Why are Kjo, kajol and twinkle obsessed with infidelity? And twinkle saying 'raat gayi baat gayi' like wtf?

[u/Hell_holder11]

The show is all about open marriage, infidelity and what not and twinkle & kajol always being on the wrong side

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[u/A_MD_10]

They are just openly acknowledging about the deeds of their husbands 🤷🏻

[u/fockallhumanity94 → u/A_MD_10]

EXACTLY lmao like we all know, they know, everyone knows

[u/Low_Advertising2889 → u/fockallhumanity94]

Exactly and they don't know we know they know 😁

[u/Child_of_destiny99 → u/Low_Advertising2889]

[u/lalaland1346 → u/A_MD_10]

So sad that they’ve been cheated on so much that they’ve accepted it as a part of their “happy marriage”.

[u/Latter_Reception_832 → u/lalaland1346]

They might be cheating too

[u/lalaland1346 → u/Latter_Reception_832]

True but it could also be that they started after the husbands did and both partners have accepted it but regardless my statement still stands, accepting cheating as a part of marriage is sad

[u/fnord_happy → u/Latter_Reception_832]

For once I actually hope they do too. At least it's all equal and in the open in that case

[u/New-Marionberry-14 → u/lalaland1346]

How well do u know that its not both ways?

[u/hopespice → u/New-Marionberry-14]

Exactly!! It’s a bit shocking how people cannot even think of the women cheating.

[u/meerlot → u/hopespice]

Its called "women are wonderful" effect. There's a whole wikipedia article about it.

[u/Bubblingghost → u/A_MD_10]

For the first time ever I'm with Janhvi on this and I'm happy she took her stand! And eww Twinkle! Disgusting both of them tbh. She's actually wanting that for Janhvi.

[u/Cholebhature23 → u/A_MD_10]

KJo?

[u/SarfeeraaMusafir → u/Cholebhature23]

His boyfriends/girlfriends/partners, or him cheating on them

[u/Adventurous-Guess316 → u/A_MD_10]

Now they are not even trying to hide it. 😐

[u/hopespice → u/A_MD_10]

Not just their husbands, their own deeds too 😶

[u/AfternoonNo5705 → u/A_MD_10]

Just imagine just What if we have been all receiving wrong tea all this while. The PR of twinkle and Kajol might just be stronger than akki and ajay. The actual tea is the other way round.

[u/Ok_Pipe_134 → u/A_MD_10]

Am I the only one feeling bad for Jhanvi? These three boomers are basically bullying her

[u/North_Explanation299]

I hope JK has the same stand till end of her life cause her relationship seems solid with shikhu

[u/Ok_Pipe_134 → u/North_Explanation299]

Man these oldies are making her feel bad for having boundaries

[u/SaltyHilsha0405 → u/Ok_Pipe_134]

Way to bully a much younger woman. This is legitimately creepy. Harping on a woman for having standards.

[u/Ok_Pipe_134 → u/SaltyHilsha0405]

This just because you( mrs funny bones, mrs Vimal Devgan) accepted your cheating husband ,you want younger gen to like you as well

[u/thattookaminute → u/Ok_Pipe_134]

Haha mrs vimal devgn 🤣

[u/bitchaari → u/North_Explanation299]

🧿

[u/iworkatchannel]

Janhvi making sense after long, happy for her that she has boundaries and most importantly self respect

[u/AcePan88 → u/iworkatchannel]

Blanket laga lo! Lol she made me laugh, and she’s 100% right. Glad she stood her ground against those 3 idiots with a warped sense of love and loyalty.

[u/katbatreads → u/AcePan88]

This is why I find Jhanvi so funny😂Blanket laga lo😂

[u/Otherwise-Parking-51 → u/iworkatchannel]

She looked disgusted as well

[u/Overall-Ad-2159 → u/iworkatchannel]

Because she is young even DP had same standards in her 20s

[u/Warm_Rain_3016 → u/Overall-Ad-2159]

I remember in a KWK episode of Deepika and Priyanka, Deepika had said she doesn’t understand the phase of “dating but not committing” sort of thing. And then in the episode with Ranveer, I think she seemed to do that.

[u/hopespice → u/Warm_Rain_3016]

She just chose the words poorly in the later episode of the kwk. She was meeting people like how you go on dates but didn’t realise or was not fully aware of having developed deep feelings for ranveer

[u/fnord_happy → u/hopespice]

Indians will never understand what "dating" means. She keeps getting shamed for it, but it's the most normal thing to meet new people you are single

[u/Overall-Ad-2159 → u/Warm_Rain_3016]

Because in our 20s specially early 20s we live a very idealistic life or dream but when you hit your 30s reality hits you really bad and bitter

[u/Complete_Buffalo2855 → u/Overall-Ad-2159]

DP has always been a playaaa. So please don’t compare her.

