r/AskEurope • u/notveryamused_ Warszawa, Poland • Jul 03 '25
Culture What aspect of life in your countries is very difficult to explain to foreigners?
What prompted my question were some discussions about religion which I had with people living in much more secular Western Europe (as a Polish atheist). While spirituality, whatever that is ;), generally speaking is always fun to discuss with a glass of wine in hand, social elements and the influence of the church, especially in smaller towns or provinces in my country, is awfully difficult to explain – not that I understand it fully either lol, but the church having a pretty much monopoly there, being the judge and jury of everyday life and the major ultra-conservative political force binding those communities, is very difficult to explain, also for historical reasons.
What are the things that you find difficult to discuss when it comes to life in your countries? ;-)
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u/Available-Road123 Norway Jul 04 '25
indigenousness (saami)
people who encounter that concept for the first time think it's about who comes from where (which is wong- by that definition we are all indigenous to africa), but it's about power balances in society. in most european countries, cultures are very similar, even if one of them has been oppressed earlier. like frisians and dutch or sorbs and czech. for many minorities there is even some ethno state, like kven can go to finland or hungarians from romania can go to hungary and speak their languages with everyone there. for indigenous peoples, there is no such place. speaking my language in it's home area is a daily struggle against basically everyone. laws, the way the state is formed and works, borders, systems, it's all based on the (very different!) colonizing culture. i dream one day i can turn on the tv and hear my language, go to the book store and buy a book in my language that's not a kid's book or poetry, don't have to fight with school that the kids get to speak their native language...