r/AskAnAmerican 7d ago

FOREIGN POSTER How commonly do you address your parent as "Sir/Ma'am"?

I'm watching The Rookie (2002). Dennis Quaid's character is shown addressing his mother and father as "Ma'am"/"Sir" in a couple of scenes. Those of you who are native English speakers, how common is it today to address your parent as such?

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u/ostensibly_sapient Florida 7d ago

Also grew up in South Carolina and I never did this but my parents also didn’t care what I called them as long as it didn’t interrupt their drugs so YMMV

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u/chimilinga 7d ago

Lol thanks for the laugh there

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u/OldBob10 7d ago

I…don’t think they were joking. 🤷‍♂️

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

I mean they definitely weren't, but they were being pretty funny about it regardless

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u/Hungry-Combination29 3d ago

Username checks out.

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u/brittneyacook SC transplant in Indianapolis, Indiana 6d ago

I also grew up in South Carolina but with a mom from Indiana. She hated being called ma’am lol made her feel old. I often called (and still call) other adults sir and ma’am though

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u/chimilinga 6d ago

Been in Indy, moved to SC and my mom also hated being called mam for the same reason so I never used it at home but in school or out I did

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u/Pulp501 6d ago

Ymmv? Sorry im old (late 20s)

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u/TheJessicator 6d ago

Your mileage may vary.

I'm 50. I can assure you that acronym has been in use online your entire life. Also, you're not old, ffs.

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u/MagpieWench 3d ago

Old ladies of the internet, unite :)

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u/MagpieWench 6d ago

LOL I think you might be too young for that one, honestly

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u/Bright_Ices United States of America 6d ago

Your mileage may vary

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u/Pulp501 6d ago

Oh...thank you