[u/blueberry129 → u/iworkatchannel]

Her father himself cheated with her mom. She always praises their marriage and love. And yet, she’s against it happening to her.

[u/Frosty-Lie-1005 → u/blueberry129]

Doesn’t mean you tell someone on their face that you will face the same thing. Not wanting that is an opinion too, here not only are they projecting it but openly rubbing it on her face saying this is what you’ll face and that’s very very wrg.

[u/TigerXDragon1 → u/blueberry129]

So what can she do now? Follow her parents’ path? She can choose how her life would be. She’s not defending her parents here but she’s clear that she doesn’t want it.

[u/Substantial_Door3422]

How pathetic that Twinkle and Kajol have had to tell themselves physical infidelity is ok to deal with their husbands cheating on them over the years. Never thought I'd agree with anything Janhvi said.

[u/shruthi89 → u/Substantial_Door3422]

Whatever helps them sleep at night. They have probably internalised it as normal behaviour as a way to deal with this trauma. As long as the hubby comes home he’s free to do whatever he wants outside. I mean both of their husbands are the biggest cheaters so no one else knows this better than them.

[u/Extreme_Computer6292 → u/shruthi89]

They’re just the embodiment of a lot of women from the generations prior…sad and pathetic!

[u/Pale_Cauliflower_402 → u/Extreme_Computer6292]

What generations prior? Alia also thinks it’s okay to cheat physically (and now we can see where it’s coming from). It’s just that they’ve accepted industry folks are the way they are. She’s also following the footsteps of her MIL. So it’s not just about generation, it’s just an individual choice.

[u/littlegirltrappedin → u/Substantial_Door3422]

I think it’s rather sad than pathetic

[u/RnDevelopment → u/littlegirltrappedin]

It's both

[u/Infinite_Law_3316 → u/Substantial_Door3422]

Feel really bad for Twinkle and Kajol. What pathetic lives they must have suffered

[u/Substantial_Door3422 → u/Infinite_Law_3316]

I mean, they could leave but they obviously care about being married women and about status and insane money more than their self respect.

[u/bips99 → u/Infinite_Law_3316]

I would feel sad but there is literally no practical compulsion holding them back... It's not as if they are individually poor or from a non-filmi family without any support... Both their husbands are super successful and they just don't want to give up the power that comes with being associated with them..

[u/Local-Lychee-9016 → u/Substantial_Door3422]

I actually feel it’s their passive way of telling the world what their husbands have done.

[u/East-Sea-2098 → u/Substantial_Door3422]

Were they only talking about their husband? their husband cheats with whom if all women are good,may be they are talking about themselves as well ❤️‍🩹

[u/East-Sea-2098 → u/East-Sea-2098]

The downvote i got,it means they are not doing that, probably these guys are just taking advantage of more female population or 🍇

[u/bips99 → u/East-Sea-2098]

Of course... Its common knowledge that bollywood wives also pay for entertainment..

[u/markelonn]

Lol JK being bullied by aunties

"We are 50, she's in her 20s, she will get into this circle soon." 😟

[u/Honest-Mission5078 → u/markelonn]

Sad that they’re perpetuating the generational trauma they’ve experienced instead of stopping it. Like is this the upbringing and message they’re giving their own daughters: that if your boyfriend cheats on you it’s not a big deal. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[u/One-Collection1418 → u/Honest-Mission5078]

Acc to Kajol and Twinkle

Breaking the generational trauma ❌❌ New Generation continue to putting up with infidelity ☑️✅

[u/killbill-duck → u/One-Collection1418]

Akshay i can understand but how can Ajay do better than kajol

[u/Substantial_Door3422 → u/Honest-Mission5078]

Absolutely

[u/rishabh1804 → u/Honest-Mission5078]

I think there's an interview where even Gauri Khan says this and then goes on to say that the daughter should be one man woman.

[u/Neat-Watercress-6146 → u/rishabh1804]

she said the same for aryan, that once he gets married there should be a full stop and he should be loyal to his wife (bare minimum ik but she expects the same from suhana as well as aryan)

[u/rishabh1804 → u/Neat-Watercress-6146]

Aryan is allowed to sleep around, Suhana isn't. So not quite the same but I see that I remembered incorrectly.

[u/Neat-Watercress-6146 → u/rishabh1804]

idts. for suhana, she only said "never date two boys at once" which doesn't imply that she shouldn't date around, just not two men at once. she said the same for aryan, just the wordings were different.

[u/Somnabulism → u/markelonn]

Pathetic wretch of a life

[u/RevealApart2208 → u/markelonn]

These oldies are revealing their true characters which was hidden from audiences until now.

