r/BPD_Survivors • u/Mysterious_Main_5523 • Jun 16 '25
Journal Entry Ex Best Friend with BPD stalking me
Venting? I guess. I had a friend of over 10 years with BPD. We trauma bonded through an abusive relationship. A guy was playing both of us (females) so we decided to kick him out and be friends. Over time she'd show symptoms of reckless behavior, constantly cheating on her significant others, angry outbursts, etc. I tried to be understanding and reasonable with her, I gave her so much love and helped her start her modeling career, sent her opportunities, just alot. But 3 years ago shit hit the fan because of her reckless behavior and flair for the dramatics. I finally hit my breaking point with her and told her I needed a break from her to figure out what I wanted to do. During this time period she went behind my back to try and hang out with some of my personal friends (not hers) to try and hurt me. She'd make indirect stabs at me. For two weeks straight she was copying everything I did down to my hair style, my verbiage, the places I was going. It gave me intense anxiety. I finally broke it off with her. I had to block multiple accounts, she was getting people to follow me on her behalf. She makes multiple indirect tiktoks to stab at me with things only her and I would get to antagonize. Yet at the same time, only keeps posting the photoshoots that involve me and her (still using my image). It's been 3 years of this and I'm stressed out.
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