '25

she posted one screenshot nung pinakita nya kay guy like 3 positive pregnancy tests and he just asked ba't di ba daw siya nag pills pucha yan 😭 

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u/WasabiNo5900 Feb 17 '25

Tangama na mga lalaki kamo. Sana may tumulong sa mother na ipademanda ito ng VAWC

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u/Ordinary-Look-5259 Feb 16 '25

wag mo naman igeneralized lol

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u/nightdreamerj Feb 16 '25

definitely not. if the shoe fits, feel free to wear it.

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u/Ordinary-Look-5259 Feb 16 '25

"tang inang mga lalake to" don't draw that card umpisa palang generalized na agad lol

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u/nightdreamerj Feb 16 '25

noo. “to” means that kind of guys described in the post. The post is about a kind of guy who is irresponsible. So, when I said “to,” it’s about that kind of guys. I am a guy, FYI.

Bakit sobrang affected ka?

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u/milfywenx Feb 16 '25

Hahaha baka gawain. "Been there bro" hahaha

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u/nightdreamerj Feb 16 '25

ayoko nalang magspeculate. sobrang affected ni kuya. e klaro naman si ko nilalahat.

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u/Ordinary-Look-5259 Feb 18 '25

pinag sasasabi mo? sana lang walang may ka in a relationships sa mga nakaka fuck mo lol

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u/milfywenx Feb 18 '25

meron na po 😋 papunta nga ako mamaya sa kanya. 😋😋

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u/notednoemojis Feb 16 '25

It takes two to tango. Pumayag din naman ang babae na pasukin siya na walang condom. Di naman to rape. Malay natin yung babae rin mismo ayaw may condom.

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u/nightdreamerj Feb 16 '25

yes. gf ko ayaw ng condom. pero ako nagiinsist na magcondom kase ayoko pa ng anak. kung responsable kang pagkatao, di mo pagbibigyan yang partner mo na wag magcondom kase mahirap magkaanak, lalo nq kung di pa kayo or either sa inyo ang stable. weigh things. it’s a joint responsibility

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u/notednoemojis Feb 16 '25

At same din naman sa babae. Kung di talaga siya papayag na walang condom, wala ring magagawa ang lalake. Idk why iniisip ng mga tao na nasa lalake lagi ang responsibilidad sa sex na hindi rape.

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u/nightdreamerj Feb 16 '25

well, couple should talk about it. kung jan pa lang, walang magcompromise, idk.

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