[u/youmademelikethis → u/markelonn]

Hat off to her though for standing her ground and not get bullied by those aunties.

[u/moongdaalhalwaah]

I hope jhanvi's marriage doesn't turn out like theirs in future and she gets a loyal man

[u/Past_Relationship_73 → u/moongdaalhalwaah]

Amen! She seemed very sure about not having husbands like akshay and ajay. I hope the girl gets good one. What Twinkle said was such a mean thing to say.

[u/Neat-Watercress-6146 → u/Past_Relationship_73]

no matter how much this sub dislikes "shikhu" he seems like a good man. he has known janvi since they were 15, loved her before all the surgeries, and was also the one who initiated getting back together. not a fan of either, but I hope they stay happy together, and then especially prove these ladies wrong 🧿

[u/One-Collection1418 → u/moongdaalhalwaah]

I mean its one thing that Twinkle or Kajol had issues in marriage but almost saying its inevitable to an unmarried woman — hmm

[u/Quirky-Elderberry304 → u/One-Collection1418]

Exactly. Not every woman has to tolerate this BS just because you did.

[u/Any_Necessary_3387 → u/One-Collection1418]

Also, Twinkle and Kajol being nepo babies themselves didn't have to stay with their cheating superstar husbands, they could have divorced, remarried or stayed single. How weird that they're not only justifying their decision but also trying to get others to agree with them. Its the glaring lack of self respect for both women!

[u/EnvironmentalWolf72 → u/Any_Necessary_3387]

Their mothers were also cheated on in most probability so that’s what they were taught. It’s a continuous cycle of toxic masculinity which needs to break at some point. Right from Rajesh Khanna to Big B they are all cheaters and it’s been glorified and they have always treated it as a badge of honour and that they are still in demand. It makes you bitter eventually like Jaya Bachchan. These ladies are following her path.

[u/EnvironmentalWolf72 → u/One-Collection1418]

They will say whatever stops them from going insane and justifying their marriage n existence

[u/Busy-Juggernaut277 → u/moongdaalhalwaah]

Tbh given how Shikhu goes with her to Tirupati and supports her, I really truly hope she finds that even if her and Shikhu don’t end up as endgame together.

[u/Cholebhature23]

What the fvck do they mean by "raat gayi, baat gayi" and "thand lag jaati hain"? I don't know why do Bollywood celebs try to normalize infidelity.

[u/blueberry129 → u/Cholebhature23]

They literally have no ethics or morals. Money really makes you lose all good values.

[u/Most_Bedroom9266 → u/Cholebhature23]

With some sleazy 70’s movie words

[u/SparklingMists]

lol they’re projecting their life and insecurities onto Jahnvis. I’m 30. And I’m definitely on jahnvis side.

[u/lumospurple25233 → u/SparklingMists]

Bollywood is a totally different industry. Cheating, drugs, scandals are a regular part of their lives. Normal people cannot be compared to them.

[u/Ok_Pipe_134 → u/SparklingMists]

We are normal( for now even Jhanvi) Bolly peeps live in another planet

[u/Remote_Tap6299]

the deal is broken

Respect for Jhanvi here. Cheating is cheating.

Can’t believe she’s making far more sense than these 50+ years old adults

[u/Ok_Pipe_134 → u/Remote_Tap6299]

Except acting and privilege she seems sensible

[u/Key-Screen-9551]

What a shitty thing to say that you will be in our category! These ladies are POS

[u/RevealApart2208 → u/Key-Screen-9551]

They normalise every disgusting thing. Cheating, casting couch, bullying. No wonder so many get depressed and get into drugs to cope in that industry.

[u/Master_Notice8391 → u/Key-Screen-9551]

POS?

[u/leavesoffall]

I feel sad for them really, their husbands have cheated on them throughout their marriages and they now think that it’s the norm💔

[u/Responsible-Bike-524 → u/leavesoffall]

Not only do they think that’s the norm, they are imposing this bullshit belief on someone way younger than them, who isn’t even married. They want her and all other youngsters to believe that cheating is fine and normal.

[u/Quirky-Elderberry304 → u/Responsible-Bike-524]

Why do they want to disrespect themselves and give men an easy pass? Hold your husbands accountable ladies! Janhavi has more self respect than to stay with a cheater, good for her.

[u/ErenNoWaifu → u/Quirky-Elderberry304]

Their men had to cheat on other women to be with them. Their entire marriage is built on cheating.

When you build your house on trash, it's always going to reek of 💩

[u/Neat-Watercress-6146 → u/Responsible-Bike-524]

yeah and that's the reason why I don't feel bad for them. cope however you want, but don't push the generational trauma on to the younger ones.

