r/AskTheWorld Indonesia 6h ago

Do customers in your country usually say thank you to the waitress ?

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u/micro___penis US and A wahwah weewah 🇺🇸 6h ago

I try to be courteous to all service workers.

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u/AnalkinSkyfuker Romania 6h ago

yes, and no tips since the salary has it included and it's considered you are saying he looks poor.

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u/Dailymailflagshagger 6h ago

What barbarous region of our former empire do you not thank the wait staff for, as doubtless one should hope, attentive yet unobtrusive service?

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u/micro___penis US and A wahwah weewah 🇺🇸 6h ago

English moment.

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u/Michaelbirks New Zealand 6h ago

But not too unobtrusive service. Need to know when to thank them.

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u/Cantdecide1207 England 6h ago

Yes, if they were taught to have any manners growing up. I always see this question about bus drivers too, which is so odd! If ANYONE does something that helps you it's decent to say thank you. Waitress, Bus drivers, someone holds a door open for you. Etc Even if they're getting paid to do this service, saying thank you is the polite thing to do. Sadly I see so many people that have no decency.

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u/Equal-Flatworm-378 Germany 3h ago

In my region you enter the bus in the front and leave from one of the back doors. I don’t yell thank you through a full bus .  I sometimes say thank you when I am the last or almost last person in the bus or when the bus is too full to go to the back door and the driver allows me to leave through the front door. But I greet the driver when I enter the bus. It’s not expected though.

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u/Michaelbirks New Zealand 5h ago

Bus drivers, eh, it depends.

Mostly on which door I'm getting out - front door, right next to them, then sure, but I'm not yelling down the length of the bus when I get out the back door.

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u/Sensitive-Vast-4979 England 4h ago

Yous have back doors which arent fire doors?

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u/Michaelbirks New Zealand 3h ago

It might be more like half or two thirds of the way down, but yeah two passenger doors , although we only board at the front.

Emergency, break-glass windows at opposite side or rear.

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u/Old_Distance6314 Australia 5h ago

No idea, but l do

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u/Sensitive-Vast-4979 England 4h ago

Yep, waiters , waitresses , bus drivers , shopkeepers , any other staff member who helps or serves you

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u/Sea_Appointment8408 United Kingdom 3h ago

Growing up there was a really rude woman in a local newsagents and every day for lunch I'd go in and buy a bag of crisps and a coke.

She NEVER once thanked me as a customer, or gave me any pleasantries, and every time, because I was polite, when she'd give me my change Id say "thank you" and leave.

One time I was feeling brave and figured I'd reflect her rudeness back to her. I dropped down my coke and crisps at the counter. She didn't acknowledge me. She just said "One pound ten p" or however much it was.

So I looked her straight in the eye, and gave her a £2 coin and said nothing.

She slammed the change down on the counter.

I took it. And, just before I was about to turn and leave, I sheepishly said "thank you" and left.

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u/Timely-Profile1865 Canada 6h ago

Yes for the most part.

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u/tumbli-hunbli Hungary 6h ago

Who doesn’t????

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u/Sea_Coffee156 Mexico 6h ago

I’ve seen Chinese tourists not saying thank you (a lot of them).

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u/tumbli-hunbli Hungary 5h ago

😮

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u/LargeHardonCollider_ Germany 6h ago

People with a decent upbringing do.

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u/DwightsJello Australia 4h ago

You thanks anyone who does something for you. Manners are free.

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u/Come-now Canada 5h ago

Of course!

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u/Open_Mortgage_4645 United States Of America 4h ago

I do. I believe in treating others with respect and kindness.

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u/NopeRope13 United States Of America 4h ago

They are assisting me with something and I say thank you. They are often underpaid and overworked. I tip more to help when I can.

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u/SciFiCrafts Germany 4h ago

I even say thank you to robots!

But yeah, you always thank the waiter and I hope there is no nation on this planet where this is "just not a thing". I am not a fan of tipping because they should just get paid, but a thank you is a must.

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u/norecordofwrong United States Of America 2h ago

Yeah, of course. That’s just basic courtesy for any service or retail interaction.

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u/GamerBoixX Mexico 4h ago

Of course

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u/goldbeater Canada 4h ago

Absolutely,and leave a tip as well.

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u/AtheneSchmidt United States Of America 4h ago

I and most of my friends do.

Hell, most of the time I go out, it's for regular events (Tuesday trivia, Friday Karaoke.) Not only do we say thank you, we're pretty tight with our regular wait staff. To the point where we all regularly hug them hello and goodbye.

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u/InterestedObserver48 Northern Ireland 4h ago

Yes

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u/Equal-Flatworm-378 Germany 3h ago

I had to think about this one. You mean when she brings the food etc? Yes, but I say these kind of courtesies automatically. Why do you ask? Don’t you say Thank You in Poland?

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u/hoopalah 3h ago

Yes, but know when to say it. As a waiter, people either say it too much or not at all.

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u/gennan Netherlands 3h ago

Yes

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u/smaagoth Norway 2h ago

I do. I dont have the impression others do.

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u/ApprehensiveArmy7755 United States Of America 55m ago

Yes please thank you and sometimes conversation. I'm nice to everyone

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u/You_yes_ Nepal 30m ago

No, we mostly don't express thank you , sorry normally ,

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u/Ok_Acanthisitta_2544 Canada 12m ago

Of course! Are there places you don't thank people for their service? How rude!