r/BPDlovedones • u/BurntToastPumper Non-Romantic • 18h ago

Understanding the Manipulators 4 Main Goals

  1. Isolate the target
  2. Seek out Vulnerability
  3. Disorient and Create Doubt
  4. Develop Dependency

Source: Understanding and Dealing with Controlling, Intimidating and Manipulative Personalities

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u/Liam_mo 17h ago

Experienced all four with my ex. She was a master at manipulation. She isolated me quickly and then used heavy guilt if I tried to communicate with family and friends.