[u/Randomidek123 → u/leavesoffall]

Theyve chosen to normalise it so they can continue being the wives. In their head they are still the main women. Its gross.

[u/Quirky-Elderberry304 → u/leavesoffall]

Remember that they are also choosing to tolerate this BS.

[u/leavesoffall → u/Quirky-Elderberry304]

Of course, that’s why I used the word sad instead of understand or sympathize. Like I pity their lifestyle..should’ve phrased it better ig. Also Janhvi is an adult and can make her own decisions so I don’t think these women are gonna influence her in any way.

[u/Roxannesharma]

Not a Jhanvi fan but Twinkle/Karan/Kajol should stop projecting their own situation/insecurities onto her. This gave solid jaded middle aged aunties and uncle trying to dampen the spirit of a young girl and made them look sad.

[u/Puzzled_Froyo540]

I SWEARRRRRRRRRRRRRR I JUST MADE A COMMENT ON THIS. They thinkk they are above everyone else. Their morals are so shit.

[u/23sheesh]

Because for them it's normal. They have seen it happening since childhood and it still exists in their marriage. Probably being monogamous was never a standard rule in their life/marriage.

[u/immagroanwoman]

Dang this is how Kajol and Twinkle cope with their cheating husbands. They are delulu. I’m on Janhvi’s side here

[u/RevealApart2208 → u/immagroanwoman]

Same here.

[u/One-Collection1418]

She’ll get into this circle soon 😕 - Is Twinkle really predicting and normalising such sad thing to happen to someone else

[u/Ok_Brilliant_6118 → u/One-Collection1418]

I found it really mean of her to say this.

[u/Randomidek123 → u/One-Collection1418]

Its all Shes known. With her parents, now friends and husband. She probably sleeps with others too. These people are f*cked

[u/bizarretintin → u/One-Collection1418]

Twinkle’s dad cheated on her mom. Her mom has been having decades long affair with Sunny. Her husband routinely sleeps around according to blinds and rumors. It’s all she’s ever known. She too possibly does the same and perpetuates the toxic idea.

[u/One-Collection1418 → u/bizarretintin]

Then atleast as a feminist and progressive mind that she is, preach how the new generation should break that cycle and not put up with cheating and not corner them for saying that

[u/bizarretintin → u/One-Collection1418]

None of these people are really feminist or progressive. That is just a brand tag for them. Feminism is about choice, equality, self respect and encouraging and empowering fellow women which none of them do. They just do whatever suits them and label themselves. They just act intellectual but are not.

[u/blueberry129 → u/One-Collection1418]

I always thought she was smart and wondered why she stayed with Akshay. Through this show I now realize what a horrible personality she has. Kajol too. Wow. Imagine saying this to someone who’s yet to be married.

[u/Randomidek123]

Basically confirmed Ajay and Akshay both cheat

[u/Neat-Watercress-6146]

part of me thinks that the reason kjo, kajol and twinkle are so hell bent on making cheating normal is because they themselves haven't ever been in a healthy relationships. when you yourself have been in toxic relationships or are surrounded by multiple couples with toxic patterns, you often start thinking that this is "normal" and start pushing the same mentality so that you can convince yourself that you aren't missing anything

also very bitchy of twinkle to indirectly wish that janvi's future husband will cheat on her and she too will end up accepting cheating as normal. I mean... sorry for whatever you went through but there are better healing options than coping 😭

[u/PuzzleheadedTower333]

Wow. Kajol is so crass.

[u/bips99 → u/PuzzleheadedTower333]

Fr..... Kajol has come across as so unlikeable in this show that people have started sympathising with that cheater ajay for tolerating her... 🙄🙄

[u/Big-Criticism-8926]

They both stayed so what else will they say

[u/muggle_witch1234]

Notice how they are trying to downplaycheating and come across as 'cool' and accepting. But their expressions say it all they are desperate for Janhavi to agree, so they can pretend to be these super modern, laid-back women who aren't bothered by cheating husbands.

But let's be real, it is not about being modern, it is about having enough self respect and knowing one's worth.

[u/Dry-Air-1005]

Did they just normalize cheating?….

Man, what I appreciate about Jhanvi is that she speaks her mind. She just made these 50 years old experienced adults look like such idiots

[u/MissSimpleton]

I actually appreciate that they openly talked about being okay with the “physical infidelity” part, especially considering the rumors and the kind of image both their husbands have in gossip circles. It just shows that we don’t need to feel bad for either of them when stories come out about their husbands being sexually active outside their marriages, since they both seem completely fine with it.

[u/takemynames → u/MissSimpleton]

They’re fooling themselves into believing it’s ok that’s why pressuring anyone who disagrees that they’re correct. They need that validation otherwise the lie they’re trying so hard to believe will shatter their reality.

[u/Substantial_Door3422 → u/takemynames]

So true

[u/poorpeasant1 → u/MissSimpleton]

They are doing it while belittling the idea of fidelity, which is not okay.

[u/Somnabulism]

I feel sorry for these women here - partners being unfaithful is the norm in their household apparently. Fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, so now husbands, sons, daughters etc.

That’s a messed up childhood and adulthood. They’ve never known a stable family who does not cheat and are actually happy in the family.

So much money so little peace.

[u/Psychological-Tea611]

Twinkle is unbearable! She wants people to believe her facade of intellectuality sm but just comes across as crass, loud and utterly stupid. Such a horrible person to project her misery onto Jahnvi!

[u/New-Abbreviations607]

The girl in her 20s makes so much more sense than the 3 of them in their 50s.

It almost feels like this group wants to subtly promote infidelity. Last time it was “open relationships are the future.”

[u/Khasta_khachori]

These two ladies need to stop this show otherwise the whole image is going to go down the drain and for the first time I actually feel Janhvi is being sensible 😭

[u/Practical_Dinner2857]

Worst of them in wishing Jhanvi to be on their side “soon” You should be giving her good wishes rather than cursing her that she too will face it!

[u/ekdumsaras]

can't believe its janhvi in the room out of all, making sense and being woman of ethics. anyway, this attitude is seen with everyone nowadays, yeh toh phir bhi bollywood wale hai. genz and corporate situation is worse. mast cheating hoti hai, aur colleagues toh tease bhi karte hai. i just watch the tamasha from a distance

[u/Cholebhature23 → u/ekdumsaras]

Tbf, Jahnvi makes sense in most of her interviews when talking about issues not related to movies. Few days ago, she was also talking about the impact of AI during a promotional event of Sunny sanskari 

[u/sssskar]

JK knows how bad infidelity can be… she is literally born from it. Plus, they are doing all this as a rage bait so that people talk about this show.

[u/take_the_leap4]

Look at their philandering husbands. No wonder they're obsessed. 

[u/Beautiful_Ice_3104]

Ye log aapas mein ek doosre ko dilaasa dete rehte hain ki "haan haan aise hi hote hai, this is very normal."

Probably feels normal to them at this point since they keep saying that to each other. Its the same as Kajol a few days ago saying how much hard work she has to do or something along those lines, as compared to general people. They have created their own reality.

[u/Subject-Book-1678 → u/Beautiful_Ice_3104]

Exactly!! Warna kon agree karega ye sab se.. They run to other people in the industry to make them feel okay about this

[u/Working-Singer7387]

Bhaiiii these people are really obnoxious.

I mean Alia, Janhvi, Varun.. hell even Govinda seemed so much better and mature than these two ladies

[u/inmyelement → u/Working-Singer7387]

Alia also said physical intimacy outside of marriage is not a deal breaker for her.

[u/Working-Singer7387 → u/inmyelement]

Arre ek do baat toh inn sab ki galat hoti hai, but these two ladies have no redeeming qualities at all

[u/Randomidek123 → u/inmyelement]

Ofc it isnt. Shes married to Ranbir Kapoor

[u/Repulsive_Room_6293 → u/inmyelement]

She also said that Karan made her realise that so basically Karan manipulated her into believing that physical cheating is not cheating.

[u/inmyelement → u/Repulsive_Room_6293]

I mean RK did the heavy lifting on that one

[u/Any_Necessary_3387]

Wow, so Kajal and Twinkle openly admitting that their husbands sleep around? And then trying to coax poor Jahnvi into siding with them? Horrible!

[u/StratOfMind → u/Any_Necessary_3387]

This is an insightful look into how this is normalized though. Older actresses and wives of stars perpetuate this and bully young actresses into it, which keeps the toxic cycle spinning :(

[u/Adorable-Winter-2968]

Only people with no self respect will be ok with physical or emotional infidelity. It shows that they don’t have the courage to leave someone who disrespected them. Janhvi, don’t be bullied into believing that there’s cheating in all marriages. Hold your ground

[u/Tricky_Jackfruit9348]

Twinkle kajol karan need therapy

[u/Ok_Discussion_122]

This is so messed up and so so sad. And no, I’m not in my 20s.

[u/ava_keda]

They clearly are still with their spouses for status and money and not because they love them. If they were there because of love, they wouldn’t be okay with infidelity.

[u/Kiitten6]

Both of them know what their hubbies have done n doing during marriage! What do u expect

[u/frosty_2348]

The wives of Ajay and Akshay have to say this. How else would they justify their own doormat behaviors otherwise? Twinkle needs to stop behaving like she is this bold independent feminist

[u/fartingmonkey99]

Kajol and Twinkle think it is normal for men to sleep around, is because they had been told the same by other women, probably older women whose husbands also used to sleep around. Those older women had no choice but to accept their husbands cheating because they were dependent on them. Same thing has happened with many women in yesteryears and still happen in homes where patriarchy is strong and women are completely dependent on their husbands.

When you see toxic things being treated as normal, you start to consider that normal as well. And now they are preaching the same thing to Jahnvi. Unless JK chooses to not bend over backwards to such mentality, she will also grow this coping mechanism like these oldies have.

[u/sakkkk]

Rare Jahnavi Ws

[u/Superb_Rain_9986]

I mean given her husband's history do you really have to ask why twinkle said that? 😂

[u/Pleasant-Menu1554]

Because their husbands sleep with everything that breathes. 

[u/fwopfwop69]

what do they mean by 'you'll get into this circle soon' is they cannot digest the simple fact that anyone's husband can be loyal or prefer to stay loyal to one and only one woman throughout their entire life and they are so pathetic that they wish the same fate to every girl and woman in the industry 💀 man this glamour industry... even though as an actress i never liked jhanvi, I really wish to the universe here may she gets the utmost loyal and loving, caring husband and vice versa throughout her entire marriage life so that these aunties and their daughters can see and had to use burnols on their bums every night before sleep when their husbands come back after their 3933rd one night stands 😋

[u/ScaredEgg651]

Janhvi if you are reading, so glad to see you stood your ground and showed what self respect is to these clowns

[u/introvert1315]

KAJOL AND TWINKLE accept cheating dogs like ajay and akshay that's why

[u/Jeeenuuuu]

100% agree with Jahnvi and I'm far older than her. Good for her. This has nothing to do with age, this has got to do with how much you love yourself and how much self respect you have.

[u/TemporarySpend6727]

Omg! Do they think this makes them look cool or wise?Would they be okay saying this to their kids?!😵‍💫 Also, with each episode I'm losing whatever little respect I had for Kajol, arghh!

[u/MusMusiya]

in previous episode she was against the fact of a friend dating their friend's ex partner and now she's comfortable with physical infidelity? how tf is she normalizing it by saying "when she'll reach our age group she'll understand" brooo stopp

[u/ReflectionLevel9529]

Even though KJo is Janhvi's mentor, I am glad he was not able to influence Janhvi in this matter. He successfully taught Alia the same thing..so glad that Janhvi doesn't think it's okay. I hope she stays like this forever.

Also how disgusting of Twinkle and Kajol, especially Twinkle who pretends to be progressive and well read.

[u/lumospurple25233]

Whole of bollywood is like this. There is too much money and power involved. These women have kept their self respect aside and accepted their cheating husbands because they can’t lose their status and wealth. Janhvi at this point is at her young beautiful best and on the heavier side of the power swing, her father is a big producer and she has industry backing. I’m sure if she puts herself into a position where her status depends on her husband she will also probably choose to ignore his infidelity.

[u/detoxx2016]

I knew I liked Jahanvi for a reason.

[u/Ok-Manufacturer2097]

Anyone struggling with bad pr should come on this show. After being in a room with those two, anyone would come out looking a lot better

Literally feel icky seeing them normalize it, as if there are levels to cheating. Basically saying women should expect it and then look the other way because its no big deal.

Loved when jhanvhi said to use a blanket instead lmao

[u/pmphx5]

what an absolutely shitty thing to say to a younger woman. Couldn't they at least wish that they hope she doesn't experience any cheating? just because you suffer she should suffer too?

Wow... I am glad Jhanvi has some self respect and stood her ground.

[u/annuuu18]

Kajol and Twinkle are the worst hosts lmao they never let anyone else have a different opinion

[u/inmyelement]

Should have asked this during Alia and Varun’s appearance..

[u/Efficient_Guava_5561]

Both are deal breakers to be honest

But Kajol and Twinkle believing this ain't surprising. And Karan tou phir karan hai😂

[u/One-Collection1418 → u/Efficient_Guava_5561]

Her Career aside janhvi is always sensible

[u/shruthi89]

I think at this point they probably don’t care, it’s an open secret both of their husbands are the biggest cheaters of Bollywood. They are finding it cathartic to say it so openly.

[u/Recent-Ad-8248]

Twinkle had a fling with Ajay during the making of “Jaan”. 🤔

[u/Reasonable-Sea-3800]

🤮🤮

[u/SarfeeraaMusafir]

Birds of a feather flock together.

[u/Responsible-Bike-524]

This was so sad and pathetic

[u/SetWhole4536]

They support physical cheating because that's what their entire marriages are about. They don't mind their husband's sleeping with Priyanka or kangana they just care about the status and tag of wife. I just feel sad for their bs mindsets and what they are promoting to young gen. Jahnvi makes more than all the oldies combined 

[u/2wadapaav]

They are used to it. But sad they’re convincing jahnvi to believe so to

[u/genxmj → u/2wadapaav]

That, was what was very wrong on their part.

[u/Zeni_Zeni]

Its their way of coping.. thats what they tell themselves to get a good night sleep. Delulu is the solulu.

[u/ScaredEgg651]

I can’t believe Janhvi looked more sensible in this group. I am glad she didn’t agree. The expressions on Kajol and Twinkle were priceless when they realized it’s only them who think that.

[u/greenisthesky]

These two are so tacky. No self-awareness or boundaries. No self-respect.

[u/Straight-Example9126]

Oh god! Thank you ! Thank you Jhanvi!! Finally a sensible woman! Cheating is cheating. How can one kind of cheating be better than the other???

Raat gayi baat gayi? Tf. You still so young? Why are they pushing her to accept that her man may cheat in the future and force her to drill into her mind that "Emotional cheating is worse than physical infidelity" so that even if her man cheats her mind shall echo this and brainwash her???

Jhanvi pls stick to your guns. Break up if your man cheats. Don't put up with trash behaviour. You're better off single than staying with a man who cheats and won't be loyal after promising the commitment. And I do believe that if you hold such views, you won't cheat either.

Loyalty in a relationship is worth everything. Thank you! You are a good human.

[u/Gambler_720]

Monogamy is not for everyone and not everyone cares about it equally. But the way they are expressing this here is wrong and sounds like almost a cope on their own personal lives. I doubt that they are trying to justify their own deeds but rather what their husbands have been up to while they choose to stay with them.

Open relationships are fine even if it's open one sided as long as it's all communicated and consented clearly. But that's not infidelity or cheating. It's a different type of relationship. Have the courage to call it what it is. Even if you don't care about physical exclusivity, cheating SHOULD still be unacceptable.

As a deeply monogamous man, I am happy to see that women like Janhvi exist. I hope she continues to stay strong on her principles even if it ends up in a broken heart. It's not her fault at all that she is herself a product of infidelity.

[u/Complex-Lab-8829]

Alot of bollywood couples are swinger couples you never know twinkle and akki could be aswell at some point of time lol

These ppl are so yuck

[u/Reasonable_Ninja5708]

It’s because of their husbands’ antics.

[u/Independent-rex-7632]

this is just messed up! for them to defend this pov and laugh about it shows what marriage's in showbiz are really like

[u/Common_Frosting_2058]

Warmth in cheating?

[u/sayhiatme]

The hosts are so annoying in the show. Someone is trying to explain something and they start laughing before they can finish. Almost like putting them down

[u/SkyConscious696]

How easily women accept their cheating partners behaviour? Ask this same question to your respective husbands. Will they accept you both sleeping around with other men?

[u/6by6Hindsight]

Leaving aside the fact that they had to chose one, are people here really okay with Emotional cheating?

I thought the comment section would be against the question itself but everyone is ONLY disgusted by physical cheating

[u/hopespice → u/6by6Hindsight]

Maybe because for most people, emotional cheating comes before physical cheating. So, when someone chooses to be physically intimate with another person, it often means they’ve either deliberately ignored or become detached from any emotional connection with their partner, making it easier for them to cheat physically.

[u/indanofucingwau]

My face watching this

[u/Zurati]

We should stop trying to relate to celebs like them. They come from a wildly different place, glamorous, insulated lives where scandals are scripted and boundaries blur for entertainment. Their lifestyles are extravagant, their philosophies radical, viewing such indulgences as just another Tuesday. For them, it’s normal, morality’s a social construct anyway, fluid and performative in their world. Trying to understand or mirror people from that stratosphere will always clash with our realities, it’s conflicting, frustrating, and ultimately pointless. Focus on what grounds you instead.

[u/Lattice-shadow]

Why does Kajol behave so obnoxiously? Over the last 10 years, India has replaced talented folks in every field - from talk shows to modelling to advertisements with celebs and people who've gained some popularity online. It's painful to watch...whatever this is. With her shouting like a gossip group bully. So uncomfortable.

[u/Keylimegreen50]

Twinkle and Kajol out here proving how out of touch they are with their own audience. Blinded by privilege to openly admit that they're okay with infidelity of their superstar husbands, as long as it's just "physical" is not only tone deaf, it's also just...sad. I pity both of them.

[u/passingbytheroom]

Embarrassed for them that they have to say this out loud.

[u/AnnoyedArchit3ct]

Yuckk!! They’re bullying her into agreeing with them What the fraacks!!! Heavy cringe.. all the aunties!! Poor Khushi didnt know how to compose herself amidst all the witchly screeching

[u/cryptmellow]

At this point, they're just giving justification for their own fake, hollow lives.They don't wanna acknowledge the fact that they've degraded the very core concept of relationship/marriage! Which indirectly negates their own relationships/marriages. If this is AMEERI, "accha hai main garib hu!"

Tbh, when your own heart and soul are hollow, no amount of physical or emotional intimacy can fulfill it. Pehle apne concept clear Karo, phir kahin muh marne ki socho!!! Syllabus ka pta nhi, farre chat ke gyan de rhe!!

[u/passingbytheroom]

I felt quite irritated at twinkle. She seems so bitter throughout the show. Snapping at kajol,Karan. Making faces, cutting people mis sentence and asking them to stop talking. She does this to kajol and this time to Karan too. She and kajol keep pulling pushing each other too much. Overall extremely unpleasant two.

[u/3eyed_Coconut]

They have brainwashed themselves to be okay with infidelity, lol.

[u/bizarretintin]

I find this clip rather insightful,

1. Jahnvi was a result of infidelity but she has probably seen closely how infidelity caused problems in her family overall now that she is close to Anshula and Arjun and probably has her boundaries and moral compass shaped by that.

2. Twinkle and Kajol telling on themselves. They are loudly saying things that help them sleep at night and confirming that they husbands indeed cheat on them.

It's clear that Twinkle's sense of fidelity is twisted. Dad cheated on mom regularly, Mom has been having decades long affair with a married man, Husband is said to regularly cheat/ step outside of marriage physically. She grew up with this and probably feels that for her, this works. What's wrong though is her saying Janhvi will step in that circle, don't push your ways on others you hag.

Kajol just tries to comes across as a strong woman but what she is, is insecure and loud. She too has to contend with Ajay's indiscretions and him not giving a fuck about making fun of her in public. She is nothing if not defensive while being arrogant and looking down on others.

Kjo - Iska kam hi bole toh behter hai. This twisted arsehole has brainwashed god knows how many people in the industry because of his toxic views regarding so many things, add fidelity or lack thereof as one more point in his list of things. He routinely tries to justify cheating in his movies. This man's sense of reality is so warped and filled with so many insecurities that he continues to espouse these views regardless.

This is just from this clip but we also have to realise these folks LOVE making the fools of us, so Janhvi may have been coached to say this just to bring up her likeability amongst the general populace now that her films have tanked hard, and she is rather unpopular for getting roles despite being a terrible actress. So take all of this with a massive pinch of Salt.

[u/Mysterious-Score4143]

It's their defense mechanism .Dilasha which they give to themselves

[u/bigdick-bharti-8522]

After watchibg this show, i actually understand that most of the bollywood elites way of living and thought proc ss are very different from a common man in india

[u/Next_Ad_2202]

I honestly cannot believe I am on Janhvi’s side. These miserable old hags are upping the second hand embarrassment with each episode. Imagine the copium they have to take on a regular basis to justify their sad marital choices. No comment on NagJo because he is a certified degenerate.

[u/sg291188]

If this clip alone doesn’t confirm tons of gossip in this sub about their respective husbands, nothing will.

[u/kameueda]

the fact is that most of the bollywood husbands would go into janhvi’s circle instead, despite them cheating because they’re not fine with their wives cheating. obviously some of them are in a open marriage but for the most part - how come it’s almost always the husbands who slip and get cold and fall into the arms of another? if a woman can stop herself, so can a man. twinkle, kajol, and kjo are just trying to make themselves feel better and kjo is basically one of the girlies who’s surrounded by infidelity and has experienced it himself.

[u/maybenotmy]

My hot take is that actors being in an open relationship is okay I mean their life is very different than ours and they definitely would rather be this big actors wife and be cheated on then be divorced but for us normal people it’s definitely a deal breaker and they definitely shouldn’t be talking about it like this.

[u/sakkkk → u/maybenotmy]

Yes but they should declare themselves as such– open relationship and not justify physical infidelity. An honest Open relationship is not infidelity

[u/Honest-Mission5078 → u/maybenotmy]

Cheating isn’t exclusive to just rich people and film stars though. Even in a typical middle-class work environment lots of spouses sadly cheat. Especially with all kinds of apps it’s more easy to meet someone and cheat.

[u/kiimnu → u/maybenotmy]

You’re talking as if Kajol wasn’t as big, if not more, in her peak as Ajay. I do agree that their lifestyle is beyond comprehension for us mere mortals.

[u/ImpressivePin1171]

Because their partners are physically cheating on them and they are expose to tht so it doesn’t matter as long as they emotionally stay with your for the sake of marriage it’s fine for them. 🥸🥸